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angelwithkids @angelwithkids (1256) • United States 1 Jan 13

Well......hubby has decided to quit drinking. Tonight we did a ceremonial dump of the alcohol in the house. He says that he's tired of being tired and the way his mood swings. woo hoo!!!!!!!! I'm on top of the world that he...

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deedee328 Angelwithkids: I am happy for you both. It is a positive thing that he decided to quit on his own. I will keep you both in my prayers. It will indeed take a lot of strength to win this battle. Keep in mind that it will also take a lot of patience and...

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christylynn41 @christylynn41 (200) • United States 1 Jan 13

I believe in instilling a good work ethic and knowing how to manage money effectively. But I am wondering if I should let me 11 year old daugther try this. Ok here's the thing she is extremely responsible and mature for her age...

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deedee328 christylynn: I say let her do it. You already say that she is pretty level-headed and talented. I would encourage her to go after her dreams. I think as long as she has a great mom like you looking after her best interests, keeping her grounded and making...

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C @ShyBear88 (59347) • Sterling, Virginia 31 Dec 12

How many times do you bath? In the past month or so I haven't seen my sil take a bath or a shower at all. She smells bad and has been wearing the same darn outfit more then a week which makes it smell rank. My son has spit up...

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deedee328 ShyBear: I bath at least once a day. I do not understand how your sister in law could allow herself to get so nasty. As a mother, I am appalled that she would not take care of her child's hygene. Does she not realize what harm she could be causing him,...

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EternalViolet @EternalViolet (36) • United States 16 Dec 12

When thinking about being able to smoke anywhere in public places..... Who has more of a right: the smoker or the non-smoker? Why? **(please be respectful of everyone's opinion)**

smoking

smoking bans

smoking in public

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deedee328 EternalViolet: I am a smoker. However, I believe that non smokers have a right to breath clean air. I do not have a problem with regulations that ban smoking in public buildings. I do have a problem with banning smoking outside. I think that the decision to...

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FRANKOBA @FRANKOBA (34) • Nigeria 28 Nov 12

when people talk of heaven and hell, i get confused about the both of them with so many questions on my mind. one of the question that do run on my mind is the question of how real is heaven and hell. i need answers please.

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deedee328 Spicymary: I agree that many preachers and theologians overlook the importance of discussing the concept of hell. I think that far too many preach about hell being a place of eternal torture and burning. I do not believe hell is such a place.I think that hell...

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FRANKOBA @FRANKOBA (34) • Nigeria 28 Nov 12

when people talk of heaven and hell, i get confused about the both of them with so many questions on my mind. one of the question that do run on my mind is the question of how real is heaven and hell. i need answers please.

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deedee328 Justice: I have to disagree with you. Heaven is/will be an actual place. It is not merely a state of mind as you suggest. The Bible plainly teaches that there is a heaven and that NO man deserves to be there. The Bible also says that you do not get to heaven...

1 Dec 12

fearlessgara @fearlessgara (1113) • Philippines 30 Nov 12

My family member found a new job. And they required to wear jeans and shoes. and He don't have any jeans.Now one of my neighbor which is widow give him jeans,shirt and shoes from her late husband( just died almost 1 yr now). Is it...

clothes from the dead

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deedee328 jaiho2009: I think it would only be creepy if you took the clothes off of the dead body and gave them directly to someone else. It isn't creepy if the original owner has been dead for a year. If you receive clothes second hand, you should always wash...

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fearlessgara @fearlessgara (1113) • Philippines 30 Nov 12

My family member found a new job. And they required to wear jeans and shoes. and He don't have any jeans.Now one of my neighbor which is widow give him jeans,shirt and shoes from her late husband( just died almost 1 yr now). Is it...

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deedee328 fearlessgara: I think that it is perfectly fine to accept and wear the clothes that once belonged to a now deceased person. I think that the widow who gave the clothes to your neighbor was abiding by her Christian duty to look after and provide aid to her...

1 Dec 12

rizzaspeaks @rizzaspeaks (391) • Philippines 24 Nov 12

'Coz I don't. I really don't understand why some people are so rude with gays and lesbians. I have colleagues and friends who are gays and I can say they are really good people. But there are still some who can't respect them....

discrimination

gays

judgment

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deedee328 bryanwmc: The Bible is the inspired Word of God, and in it we are told numerous times that homosexuality is a sin. It can not be any clearer than stated that man should not lie with man as he does with a woman or that homosexual acts are an abomination to...

