If You Caught Your Hubby/Partner Wearing Your Clothes How Would You React?

Hi Janey, We have a famous lawyer here who's a man but now is a woman. He doesnt look like a woman and he's not a pretty sight all dressed up as a woman with long hair and make up and all. He's married to a woman as his "change" happened AFTER his marriage. She says it doesnt bother her at all. It didnt me at first but then as I got to look at him and you can tell he's a man dressed up as a woman, he has a low voice also so its very weird. I think only a mother could go along with this or someone who loves unconditionally. For me, I think id lose respect maybe. Why show yourself that way when you look .......like a clown!! Ive seen some TV and some look really good, those are the ones id like to share make up secrets with lol. I cant even have my husband wear my wool scarf if he's going out with the dog, so I dont think he'd want to wear any of my clothes....besides they wouldnt fit him lol

I wold be upset because he didn't ask first! The cloths are mine , nit his. If he needs women's clothes then I would help him buy his own!

Let me see. If he rips them, he pays for them. Anyway I am larger then my husband and the clothes would fall off of them. I also feel very uncomfortable wearing jeans with the button on the wrong way and I doubt he would look good in ladies clothes. I would be rolling on the floor laughing my head off. Cannot imagine, he with his hairy body and all.

First, he is always bigger than me. So I wear his clothes. When I gain weight, he does, too. So I end up with his clothes. He's 5 feet 11 inches tall and I'm 5 feet 3, so he's going to wear what of mine?

I believe I would laugh my *ss off because he alot more muscular then me so he would rip my clothes... I will have to say he has wore my jogging pants before because his was not clean.... It is OK if it is not the Hanes Her Way ones..... I just laugh at him and let him go.... He does not care... He just thinks they are a clean pair of jogging pants.....

even before the other sexes emerged, it's not unusual for the wife to wear some of the husband's clothing and vice versa. but of course, a purely female piece of clothing would be crazy on a man. what i am saying are, shirts and pants, coats and sweaters, windbreakers and pullovers, and a lot of clothing items that could invariably be worn by any of the female or male kind...

After being married to my wonderful husband for 50 years (next month) I'd know it wasn't him. I would 1000% (no that's not a typo) guarantee that he wouldn't do it - not even for a fancy dress party.

Like most transvestites I have been one as long as I can remember. I told my wife before we married and she said she would rather I did not but she would accept that as part of my character. When I was slimmer I could wear her clothes and she let me wear her nurses uniform at times. As you can see from my name I have been trained as a maid and at times I have worked as a maid mainly for two ladies who live locally both of whom my wife knows. I have made a TV program about being a male maid and my wife and daughter were in the program. Just about everyone we know knows about me working as a maid from time to time and that has never been a problem

I'm old fashioned for a 32 year old. I long for the days when men were men, and women were women. I'm not attracted to similarities, but differences. I have no interest in a women dressing up as a man. So if you sport the idea of having a guy that acts like a girl, so you can share make-up tips and such, that's your call. For me, tom girls are on my banned list. Only women who act like WOMEN.

Hi Jane, I know my hubby so well that he'll not go this far as it relates to wearning my clothes. just in case he will, i will find it funny and even ask him to try some other clothes of mine and see what fits him right...what color matches his skin tone and also the style. it will be a fun time for both of us. i will treat it as his "MOMENT". so, no problem with me. i am exposed with gays, transvestite, transgender and even lesbians...i have lots of friends who are gay and this is not anymore an issue for me. i will be a supportive wife.

i had a bad experience of wearing my wife's bra, just to make her smile cause she's mad at me, while she's dressing up to go to work, she hit me with her shoe that almost broke my ribs, but she's smilling though..

I have caught my WIFE wearing My Underwear to Shorts/tee shirts on many occasions and each time I say to her, "HEY Man, take off my clothes and put on your own! OH HELLZ NO, U Have On MY DRAWERS TOO??!"

Well, that would really look funny. Me and my hubby are almost the same size and i think it would be a disaster as he would not fit into any hotpants of mine. Just imagine, no, i don,t think so. After i laughed my butt off, i will slap him silly, as it is my clothes and i do not wear his.

I've got to say that if I caught my husband in my clothes and he didn't immediately tell me that we had just been invited to a "Come as Your Spouse" party - I'd laugh it off, more out of shock than anything, but it would start to bug me and I can't think of an explanation that wouldn't be disturbing. I know that I would start quizzing, making comments...trying to get a response that I would believe was the truth. Then I'd bug him to get help and I can see the entire relationship start to go downhill. Maybe it's my own insecurity with my sexuality or some other politically correct attitude, but I want the guy to be the guy and let me be the girl. Yes - double standard because I wear his sweatshirts, but that has been socially acceptable at least since the 50's!

I was able to see it on BBC. One of those moments last week when I was able to watch TV for 45 minutes. Anyway, I have learn a lot and question a lot. Yes, they are not gays but....not 100% man either. They are trap in between. I can understand, but I wouldn't like to have partner wearing woman's clothes.

well Ive seen it before, no ny girly clothes but my pyjamas. I think I would be shocked though, only cause its most deffinately not something id ever expect. I think Id probably sit him down and ask him alot of quesions after that

I guess from a male point of view, I think the female would have to be open minded, I have dressed up in drag for stag do's and daft nights out and my ex used to howl with laughter. Not sure how she would react if I was wearing her clothes on a daily or weekly basis. Though I do agree with guys not being gay and guys that do that I think can be 100% male, we all have our preferences. Some people like wearing make up some don't, some guys like to wear shoes some trainers etc etc Its just another personal choice and if people were more open about it both male and females then it would be a lot more accepted. Plus women never get accused of being not a women if they wear men's clothes, so a bit of a double standard he he he take care

i would just stand there and laugh,i wouldn't be able to help myself,i wouldn't mind as long as he bought his own clothes and didn't wear mine

Well It won't bother me at all too,he can wear my shirts doesn't matter unless his going out and hes going to wear my skirts, oh that's another thing, i will surely get mad, there might be something wrong with him..hahaha.