frissph

@frissph (130)

Philippines • Age 40

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How do you define freedom?

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 22 Mar 10

How do you define freedom? Do you live with freedom in our life?

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freedom

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frissph Freedom for me is a mindset. I could have all this limits or barriers preventing me to be happy but as long as my mindset is that I have the choice or control over these things around me, i can feel free. I try to live with freedom in my life otherwise...

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Have you discivered your mission in life?

garamond @garamond (28) • Argentina 23 Mar 10

I wonder if anyone has discovered what was the meaning of his/her life. It would be interesting if everyone can share his experience. As for me, I know what I want to do with my life as a musician and as a teacher, but I don't...

life mission people

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frissph I think the meaning of one's life is dictated by one's self as that person sees fit. At least that's how most people go about their respective missions in life. Most people who don't have enough make their responsibilities as their missions in life like...

23 Mar 10

secret admirers

jd107nette @jd107nette (1454) • Philippines 22 Mar 10

How would you know if your friend secretly loves you? or infatuated to you? I have a friend of mine who is dense or maybe a little too slow in terms of things like love and crush, she's always been in good terms with a group of...

admirer

love

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frissph If a friend secretly loves you then some tell tale signs can be seen in their actions. I have experienced that before and I'm pretty sure I was able to hide it very well so in that case the only way you can no if they are a secret admirer or not is if they...

23 Mar 10

Do we need to reduce the number of kisses to our love partner?

markmoney @markmoney (2868) • Philippines 22 Mar 10

Lol! Do you think we should not kiss our love partner too much coz we might overused it and it may get empty. Well, the one I love just made a joke on me this morning. She kissed me many times and she said I should save it coz it...

kisses

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frissph Well i can certainly relate to why you'd think that way. I'm the type of guy who thinks saying i love you too much cheapens it when you say it too much when you're together. when it comes to physical affection though, hugs, kisses and the like. i don't...

23 Mar 10

long distance relationship

domieniqueer @domieniqueer (205) • Philippines 22 Mar 10

My boyfriend is reviewing for his licensing exam so we have limited talking to each other and as well as seeing each other-and i understand that. But to think that after his exam which will be 3 months from now he'll be going to...

long distance

relationship

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frissph If you don't believe in a long distance relationship then I think it's futile for you to try. Your heart and your mind will constantly be in conflict because of it and I'm pretty sure one will win above the other, it just depends on what type of person you...

23 Mar 10

Daylight Saving Time! Clocks go up One Hour at 2 a.m., Affect You??

artistry @artistry (4151) • United States 13 Mar 10

United States time moves forward one hour at 2 a.m., this Sunday morning for the beginning of Daylight Saving time. Do you find that the change affects you in some way? Do you make use of the extra daylight in the evening, during...

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frissph I love the adjusted time. It gives me and some of my online friends more time to converse. It's surprising where you can end up with for an additional hour worth of conversation.

16 Mar 10

What do you prefer intrinsic motivation or extrinsic motivation?

educbry @educbry (16) • Philippines 15 Mar 10

I believe both motivation can be effective. But intrinsic motivation is something that is within you. It is a drive that you could have inside your heart. Extrinsic is also effective in a way such as giving a reward or gift...

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frissph I need both, if I am only intrinsically or extrinsically motivated then I find that I don't stick to something for so long. Either I get bored with it or too lazy to work for that something if such is the case.

16 Mar 10

Pilipinas Got More Talent!

basqui @basqui (3888) • Philippines 15 Mar 10

I've just watched the Pilipinas got Talent a while ago and they feature the auditioneers at PGT. They featured BM (Bigmouth) and others. Do you watch it too? the not so talented auditioneers and the extraordinary talents...

pilipinas got more talent

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frissph I watched some episodes though with the kind of commercials they're showing i'm growing bored already. Do they really need to showcase people who can sing extra-ordinarily every time? It's like every week they focus on someone who has a great voice as extra...

15 Mar 10

Do you prefer teeth whitening?

intelpink @intelpink (163) • Philippines 12 Mar 10

Many people wants to have their teeth be so white that they have to go to the dentist and have laser and chemicals for their teeth. I talked to a dentists and she said that this can make the teeth really white but weaker. What...

teeth

white

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frissph I'd prefer yellowish teeth because I don't really place so high a value on my appearance. I like biting into hard food and knowing that my teeth will still be in tact instead of broken. I've tried those toothpastes that claim to whiten teeth but haven't seen...

