do you hate gays?
By rizzaspeaks
@rizzaspeaks (391)
Philippines
November 24, 2012 3:25am CST
'Coz I don't.
I really don't understand why some people are so rude with gays and lesbians. I have colleagues and friends who are gays and I can say they are really good people. But there are still some who can't respect them. There's this someone who hate gays, she said they are "trash". I guess it's not just right to put judgment on these people. They are human beings too and they deserves respect!
I believe they are strong people. That despite being aware of the world's judgment on them, they aren't afraid to show who they are. They are talented and creative too..but why would people hate them?
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28 responses
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
24 Nov 12
I do not hate human beings. However I do not like the homosexual or lesbian lives;the and I do not approve or consider them better then everyone else. I do not condone their way of living. I think for many it is tragic as they may have been brought into it by being raped or abused by older men. In other words, I will not put them on a pedestal and say that they are more creative and talented then other people. It is their lifestyle.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
24 Nov 12
Maybe this could be reversed, and I should ask, "Do you hate non-homosexuals and non-lesbians? Then at least we can get an honest answer or do you love your homosexual or lesbian family member more then your non-homosexual or non-lesbian family member. That is what hurts, that you probably would.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
26 Nov 12
I do not hate people but I do not like the idea that homosexuals and lesbians are smarter and more creative then anyone else. I did know a young man whose brother was homosexual and killed himself. I also knew a business man who was also and when I got Cypriots about a certain nightclub ( back in the late sixties) he warned me about it. I think everyone knew about his preferences, but then there was no boasting. You have to treat all,people equally and not give one group on a pedestal. N I also do not like that if a boy was abused by a man that he is a true homosexual who loves it. Otis sort of thinking that a married man and woman is classed like a girl who was sold Ito marriage as thousands of years ago, yet this is the argument put forth.
By the way, I am very creative but I am not s lesbian.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
24 Nov 12
Hi suspenseful, Do you consider yourself better than a homosexual? I love all family members and friends equally. Sometimes we have to be a little more understanding towards gays and lesbians because they are treated so badly by those in society who do not understand that there is nothing wrong with being gay. History has shown us that many of the great poets, authors, artists and composers were gay. Blessings.
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@marguicha (222797)
• Chile
24 Nov 12
I don`t hate white, black, yellow or checkered people. I don`t hate believers or non believers. I don`t hate babies, teen or old people. I could go on forever. But to answer your question, I don`t hate men, women ar gays. I respect people in general. I don`t think that a person`s genre must get in between me and that person. I have issues (that have more to do with a wish for the law to take care of them) with people who harm others. I don`t like violent people in general and I don`t like to talk with bigots.
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@rizzaspeaks (391)
• Philippines
26 Nov 12
That' right.
What matters is you know you are not harming anyone physically and emotionally. Besides, respect is not just proven by the mouth but by the mind as well.
@miyazaki12 (429)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
Hi there! Yes. It is really kind'a sad how some people look down on homosexuals. They are people after all. I am a Christian and we believe that God created only men and women. However, me and my church also believe that all men should be treated equal.
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@marguicha (222797)
• Chile
24 Nov 12
How is it possible that your God created only men and women? Who created gay people? Are any other people left out from God`s creation? How about evil people?
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@prashu228 (37524)
• India
24 Nov 12
marguicha,
This is really good one, yes of course who created the the rest of the people?
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@rizzaspeaks (391)
• Philippines
26 Nov 12
I guess Miyazaki is referring to gender, either a male or a female. A gay is aware that his gender is male and the lesbian is still a female. We are not talking about transgenders here, anyway. And I don't think it's proper to question God's creation. Being a gay/lesbian is a choice, a preference. Men and women can either be evil or not, it's a choice to do bad or good.
Is there anyone born gay? Even doctors never sees a gay inside a mother's womb. It's just a person's preference. And so, everyone should be respected according to his preference. The bottom line is, nobody has the right to condemn anyone, may he/she is a gay, lesbian, man or woman. We are all humans.
@heaytheblogger (2876)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
True that! people who are homophobic are people who sees old perception of the society. Homosexuality is not a crime nor a disease, nor a lifestyle, it's about being real to who you are to and what you feel, People who doesn't brace such persons are people who are trapped in stone age.
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@rizzaspeaks (391)
• Philippines
26 Nov 12
Yes, it's never a crime nor a disease. Guess people should respect these people regardless of era/ age.
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
24 Nov 12
No i don't hate . But some behave too rude ,they ask for money and demand for it. This happened with me few times. They are not ready to listen to us. what should i do?
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@rizzaspeaks (391)
• Philippines
26 Nov 12
Gays/lesbians demand money? Why would they do such? Did you owe them?
'Coz here in my country, it's usually the gays/lesbians who were financially abused by users. There are bad guys who'll stick with gays and would even hurt them if they don't finance them.
Some gays/lesbians are not that strong when it comes to saying "no" to their partners. Such that they are often abused. Still I believe, there is karma for these users.
@mhaiXCs10s (619)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
Those who hate gays have a personality disorder. They keep on discriminating people and make a big out of deal with others life. I do know some people who are gays and lesbians too. I'm not a kind of person who make a big issue out of the life of others. Well, sadly there are people who are so judgemental.
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@rizzaspeaks (391)
• Philippines
26 Nov 12
Maybe that's true. They who put judgment on these people have personality disorder. There's no reason to discriminate these people who choose to be true to themselves. They are a lot better than those who pretend to be righteous and flawless.
