deedee328

@deedee328 (1122)

United States • Age 56

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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supportive wife

angelwithkids @angelwithkids (1256) • United States 1 Jan 13

Well......hubby has decided to quit drinking. Tonight we did a ceremonial dump of the alcohol in the house. He says that he's tired of being tired and the way his mood swings. woo hoo!!!!!!!! I'm on top of the world that he...

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deedee328 Angelwithkids: I am happy for you both. It is a positive thing that he decided to quit on his own. I will keep you both in my prayers. It will indeed take a lot of strength to win this battle. Keep in mind that it will also take a lot of patience and...

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Would let your 11 year old daughter do it?

christylynn41 @christylynn41 (200) • United States 1 Jan 13

I believe in instilling a good work ethic and knowing how to manage money effectively. But I am wondering if I should let me 11 year old daugther try this. Ok here's the thing she is extremely responsible and mature for her age...

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deedee328 christylynn: I say let her do it. You already say that she is pretty level-headed and talented. I would encourage her to go after her dreams. I think as long as she has a great mom like you looking after her best interests, keeping her grounded and making...

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how many times do you bath

C @ShyBear88 (59347) • Sterling, Virginia 31 Dec 12

How many times do you bath? In the past month or so I haven't seen my sil take a bath or a shower at all. She smells bad and has been wearing the same darn outfit more then a week which makes it smell rank. My son has spit up...

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deedee328 ShyBear: I bath at least once a day. I do not understand how your sister in law could allow herself to get so nasty. As a mother, I am appalled that she would not take care of her child's hygene. Does she not realize what harm she could be causing him,...

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Who has more of a right?

EternalViolet @EternalViolet (36) • United States 16 Dec 12

When thinking about being able to smoke anywhere in public places..... Who has more of a right: the smoker or the non-smoker? Why? **(please be respectful of everyone's opinion)**

smoking

smoking bans

smoking in public

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deedee328 EternalViolet: I am a smoker. However, I believe that non smokers have a right to breath clean air. I do not have a problem with regulations that ban smoking in public buildings. I do have a problem with banning smoking outside. I think that the decision to...

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IS is ok accept clothes from which the owner is already dead

fearlessgara @fearlessgara (1113) • Philippines 30 Nov 12

My family member found a new job. And they required to wear jeans and shoes. and He don't have any jeans.Now one of my neighbor which is widow give him jeans,shirt and shoes from her late husband( just died almost 1 yr now). Is it...

clothes from the dead

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deedee328 fearlessgara: I think that it is perfectly fine to accept and wear the clothes that once belonged to a now deceased person. I think that the widow who gave the clothes to your neighbor was abiding by her Christian duty to look after and provide aid to her...

1 Dec 12

Do I need to call my boyfriend's mother a mom too?

kokomo @kokomo (1867) • Philippines 18 Nov 12

Hello fellow lotters ;-) My boyfriend and his brothers are always teasing me every time they hear me calling their mom as "Tita". They said that I should call their mom as "Mom" already because I am a girlfriend of my boyfriend...

mom

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deedee328 kokomo: I think you have to follow your heart on this one. Perhaps you should feel honored that your boyfriends brothers feel so warmly and welcoming toward you as a perspective sister-in-law, but if you are not yet comfortable with referring to their...

19 Nov 12

marriage: advice anyone?

naryshkashian @naryshkashian (139) • Philippines 18 Nov 12

I am newly married and is very, very grateful that we don't get to have problems a lot, i mean with the relationship alone, I am very very very happy that my husband is very supportive and loving and caring. We're already more...

love and relkationship

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deedee328 Naryshkashian: My best advice is for each of you to remain true not only to each other, but also to who you are as individuals. I think maintaining a friendship and mutual respect are greatly important aspects to ensuring a long, happy, healthy marriage. I...

19 Nov 12

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Grandps mother's funeral

qw86289as @qw86289as (39) • China 18 Nov 12

Went to the grandmother grandma's funeral yesterday,at the funeral will find its own elder is so many,many people have never seen,many relatives are very few contacts,I feel now in society for all work and toil,between friends and...

funeral

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deedee328 qw8629as: Fist, let me extend my condolences for your loss. It is always amazing to me to see how many people flock to such events. I have often attended funeral services for people where no one seemed to know them while they were alive, but funeral services...

19 Nov 12

Obamacare Questions I Can't Find Answers To

NailTech @NailTech (6874) • United States 11 Nov 12

These might be some dumb inquiries but please bear with me. I have some reasons for asking. So about Obamacare, I'm still confused. If someone makes less than $9,500. per year at their job but still has some money saved up in...

purchasing health care

questions

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deedee328 NailTech: As my mother used to say, there are no dumb questions. I doubt that very many people understand Obamacare and what it will end up meaning for the people. I do not know but I would assume if they can find a way to make you pay for health care it will...

