We had a fight!

Hi there friend... Sometimes we encounter those to things. We can't escape from problems and we can't avoid arguing with our partner. It happens because we don't have the same point views about everything. I think it is just a simple test on how are we going to handle such things like that. I'm proud of you as well as with your husband because you have handled your problem in a very responsible way. Life is full of twist many things might happen in a snap of finger but as long as you love each other and your goal is to have a good family nothing can break the relationship that you have now. Good luck friend and happy mylotting..

Hi tarapot, Even I have girl friend even we fight sometimes but pity on her, she loves me very much and whenever we fight she always ask me sorry for fighting with me, I am very lucky to get her you know?

..Hi tarapot.. yeah.. we once had like that even to the point that one of us get out of the house.. but after a while, we said sorry to each other and go back to being sweet again.. I guess misunderstaning will always be present in a relationship.. as they say, misunderstanding and problems are spices of life that makes it even more challenging and happier after those things have been overcome.. And it really makes relationships stronger because as days go by, we try to discover each other's personality with the help of those misunderstaning and try to avoid those things that irritates us next time around.. we also got to understand each other's weaknesses and broaden our understanding.. For me, I would term those thins as "thrilling" experiences since after that, we get thrilled gong back to memories of yesterday.. Our love get's stronger as ever.. the only thing about misunderstanding is when we can't already control ourself telling anything to each other that cold ruin the relationship permanently.. that's why many married couples end up in annulment or divorce.. It is then necessary that we know how to manage our anger and control ourselves in any circumstances.. anyhow, let's be happy..

It's normal to couples. Even if we're not yet married with my GF, we also have some fights sometimes. Two things why we still make our relationship solid, "patience and understanding". i advise to comfort your husband always.

hi! the last time we have a big fight is because of something he had hidden to me that made me distrust him. one thing that get me really bad is dishonesty especially that i am always honest to him. it made explode to anger that i can not control what i have said. i yelled till my breath almost disappear. i was really outraged. but you know what despite all of the bad words i have said about him, he never said anything bad nor he hurt me physically. he just look at me with understanding and with his eyes full of regrets of breaking my trust. he made me calm by embracing me and saying sorry. well thats our last fight and we never fight since then. i am also sorry for allowing my anger eat me and have no control of bad words. but on the other side that made us realize that trust is very important.

Its normal for a couple to have a fight, but try to avoid when there's is a chance, too much fight is not good and can lead to separation, you guys were newly wed and it takes time to adjust yourself with each other.Throwing bad words is not really good as well,respect each other even how big is the fight, control yourself from throwing bad words from each other, you may get used to it and respect will gone. Consider your partners feelings, admit when your wrong,and keep yourself calm when confronting your partner, Lastly you guys are building a family, there's a saying "TWO IS BETTER ONE" you were partners not an enemy.Try to think of all the good times you shared before you get married and you will realized how much you should care about this marriage..God bless!

I think all couples fight. It happens every now and then. But what's important is that you resolve every issue that comes your way. It's good that you are now both ok.

this is very common to partners, especially to those new in marriage life. how long have you been married? do you already have a child? having a kid in the family will keep the marriage though.

As long the fight doesn't happened everyday...every night then,the relationship will survive. Married people will have arguments from time to time and that is unavoidable. Your husband is good because he asked sorry. Some men would just expect tier wife to ask forgiveness even do they are wrong.

even boyfriend-girlfriend relationship do fight. just like you, we had big fights before and until now (sometimes). we are different individuals, that is why conflict will arise. it is very normal. i think it is not normal if both of you don't have misunderstanding. cheer up! just be an understanding wife!

You're just in your first year of your marriage, still on the period of adjustment. You still have a long way to go. You can't avoid misunderstanding, miscommunication and disagreement on some little things. It's normal in a couple who's just starting to live together. I suggest that, if these troubles comes up, try to have a hear-to-heart talk with your husband. Iron out those misunderstandings, as a girl, you should listen first to his side first, if you can talk without shouting just to hear your point, do so. Sometimes if your talking at the top of your voices, you won't reach an agreement. And what's next, you'll end up hurting physically and emotionally each other. Love and understanding should be on top of everything.

Oh that doesn't sound to good, but I am sure that you two will overcome this. Well my mom and dad have gotten into arguments before, but then it's like the next day and it's like nothing ever happened. They really love each other a lot. I'm sure that you and your partner will forgive each other. It's always best that you talk about it, so that you can work things out with your partner. Best of luck to you on this.

The key to any successful relationship is communication and respect, when you do name calling you are disrespecting each other, if you offend your partner he in retaliation will offend you back, people have to learn how to discuss things, you can have disagreements, that is totally understandable, you can expect that your partner say yes to everything you say, buy when you do have a disagreement, there shouldn't be name calling or insults. I always try to communicate everything I feel to my boyfriend, because I want him to understand why I am mad or upset, and we always try to find a solution to the problem, I always encourage him to express what is wrong, what is he feeling. I do have to say that I have been extremely blessed because my boyfriend is a very patient guy.

hi this is very very common to partners.at the fighting time very situation is very hot whenever it over all the conditions are cool. this is the secret in marriage. enjoy the life fight+love=partners

It will all pass don't worry.But you are newly married and so it owuld take quite some time to get adjusted with each other. You have been brought up in different surroundings ;obviously there would be great dissimilarity between the two of you.[Was it a love marriage?]Learn to tread carefully with each other , keep expectations low, never try to win an argument,decide to be patient, and then you will see what happens.

I think that's normal for married people, even for those who are not yet married but in a committed relationship. I have always noticed that it's always women who call it quits first, but then we do change our mind quickly. As for men, they don't call it quits at once but when they do, it's for real. So, be careful with too much fighting. We won't know if our men is getting tired of all the fighting in our household. As one tip that my boss used to say, take a mouthful of cold water and don't swallow till your head is cool when frustrated or angry. Good luck!

I think that's a usual thing between wife and husband. Fights and arguments is very usual. Me and my partner also have a fight and i throw bad words to him but I think he is very patience for accepting those word from me. Later on I will felt guilty and i am also the one who ask sorry for him.

Well,my friend,I do believe flighting is comman in relationship with partner,but I don't think fighting is the better way to express your perspect.Although you cured your relationship this time ,the bad talk,words will remind you within angain and again,in truth ,it had happened,and you can not remove it from your memory.take control of your self and don't throw tantrum. good luck to you.

Hi tarapot! There is indeed no such thing as a perfect relationship or a perfect marriage. Some people say that the adjustment period between newly-wed couples usually takes 3-5 years. Having fights are normal especially when you are still getting used to each other but that must not come to a point where in you would get hurt physically.=)

Yes I do had fight with my wife but very rare but I may hurt her physically but never hurt her mentally as I know words once thrown out can't be taken back.And it pains more.So I want you to be careful about that.Because he may forgive you if u slap him but he will never for get those bad words you used for him.Sometimes it may totally spoil your marriage life.