Do you love your mother?

@debshie (392)
Philippines
February 26, 2010 12:01pm CST
I am just wondering if it is at all possible for a person not to love their mother. It may be their biological or adoptive mother. I admit, my mother and I fight but I haven't gotten to a point where I really hated her that. I love my mom so much, that's why I couldn't think that its possible to abhor your own mother. Maybe your mom did so much wrong to you, but she's your mother, that for me is reason enough to forgive and make amends. Can you share your ideas please?
10 responses
• China
23 Mar 11
I think there is no human being who don't love there mothers. Yes i do love my mother very much.But i don't share my whole life with mother as i don't like to give her tense. She loves me a lot and understand me. And pray for me always. Good luck!
• China
1 Mar 10
Hi ,I love my mother too,my parents divorced when I was kid,I have been adopted by my grandmother,I and my mother even didn't communicate during a particular time,sometimes I thought I won't love my mother so deeply as others does due to the distance when I was young(one of my friends loves his mother soooo much,his mother is the most important person in his heart,he can fight for her mother even lose life if possible),in fact,when I grow up and my mother become old,the wrinkle on her face also make me feel sad and miserable,I found she is so kind and I can feel her love gradually,I am the only one child of hers, we are ordinary people,we love each other as mother and kid should do.
@cherrc (661)
• Philippines
27 Feb 10
my mom could be funny, loveable, and irritating. could be twice, thrice, or you'll be happy enough just to see once a day of the argument between me and my mom. It is like a regular routine for both of us but that doesn't make me less loving her. we argued about so many differences, and most of the time quite irritating because of some of her overdoing attitude (whew! a lot!) but if there's one thing i know, she doesn't admit that she's wrong but she is making some amends to patch things up. well, i didn't grew up with her. and when she started to stay at home, i'm all grown up and with different philosophies in life. we don't have perfect relationship but i do love her. i may tend to love and hate her at the same time but i will still be her daughter who respects her authority. :)
@yresh12 (3212)
• Philippines
27 Feb 10
NOTHING COMPARES i love my mother so much. We are exactly the opposite in everything financially, morally and in relationships. Despite of that I love her so much and i know that everything will be fine.They know best and they know what is good or bad for us.
@totor_53 (223)
• Philippines
27 Feb 10
Of course. In spite of all the things that she had done that hurt me, i would still seek for her love, care and affection for me. There is no other mother greater than your own mother. We should therefore treasure them for they have conceived us for 9 months. No matter what happens you should always remember the fact that your mother will always stay as your one and only mother.
• Philippines
26 Feb 10
yes i do! :)
@jersey86 (1348)
• Philippines
26 Feb 10
Yes i do even sometimes we have some issues but we resolved it. The love of my mother is constant. I owe my life to her and what i am now is the product of her love so i should love her back the way she was to me and my brothers and sisters.
@freeboy90 (456)
• Italy
26 Feb 10
I love my mom very very much!! We fight, sometimes a lot,I'm 19 and that about the age when you fight a lot with your parents. My mother has always been very good to me and gave me what I needed, I think she did a great job, and she's a wonderful mother. To answer your question yes people can hate their mothers, let's not forget that not all mothers are kind lovely and caring like ours, some hurt and misuse their kids, that's what happened with my father, I have a really bad relationship with him, actually I don't have any relationship with him we just don't talk, I can't say I hate him, beacause I really don't hate anybody, but I can say I really don't like him as person as husband and he is nothing close to a father. My parents are not divorced if you are wondering that. He did some mean things to me and no I don't feel like forgive him for that, but I will not look for revenge as well. I just don't want to have anything to do or share with him, him being out of my life that's all. I belive that the same situation i have with my father some people have with their mother.
• India
26 Feb 10
You statement that despite doing so much wrong, she's your mother itself shows that you always have a soft corner to your mother. When you are mentally too angry, your immediate reaction would be to quit the house or the scene. Still you are able to forgive her means, yours must be a true love to your mom. May be, your mom always wants to stress a point which you never liked. She may want to have thrust her opinion on you. Let it be, after all, she is your mom only. Just plan your relationship with her not to confront her,ever never. If you are a feminine, just think your own daughter will do the same to you.
@jsadzn (2)
• India
26 Feb 10
In my opinion the only universal love is for mother that is found in millions and billions of people on earth. I can feel what is the love between mother and her children in true sense because I lost mother way back in 1991. I always loved my mother from heart and had great respect not only for her personality but also for the parenting skills and teachings which gave me success in my life. No other love is true than to love your mother.