24 Nov 12

kokomo @kokomo (1867) • Philippines 18 Nov 12

Hello fellow lotters ;-) My boyfriend and his brothers are always teasing me every time they hear me calling their mom as "Tita". They said that I should call their mom as "Mom" already because I am a girlfriend of my boyfriend...

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deedee328 kokomo: I think you have to follow your heart on this one. Perhaps you should feel honored that your boyfriends brothers feel so warmly and welcoming toward you as a perspective sister-in-law, but if you are not yet comfortable with referring to their...

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naryshkashian @naryshkashian (139) • Philippines 18 Nov 12

I am newly married and is very, very grateful that we don't get to have problems a lot, i mean with the relationship alone, I am very very very happy that my husband is very supportive and loving and caring. We're already more...

love and relkationship

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deedee328 Paper_Doll: Great advice! I would go a little further and say that you should always live at least 10 miles away from all relatives. Living right next door is too close as it allows them to know more about your everyday life than they need to know. Even the...

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naryshkashian @naryshkashian (139) • Philippines 18 Nov 12

I am newly married and is very, very grateful that we don't get to have problems a lot, i mean with the relationship alone, I am very very very happy that my husband is very supportive and loving and caring. We're already more...

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deedee328 Naryshkashian: My best advice is for each of you to remain true not only to each other, but also to who you are as individuals. I think maintaining a friendship and mutual respect are greatly important aspects to ensuring a long, happy, healthy marriage. I...

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qw86289as @qw86289as (39) • China 18 Nov 12

Went to the grandmother grandma's funeral yesterday,at the funeral will find its own elder is so many,many people have never seen,many relatives are very few contacts,I feel now in society for all work and toil,between friends and...

funeral

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deedee328 qw8629as: Fist, let me extend my condolences for your loss. It is always amazing to me to see how many people flock to such events. I have often attended funeral services for people where no one seemed to know them while they were alive, but funeral services...

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Shavkat @Shavkat (139933) • Philippines 12 Nov 12

In the bible context, it was described that how is sin started. Some people have different perceptions on this, claiming that Eve was the first who commit the sin. She persuaded Adam to eat the forbidden fruit, out of his love for...

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deedee328 Chrystalia: Yes, exactly. Thank you. I tend to look at the Bible in regards as the old and new covenants. After the death and resurrection of Christ, much of the Old Testament law did not carry over to the New Testament. If I am correct, Jesus' death opened...

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its-logos-plus-logic @flowerchilde (12529) • United States 23 Oct 12

Mankind will replace God and The Gods with government. Don't you think? The mistake we'll make is the giving over of too much power. It'll be the gods all over again (when this happens) but this time they'll have arms and...

god

gods

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deedee328 habibti320: That is your right and I respect it. However, in this country it has already been proven that when you take God out of the government, people suffer losses. It has also been proven that the more power you give to others, the more they will take...

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its-logos-plus-logic @flowerchilde (12529) • United States 23 Oct 12

Mankind will replace God and The Gods with government. Don't you think? The mistake we'll make is the giving over of too much power. It'll be the gods all over again (when this happens) but this time they'll have arms and...

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deedee328 bestboy19: Very well stated! I think Christians are giving up too much power to government and society. We do this when we refuse to stand up for what we believe and stand against the things we know that are not in accordance with what God has commanded us to...

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its-logos-plus-logic @flowerchilde (12529) • United States 23 Oct 12

Mankind will replace God and The Gods with government. Don't you think? The mistake we'll make is the giving over of too much power. It'll be the gods all over again (when this happens) but this time they'll have arms and...

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deedee328 habibti320: I disagree. Too many people are depending on the government to cure all the ills of this world. As long as man is in charge of things, things will only get worse. Government will gain more and more control over the lives of its citizenry. I...

14 Nov 12

Shavkat @Shavkat (139933) • Philippines 12 Nov 12

In the bible context, it was described that how is sin started. Some people have different perceptions on this, claiming that Eve was the first who commit the sin. She persuaded Adam to eat the forbidden fruit, out of his love for...

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deedee328 mythociate: Really? That is the best you can come up with?

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