if you see a woman/man you like, what would you do?

Malaysia
February 28, 2010 5:57am CST
Most of us find it very difficult to breaking the ice.We could see that person everyday during school or working, while walking to supermaket,or while getting your laundry done. Sometimes he/she probably have the same interest to know us as well. Some people says, No harm trying. But some people says, U better dont humiliate yourself. What say you friend?
5 responses
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
1 Mar 10
in the past, whenever i got the chance to meet or just glance with the person i admire, i tend to stay away from him. i don't know if that's normal but i'm not really fund of flirting... maybe my parents train me to become conservative...
@frissph (130)
• Philippines
1 Mar 10
I'm definitely part of those who aren't aggressive in their approach. I'd rather just let an opportunity pass than humiliate myself. Though if there is a mutual interest and an opportunity to talk and get to know each other better is there, i don't see why I shouldn't see where it might possibly go. I'm just opposed to immediately putting the interest out there before getting to know a person more. Usually first impressions are mostly superficial, you see what you get. After you start getting to know a person more, that's when connections starts for me.
@ralphido (842)
• India
28 Feb 10
well.. i would count with latter group.. i mean what is the whole point in taking such a chance with someone you just know by sight, getting to know them if they wouldn't serve you any purpose.. but if its love at first sight or something, and you think you could really hit it off with that person. then one doesn't need to be told to go for it.. it would happen nevertheless.
• India
28 Feb 10
i will see them as long as i can and then even after that i cant be their without seeing i will follow for some time . we have done this many time . when ever we go to some malls with my friends if i find some one good and i like i will just see them as long as i can or we will be just following them and then carry on with out work . many will say that its wrong . but i say that beauty is their to be admired so i admire it .
@greypish (68)
• Philippines
28 Feb 10
I tried to get his name then ask common friends about that person..more like an investigator..hahaha...if I always see Him that's a good chance to friend and go to the getting to know you stage!!