13 Mar 10

Where will you spend your summer vacation?

jlamela @jlamela (4897) • Philippines 12 Mar 10

It's already summer season in the Philippines and everybody, I'm sure, is planning to take some vacations, so where will you spend it? I planned to spend my summer in Manila to visit my sister and cousin, sounds weird considering...

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frissph Ahhh summer, more work and a/c at the office while it scorches outside. seems like a fair trade for an almost non-existent vacation summer used to excite me during my student days but now that i'm working, notsomuch

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legal constraints???

john_alabaz2000 @john_alabaz2000 (44) • Philippines 12 Mar 10

what is your stand on the abolition of the law protecting minors (children aged 1 month-18 years)?...,,lately there is a news stating that there is a minor in the middle east carrying a bomb and boarded on the plane..,,luckily the...

minors

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frissph I would support this law. Though if it was implemented I believe that it shouldn't be carried out half-assedly which our current legal system cannot do. I think there should be appropriate psychological profiling and emotional counseling for the kids should...

12 Mar 10

what is the best time of our life?

kamlesh30 @kamlesh30 (107) • India 12 Mar 10

you spent your life till current date and tine which one is best time of you life

life

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frissph Best time in my life definitely was when my daughters where born and I was introduced to the feeling of unconditional love

12 Mar 10

are you a victim or a survivor?

ksmita @ksmita (513) • India 12 Mar 10

hi. you will never see a person who has not faced a single difficult situation in his life . everyone has to go through the pain in some time in life. but there are people who plays victim and blames everyone for their condition....

life

survivor

victim

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frissph I'm a survivor though there are times when I feel like it would be better to just act like a victim and just blame and blame stuff. I know it won't help you too much to just act like a victim and not do something about a situation. I dislike getting pitied and...

12 Mar 10

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Do you give others advice you yourself should be following?

beutfulmama6701 @beutfulmama6701 (1718) • United States 12 Mar 10

I have heard people say in the past practice what you preach. And i have mentioned that to a few people myself. The thing is i often find myself giving people advice and when giving it to them i am only saying it because i believe...

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frissph it's really easy to give appropriate advice when you're outside of the whole experience. I mostly practice what I preach though sometimes i wish I were in there place so i could fix the problem for them. Though sometimes, I catch myself in the middle of giving...

12 Mar 10

What Is Your Favorite Writter???

CrisRodrigues @CrisRodrigues (413) • Portugal 11 Mar 10

Me I Love The Classics,Like Jane Austen,Alexandre Dumas & The Bronte Sisters... But Now,I Love Also Stephenie Meyers & Juliet Marillier!!!

books

reading

writter

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frissph Hmmm some authors that I really followed were Anne Rice and Sidney Sheldon, I followed Neil Gaiman's graphic novel though haven't read all his books yet. That's something I plan to do sometime in the future

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Do you give in to situations in order to avoid conflicts?

mich_23 @mich_23 (120) • Philippines 12 Mar 10

You sometimes find it hard to argue especially when you dont want to create a gap, so do you sometimes just agree in order to avoid conflicts?

conflict

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frissph If it's someone I don't care about then I don't care much for gaps but for those that I care about I'd agree sometimes then bring up the topic soon when they've cooled off so that we can talk about it. I dislike letting volatile issues remain unresolved...

12 Mar 10

getting married because she's pregnant?

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 12 Mar 10

Do you think it's a good idea to get married simply because you're pregnant? For men, should you get married your gf because she's pregnant with your baby, even if you're not ready?

married

pregnant

reasons

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frissph Getting married because a girl is pregnant would be a decision both parties would have to talk about. if they feel that they could raise the kid in a good enough matter yet feel that their relationship isn't a point that they would have to go up to that kind...

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Good website to listen to music

frissph @frissph (130) • Philippines 11 Mar 10

Hello, I'm interested if any mylotters would be able to recommend a website with good music that's not riddled with advertisements nor useless banter. I don't have the time nor the knowledge to organize a good playlist that...

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frissph thanks, will try this too. with the features you mentioned it seems to be most appropriate to what i'm looking for

12 Mar 10

do you speak your national language always?

ksmita @ksmita (513) • India 12 Mar 10

hi. even though my national langauge is hindi, i don't speak as often as i should. its not that i don't know or anything. its just that now everything (conversing, writing,reading etc) is done in english that we end up using more...

national language

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frissph I'm from the philippines and our national language is Filipino. I always speak it but revert to english when the need arises.

12 Mar 10

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