long distance relationship
By domieniqueer
@domieniqueer (205)
Philippines
March 22, 2010 10:38pm CST
My boyfriend is reviewing for his licensing exam so we have limited talking to each other and as well as seeing each other-and i understand that. But to think that after his exam which will be 3 months from now he'll be going to his province for work. Me on the other hand is reviewing for a licensing exam abroad and will be working soon.
my point here is that soon we're gonna have to share a long distance relationship. and honestly i do not believe in long distance relationships..i know its hard and im afraid that soon enough we'll be letting go with it. Should i wait for that moment to come or just let go right now?
4 responses
@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
I dont know if it works but how about arranging for a temporary break up by asking him whether he want to stop for a moment and pick the pieces later when both your careers are established? Either he will say yes or no but if you think it wont work and you are scared for failure then he understands that and have no choice but to end it. Often when the woman show signs of uncertainty its the signal for the man to just forget all about it.
@domieniqueer (205)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
that's my conflict...i dont believe in long distance relationship but i dont want to break up...o my gosh this is too hard...i think..
anyway thanks for the advise...its giving me more options.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
you should believe in long distance relationship. you ll miss each other so much that when you see each other again, it ll be hard to keep your hands off of each other... from every part of the body. lol.
@preethaanju (3000)
• India
23 Mar 10
they say love and friendship blossoms with distance.we know the real value of love and friendship whn the other person is staying far away. there is a saying that only a blind knows the value of eyes. so just because ur keep too far doesnt mean that ur love for each other will decrease, it would rather increase curiosity..
@domieniqueer (205)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
wow, thats inspiring..i wish i could set that in my mind...arrgg...its hard o be a paranoid...
@frissph (130)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
If you don't believe in a long distance relationship then I think it's futile for you to try. Your heart and your mind will constantly be in conflict because of it and I'm pretty sure one will win above the other, it just depends on what type of person you are.
Long distance relationships need a lot more work in my opinion than regular ones. it takes a lot of trust and constant communication but even that won't guarantee a slip up on one end or another. You'd have to adapt an open mind and if you're the jealous type then things will fall fast pretty quick