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Who started the SIN, Adam or Eve?

Shavkat @Shavkat (139933) • Philippines 12 Nov 12

In the bible context, it was described that how is sin started. Some people have different perceptions on this, claiming that Eve was the first who commit the sin. She persuaded Adam to eat the forbidden fruit, out of his love for...

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deedee328 Shavkat: I believe that each of them should bare the responsibility for their own actions. God told both Adam and Eve not to take from the tree. Both were disobedient. Eve should not allowed herself to be swayed by the serpent and Adam should have also...

12 Nov 12

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Man Will Exchange God and The Gods With Government

its-logos-plus-logic @flowerchilde (12529) • United States 23 Oct 12

Mankind will replace God and The Gods with government. Don't you think? The mistake we'll make is the giving over of too much power. It'll be the gods all over again (when this happens) but this time they'll have arms and...

god

gods

government

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deedee328 flowerchilde: Mankind has already started to replace God. We have already allowed the government to take control over things. We no longer demand that our leaders be Christian believers of Christ. We have allowed society to dictate morals and ethics. Look at...

12 Nov 12

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Have A Friendship With Your Ex...

Bluebell18 @Bluebell18 (636) • United States 12 Nov 12

My Fellow MyLotters... This is a bit tricky. But, as many know, I'm in a committed relationship with my current boyfriend. I still have contact with my ex, however. We remain friends and he knows that I'm no longer single. He...

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deedee328 Bluebell: I say that the fact that you are asking for advice on this matter is a clear indication that you should not continue to have a friendship with the ex. If you feel that it is wrong to think of the ex, then, it is wrong to think of the ex. I think...

12 Nov 12

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I salute them

bhanusb @bhanusb (5709) • India 12 Nov 12

Obama has made a history. He is the first black who became President of United States. He made another history to become consecutively second term President of US. Once it was unthinkable that a black American could be the...

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deedee328 bhanusb: A president being elected to a second term is not a new thing. He was re elected because older white people do not carry the majority of votes anymore I think that people who want to keep throwing back to the days of racial inequalities such as you...

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See What Christians Miss by Not 'Submitting to Allah'?

Uncle Jay, Finding More Value in Your Machine @mythociate (21432) • Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 12 Nov 12

Christians think everything is 'all about themselves.' The Al Qur`an has this to say about 'the grace that Our Father--the g-d Allah--gives' (003.128) "Not for thee, (but for Allah), is the decision: Whether He turn in...

grace

not about you

up to god

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deedee328 mythociate: As a Christian, I can tell you that I do not feel like I am missing anything! My God says that if I believe on Him and submit to Him, I am forgiven of my sins and will have eternal life with Him. Christ died on the cross to ensure my...

12 Nov 12

Hope for the president to be assassinated

Ladycwells @Ladycwells (96) • United States 12 Nov 12

According to The Root, The Daily News is reporting Denise Helms, 22, posted on Facebook that "Another 4 years of this N*****, maybe he'll be assassinated this term." and is now being investigated by the Secret Service. She also...

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deedee328 Ladycwells: I think that this is another case of people over reacting. I think that this young lady's statements, though disrespectful and distasteful, are within her right to make. If she feels this way, she should be entitled to say so without being fired...

12 Nov 12

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Do I Really Have To Say It?

adforme @adforme (2114) 10 Nov 12

There is a way to say things. It can be either politically correct or a blatant statement. Now not everyone needs to know my opinions, but for some of those I choose to share them with, I do so my way. I am going to admit that the...

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deedee328 adforme: I believe we should all express ourselves as respectfully as possible to all people, but I also think that the idea of political correctness goes too far sometimes. I for one get sick and tired of these politicians who speak their minds and when...

12 Nov 12

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I'm not totally useless

moveadlung76 @moveadlung76 (671) • Malaysia 12 Nov 12

I'm Not Totally Useless I Can Be Use As A Bad Example Is really true for the quote above, even it sound little humor. Everyone in this world got it value, just a different is high or low only. You are not useless, you...

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deedee328 moveadlung: I firmly believe that God created all humans, and as He did not create anything useless, we are all valuable. I also think that those who call someone else useless have issues within themselves. I don't think one person has more value over any...

12 Nov 12

Men are like floor tiles

moveadlung76 @moveadlung76 (671) • Malaysia 12 Nov 12

Men Are Likes Floor Tiles If You Lay Them Right The First Time You Can Walk All Over Them For Years Is true, just treat your men right and if your men feel confrontable, you can walk all over them for years just...

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deedee328 moveadlung: Though there may be some truth in that statement, I think that it is wrong to make a man or anyone for that matter, think that you care for them or try to manipulate them into doing what you want them to do. You should treat others with kindness...

12 Nov 12