How many son or daughter do you to have?
By emine08
@emine08 (1551)
Indonesia
January 27, 2010 6:49pm CST
Before I get married, I was wondering that I have a lot of chidren. why? because I will not feel lonely if I have a lot of children. But now, after I got married and had 2 children, my mind set change. I said to my husband, 2 is enough. how about you my friends?
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@nickgradio (42)
• Canada
4 Mar 10
There are 4 kids in my house
three girls and one boy including me
I'm the only son in my house
@Felicitus (75)
• United Arab Emirates
3 Mar 10
I would say that it will be nice to have four, that is two son and two daughters so that they have a companion for each other. But is all depends if we are lucky to have it in that manner. I believe that God's plans are not our plans.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
19 Mar 10
Good morning, Two is probably enough as hard as it is to raise them to get them the things u want them to have. I have 2 grown sons, raised them by myself & it was hard at times but wouldn't take a million for them. Wish i had been able to have more but it just wasn't meant to be. Enjoy them, they will be grown before u know it.Have a great weekend.
@junrapmian (2169)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
I have 4 kids, 2 boys and 2 girls. They are all grown-ups. Yes, I admit it was hard raising these kids because my husband and I doesn't earn so much in the beginning of our marriage but we were able to rear them properly and send them to better school.
@cintoy (1011)
• Indonesia
1 Feb 10
You sure change your mindset. Yup Children are cute (in a way) that you will want to have as many as you can.. but when you know and learn to raise them. That's the challenge.
But still, when you are able to raise them into a fine men or women, you will feel that you are very satisfied and every single thing you did in the past are paid off...^^
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@milindadvant (60)
• India
9 Mar 10
Hiiiiii friend, When you got married you realise the practicle problems of to have lot of children so your mind set changed after marriage. To think and to have are two different things. So what you thought is correct. I have also two children. Small family, happy family.