@luntian_grace (1373)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
no i love them!
i love my lesbian sister, my lesbian cousin and my two gay brothers and gay cousin. i always think that we are blessed with such colorful family and i love every moment with them. they are all wonderful people and those rude people that hate them tell what type of people they are. they are nothing but insecure people because they need to tell rude things to others so they can feel that they are normal.
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@rizzaspeaks (391)
• Philippines
26 Nov 12
I also have a gay cousin and yes, he is accepted by everyone:)
Guess there are just people who sees their creativity negatively. Maybe you're right, they tell them rude things 'coz they want to prove to themselves they are normal and righteous.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
25 Nov 12
I think that people will hate what they don;t underatand. we are so judgmental of each other. If we just give people a chance to show what they are all about this world could be so different.
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@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
hi rizza,
LGBT are humans also have feelings and rights
My best friend is a Lesbian I am proud and adore her a lot gay people are fun to be with.
happy mylotting
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@rizzaspeaks (391)
• Philippines
26 Nov 12
True. These people are really good companions. They will make you laugh very hard. They make us healthy inside, keeping us away from stress:)
@rubrub (166)
• Philippines
25 Nov 12
It's sad to know that a lot of people still don't accept people like them :(
Personally, i don't hate and i never hated gays or lesbians. Well, there's no reason to hate them, right? No matter what they wear, no matter how they speak, they are still human like us and deserve to be respected and treated fairly.
As long as they are not doing anything bad, there's no reason for us to hate them. Hopefully one day, people would realize it.
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@qw86289as (39)
• China
24 Nov 12
I don't,everyone has their own way of life,special interests.Like I like network game.And they did not infringe the interests of others.
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@rizzaspeaks (391)
• Philippines
26 Nov 12
Each to his own. Whatever makes you happy, you should go for it:)
@graysky (132)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
no,i dont hate gays.for me they are true people,they express what they want to express,they say what they want to say and they do whatever they want to do without having the fear of being judged and unaccepted by people around them.they are humans they have feelings too,though sometimes most of them are getting out of line,they still need respect.
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@rizzaspeaks (391)
• Philippines
26 Nov 12
Agree with you. They are true people, and are strong despite knowing the criticisms they might face. Some are just getting out of control but it doesn't follow that they shouldn't be respected.
@olivz2012 (50)
• Philippines
25 Nov 12
Shame on those who disrespected the gays or lesbians. I share the same idea with you Rizza. I happened to enroll a course The Theology of Human Sexuality during my Theological formation year. You knew what we've found out? They are victims of malpractices and imbalance society. Absenty either father or mother because of work abroad, abusive father and many other abnormal situations and practices. So why hate them if you can admit them to help them realize their own calling in life. Besides whoever they are whatever their preferences in life, they are still our brothers and sisters. Human beings like you.
@glenng01 (71)
• Philippines
25 Nov 12
There are many reasons why some people hate gays or lesbians or bisexuals or homosexuals in general. It could be rooted from some personal experience, teachings from religion or they just can't admit that they themselves are also gays or homosexuals making them trash talk gays as a form of defense mechanism. I, on the other hand, don't hate gays. In fact, I even admire them. They even contribute more to the society. I don't pity gays, I pity those who hate gays cause everytime they'd see gays, they'll be stressing out and it's unhealthy.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
24 Nov 12
Hi rizzaspeaks, I don't hate gays either, in fact those that I know are wonderful people. The people who hate gays,call them trash and like to beat up on them are usually those who are unsure of their own sexuality. Gays and Lesbians scare them because they know that they too, have gay feeling and they hate the fact that some people are determined to be themselves, come what may. Some have parents who are fundamentalist Christians, or are fundamentalist in some other religion and have heard only bad things about gays. No one should hate and there is nothing wrong with being homosexual, always remember that no matter what people tell you. Science has shown that gays and lesbians are born that way. Blessings.
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@Cutie18f (9551)
• Philippines
24 Nov 12
Many people, especially those with the "holier than thou" attitude, are quick to judge others. They have such very narrow-minded notions of other people who do not live and behave like them. Well, this type of people must be ignored and not listened to. They are so close-minded they are not worth our time.
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@atv818 (1980)
• United Arab Emirates
24 Nov 12
Since I'm Catholic, gays are not encouraged to be gays. I don't know how to convince my best friend to become a real man for the sake of a good after life. I know that he tried several times but the calling to become a woman is just simply overpowering.
Regardless of this fact, I accept him for what she is. I just hope that God will forgive her since she has a pure and loving heart!
@bryanwmc (1051)
• Malaysia
24 Nov 12
I am just curious, mind you ,it is not a challenge, wondering if there is anything in the bible that you know of which categorically states that GOD says that it is a sin to be gay.. or is it mainly priest talk? There may be ,or not, i really don't know,
@deedee328 (1122)
• United States
25 Nov 12
bryanwmc:
The Bible is the inspired Word of God, and in it we are told numerous times that homosexuality is a sin. It can not be any clearer than stated that man should not lie with man as he does with a woman or that homosexual acts are an abomination to God. I will be happy to give you specific Scripture references if you would like. The forbidding of homosexualiy comes from God, not just the priests.
@kyle2krystel (2489)
• Japan
24 Nov 12
I never hate gays, most of my friends are gays and I think every gay or person has different perspectives and attitude too.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
24 Nov 12
I have no problem with anyone at all. I don't think it is right for anyone to judge others. There is only one judge and it is definitely NOT me. No one is perfect so no one should judge anyone else! I have friends and family that are gay. They are still people. =)
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@rizzaspeaks (391)
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
Yes, they are still human like anyone of us. It's not the way they were born, it's the way they choose their actions.