Do you ever wish you hadn't updated your facebook relationship status?

Nothing like that. I did get a note from a long ago boyfriend wanting to know why my My Space profile said I was single. I just never finished setting up my profile.

I'm sooo glad I'm not on facebook. this story sounds like highschool, lol! Good for you for having a boyfriend. Brava! It's no biggie if he is younger than you! Just have fun , you deserve it.

There are times when I do regret it. My boyfriend's ex went to my profile to see what kind of person I am or whatever, then went to my other sites, she basically stalked me for a little while and tried saying things to him that were so outragious that it was funny. Her family did the same thing. As far as his friends checking me out i didnt mind and my friends asking about him, they really didn't do that, other than my best friend.

I have had a similar experience on Face Book happen to me as well! After having my daughter on October 7th, she got added in my profile under children. Then floods of messages, comments on my wall, etc poured in along the lines of thanks for telling me you were pregnant, it's news to me, etc, etc. Which I think is total bs because like any happy mommy to be I posted about ultrasounds, doc visits, and of course my count down to my c-section date. Smells like a little bit of bs to me!

I can see it from both sides because on the one hand if you put anything on the internet you have to be prepared for questions but on othe rhand, people should have some respect. It is one thing to ask in apolite way about your new boyfriend but asking questions that have nothing to do with them etc is maybe going a bit too far.

I never had any incident like that but there was a time when my girlfriend and I quarreled and she hid the status and until now she hadn't reveal it again. It had a very negative impact on me as if we were going to separate because of that sign but she told me that she only hid it and never deleted the said status

Hahaha... Sometimes, we do wish we haven't updated anything.. hahaha.. My experience was I updated my status, my hubby and I had a little squabble and we fought and I typed in my status about what I'm feeling and many of my friends messaged me and asked me what was wrong and stuff and I was shocked coz I actually was just really venting, so I had to appease everyone of them, explain and well, I found it funny but humbling and amazing that they all rallied behind me ready to support me. Like you I really am not that private a person, but of course sometimes it's disconcerting when people, even those we do love and care for, pry into our lives and sometimes annoying as well, but take it in stride, you know they just want what's best for you and they are looking at your new bf's profile coz they want to know if he will be good for you. As long as they are not telling you what to do or maligning your new relationship, just smile and let them have a go, satisfy their curiosity who knows, maybe they'll have an insight or two that can actually help you.

I think my relationship should remain between between me and my partner. Quite often I'll set my status as far from the truth on purpose so that people will generally leave me alone. I don't like leading people on, therefore I'm not going to do it. So people leave me alone if I announce I'm married or something like that just to keep people away from me. I'm not privite by any means, but I believe in having a personal life.

Changes in relationship status do cause quite a stir for some people. It's good when they do that because they simply support and care for you. But it's a different story when it's already out of nosiness. I do mind when people keep on asking unnecessarily about my relationship, it's like why can't they just take what's already been told and leave some things private...so my status has been set to "it's complicated" ever since. Hehe!