marriage: advice anyone?

Do not live with your in-laws

MAinly a man always search his mother and lover in his wife. Because guys love to eat good food and they may in search of their mom's recipe, and always want to make love with his wife as a lover and everyday in new mood so try to being his mother and lover and make your life beautiful

Naryshkashian: My best advice is for each of you to remain true not only to each other, but also to who you are as individuals. I think maintaining a friendship and mutual respect are greatly important aspects to ensuring a long, happy, healthy marriage. I also believe that following the biblical mandates prescribed for each spouse will keep your life together peaceful and happy as well as make your marriage the most beautiful union that it can possibly be. Other than that, continue to be his friend, confidant, and biggest fan.

there are so many advices which are floating around and one must need to take proper care always

Don't be too confident with that harmonious relationship you got now , still no big problems because no kids yet , so meaning less responsibilities but when kids are already around , there arise some conflicts and more responsibilities. No such thing as marriage made in heaven. All two individuals will work together , they are like a team .Problems would be arising from here and there , don't get panic , that is but natural and it made the bond stronger. One thing that will make your relationship a beautiful and a successful one is to let God be the center of your relationship. If God is in both of you all will fall into place then . Believe me.. All the best for you both :) God bless you both !

HI! Nice to hear that you have a wonderful marriage. My simple advice, keep doing what you both are doing right now. Obviously you are on the right track. Also, when people get married, they tend to lose each other's private space thus sometimes things like that can cause arguments and problems. Of course now that you are married, you think as one right? But what I'm saying is that, at least give each other sometime some spaces, so that you won't bored and tired of each other. Here'e to many more merry year to come for the both of you! Cheers!!! :)

You will get marriage tested with your life time.Little trouble and different is usual in your family.You both should care and love each other.Try to always smile to your husband.

Congratulations to you and your husband!! I've never been married but i'm married to my 6 year old son who means the whole world to me. I'm not really sure what it would be like married to someone. but what i understand and know that marriage must be a lifetime commitment. COMMUNICATION is a very effective key. DO NOT TAKE AWAY YOUR INDIVIDUALITY. you and your husband is different. you need to go out with your friends and spend some time alone so is he. but you guys need to grow up together. you are one... Take care of each other...

First of all congrats for the same. Do you know the great mantra of keeping your married life happy is that you should shouwered your love on your hubby, never give him the chance to complaint about your behaviour and see that you have the faith on him. Keep faith, trust and confidence on each other which is the healthy and best weapon to maintain the good relationship

i am single so that i have no good advices for you for this case but i think you do the same as what your husband does, loving, caring him...with all your heart..and marriage life just runs. don't worry a lot, with love all will be alright.

marriage is hard because both positive and negative persons and things in it but one time when you decide to lock yourself should be able to accept anything else. I'm glad that things worked out where you are and everything is normal and happy what could be better than being able to enjoy peace of love for your husband. I think the most important thing is to have a balance between you and your husband. because there is nothing better than to control it and make concessions in order to live a happy and wonderful. and keep going forward. good day I wish you much happiness!

I feel as a wife, cooking well is very important. If you cook well, you and your husband and also your future children can be healthy. Second, always try your best to make your house clean and cozy. No one like a mess place to live in. Next, having a child can make your life more interesting, but at present, you are newly married and you can consider it later. Just my opinion, have a nice day. Happy new wedding!

You must love each other as if their is no tommorow. Prove to him that you are lucky having him. Always be there when he is down. And whatever happened to him just love him til the rest of your life.

Love each other and accept your partner condition no matter what. Each one has strength and weakness anyway, after marriage you have to accept both. If something is not pleasing to you, try to fix it in the good way so it won't hurt him. Communicate well each other, Keep all issues discussed properly, if there is a problem do not consider yourself the most correct. Bring your vision and mission with a partner. Giving advice to each other, try to understand the feeling of your partner when there are difficulties or problems.

The marriage is always a very complicated issue. It is hard to say how to make it long-lasting. But I think the trust is the base. As it can avoid many fights if you trust each other.

Marriage is built by two person. It can not work out fine if only one is doing his part. Both should have equal responsibilities. An open communication is very valuable. When one is mad, the other one should sit down and listen. When the other has finished saying his side, then the other one should tell her reaction to it. Understand each other's feelings. Give some space to have a "me" space. Although you have been united, you are your own individual. Build your relationship in trust. Do not do something that will destroy your trust. Once trust is broken, it might be difficult to bring back your connection. And most of all, love each other not only during your best times, but also be there for each other during your worst.

Congrats for marriage friend mutual understanding is most important part of our married life. You should also give same support and love to your husband some time situation arise he will not agree with you on any thing then dont try to argue with him but explain in another manner or say emotionally then I trust definitely he will agree. Spend the money according to income of your husband dont demand costly things if he not bear. Because money is not important in love.

Don't you think it's already a lot you have? Why always more and more? Any idea what your marriage will look like in 1 or 5 or 10 or 20 years? I hope your husband will be the same loving, caring and suportive person then. As long as you both know what you have I don't think there is much you should change. Give eachother quality time, real attention and keep communicating and asking if you do understand what the other person means. But also: stay yourself! Trouble starts as soon as you pretend you are different from who/what you are.