Were you attracted to your mate at first or did he/she grow on you?

Me and my boyfriend met in a business class. There were 135 students in the room. I never thought from that crowd I would meet him. The professor assigned us groups. He was in mine. The first time our eyes met we fell in love with each other. But then for the entire quarter we did not try to approach each other because somehow we believed that we disliked each other. At the end of the quarter, we finally talked when we were asked to act out an office scene. That day we felt comfortable enough to talk. After our finals were over, we sat on a bench and talked 3 hours about everything under the sun. However, it still took one week for us to confess what we had for each other. And now we are a very happy couple. He makes me float. He makes me smile. In fact, he changed my entire outlook on life. I feel I went through a rebirth because of him. He definitely has the personality of a king.

Though My girlfriend is veryyy beautiful, i was never attracted to her because of her looks. whenever she talked with me, i always used to answer honestly and like a friend. then one she was busy seeing a program on the tv when i asked for her attention for i wanted to say something. she immediately sprang up, came closer, and by looking into my eyes asked me to say what i wanted to.I hesitated at first and thinking this as a joke of some kind, i told her that she is very nice and beautiful and thats when she told me that she loves me. the most common mistake people do is, they first go for looks. I think we should always look for inner beauty of a man/woman, not the outer beauty because one day or the other the outer beauty fades..but the inner beauty never

I was on a double date in a half-ton truck. I was asked to go along to make it a foursome. We went to a movie, and later parked under a tree. I had a strange feeling right from the first. A feeling that I would be seeing this girl again. She seemed just right. I remember how she cuddled up close. She smart and quick minded, I liked this too. Well sure enough we dated again, and later when she graduated from nursing school we married. This was 54 years ago. I knew right from the first date that she was my Girl!

My husband and I were instantly attracted to each other the evening we met. He was charming...funny...genuine and I felt something that I hadn't felt in a very long time. My husband was a widower when we met...I had known his late wife years before but had never met him. So, we had a lot to talk about that first night...some of it sad, some of it not.

For me my husband is my crush because of that I'm pretty because he is my first boyfriend because of that my dream come true.

Hi tanniebabe! It's good to know that there is still someone like the man you will marry. I was also not attracted to my husband the first time I met him. He was my officemate. I just had my broke up with my boyfriend when I met him. At first, I thought he was just kind of weird because he teases me a lot. He always makes me laugh. Then, one day he asked me for a date. I hesitated at first as I don't want to be in a relationship that early. I just had a recent heartbreak that is note yet completey healed. However, he was perisistent until I finally decided to try having a date with him. I enjoyed our date a lot. That was not our last date. We started dating regularly until finally I found myself falling in love with him. :)

I have been VERY happily married for almost 50 years (March). When I first met my hubby I was a very definite man hater, but I had to admit this man was different. I had been severely abused for the first 22 years of my life, mainly by three "fathers" which accounts for being a man hater. My life completely changed when I was 22 and the man who became my husband 2 years later was one of the people who helped me so much in my "new" life. We became very close friends and learned all about each other. We understood each others likes and dislikes, personalities and qualities. As we grew to respect each other and trust each other, our feelings developed. As we committed to each other on our wedding night, we knew this was a lifetime bond - and while there have been a few little problems, we have faced them together and are closer now than ever before.

Hi, tanniebabae78. Me and my husband first met on the telephone. And we hit it off right then and there. That was 10 years ago. We have been married for eight years as of now. When I first saw him in person he was not all that good looking as my other boyfriends were. But still, I was very interested in him. He treated me so kind. He did almost anything for me. He treated me like I was an queen. As time went on, I begin to deeply love him. There were often times in my marriage that I would say, to myself that I don't really love him and that I was just kidding myself. But as our relationship matured, I started to develop mutual feelings for him. We have been through some very crazy moments in our marriage. But for all of this, I just prayed and God did some changing in him for the better. I told God that he will either have to get rid of him from being with me, or either make him into the man that he would desire my husband to be. I can see that God honored my request. We are still together and the ugly ways that my husband once had with me, is diminishing as time goes by. I am very thankful for that. He really does love me and I love him. We have three beautiful children together whom we adore dearly. So, there is my life.. Thanks for sharing yours. I am glad to know that I am not the only one whom had mixed attraction feelings for the man that I wanted to pursue. Thanks and have a great day! *** I wanted to also add, when we first met, he was not all that good looking, but as time progressed, he appeared to look handsome in the face. I always wondered why.. Maybe because I see him in a whole new light.

At first I saw her .She just looked like a normal girl and didn't get the feel of love at first sight.Later she had an effect in my life.Every decision I take depends on her judgment too.After three years I came to know that I love her and and immediately I proposed her.She didn't take the decision immediately and didn't tell me the answer for almost ten months.A long story.

In my case I felt attracted to him since the first moment we met. I thought he was cute and had a lovely smile, and he was fun too. He still is, and we've been together for a long time, hoping to be even longer

I would have to say that I was attracted to George when I first met him. My inability to trust impacted greatly on how I viewed our relationship. I was reluctent even to have any kind of relationship with him, but the idea eventually grew on me because the overwelming fear of living my life completely alone squashed any doubts I might've had. While our relationship isn't ideal, I'm thankful for what we have. As long as he doesn't get drunk.

I think you have to be attracted to the person to at least give them a Chane, appearance isn't everything but it helps A LOT. For me attraction was a big thing, but I found out the hard way, she really wasn't as nicer person as she was when she was friend... it's a tough one

I first met my boyfriend when I was 13 and we had a brief, awkward relationship before splitting up and not speaking for two years! When we finally grew up and put it behind us, we realised we were made for each other and have been together for 6 years. When I was 13, I was a little girl and had no idea what I had. Now, I know.