Do we need to reduce the number of kisses to our love partner?
By markmoney
@markmoney (2868)
Philippines
March 22, 2010 8:05pm CST
Lol! Do you think we should not kiss our love partner too much coz we might overused it and it may get empty. Well, the one I love just made a joke on me this morning. She kissed me many times and she said I should save it coz it will be good for a couple of days. I turned the joke back on her and I said so for you kiss is getting empty or reducing? Then just reserved it. She kissed me again and I said, oops, you already kissed me, just save it for the following days. Haha, well i hope she will realize it and tell back to me that her kisses will be endless. Lol! How about you, do you think too much kisses is not good in a relationship? I would be glad to hear from you. Have a nice day! Happy myLotting!
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19 responses
@dhysanne (449)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
I think it's good. It feels good to share kisses with the one you love. I think what she mean to say is that you will miss her with her kisses. And you still have many days to spend with, so you can have more of hers. A woman makes her man get excited of her presence. I'm sure you think of her over and over when you are alone.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
Hi anne! Yes, maybe that's what she really meant, we will miss each other that's why it's good to have plenty of kisses when we are together. Yes, her presence always makes me excited. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@domieniqueer (205)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
OMG! Your story! that's just soooo sweet! haha!i became more interested with the story than the question already!! anyway LITERALLY, kisses doesn't ran off, its not some candy in a jar that eventually empties as you take one! so stick to the literal interpretation and give all the kisses that you can give to your girlfriend! it adds to to a relationships bond you know...Its special and shouldn't be deprived for. good luck to the both of you!
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
Hi dominique! I'm glad that you find that story sweet. Lol! Well she is really sweet actually, she always wanted us to kiss and hug. Hehe! I'm so lucky for having her. Yes, kisses should be infinite and never get empty even uses many times. It's a special action and it makes the relationship stronger. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
Hi laglen! I also believe that kissing is important in a relationship, it makes you feel more love to your partner. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
25 Mar 10
Kisses are very good for any relationship! Didn’t you know that they come for a special well that never empties? It’s like the love well and the giving well, the more you give out the more it refills itself so it can never be depleted. Sounds like magic doesn’t it? I guess it is magic because if you think about it there is nothing more magical than loving someone with all your heart!
@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
The more the merrier. If you want to kiss, kiss as much as you can. Savor every moment because as they say "some good things never last". A kiss is one of the things that won't last. There will come a time that you no longer want to kiss your partner so enjoy it while you're still young.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
Hi ybong! Yes, I also believe that kiss won't last. And it's good thing to kiss your partner as much as you want while he/she is with you. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@justsmile2 (56)
• Canada
23 Mar 10
Kisses are DEFINITELY necessary. I'd be super annoyed if my boyfriend decided one day that he doesn't want to kiss me because they might lose meaning. As long as you genuinely love the person they should never lose their meaning to either person.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
Hi smile! Yes I also believe that kisses are necessary in a relationship. It will bind them more together. It will make a relationship stronger coz it's an act of showing how you love your partner. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@airakumar (1553)
• India
24 Mar 10
What an interesting topic!!!
I don't think so. I think a kiss, especially the first one, is an important part of flirting, dating and relationships... Your kiss can arouse interest in a prospective mate. A A kiss shared between two people generally signals a desire for more of each other's smell, taste and feel. Well, kissing is marvelously pleasurable and is the most fun you can have with your clothes still on. However, kissing is dangerous! It is sad, but true, that in today's world some animal species and maybe even humans face the reality of possible mass die-offs and in some cases even extinction from infectious diseases.
But if he or she whom you are kissing is normally healthy, 95 percent of the bacteria swapped are harmless and naturally occurring in both of your bodies. Hopefully the health benefits from kissing will outweigh the possibility of catching something negative from your partner. That is what you are hoping for!
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
24 Mar 10
I believe that kisses are necessary and never empty. My husband and I don't share deep kisses on a regular basis any more, but it is still just as meaningful to me when he kisses me lightly and tells me that he loves me. That is something that we've done ever since our daughter was born and it really does give me the warm fuzzy feeling that I need to have. He is not only my husband, but my best friend and this is something that does keep our relationship fresh.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
are you kidding me? there s no such thing as too much kisses. we dont run out of kisses. unless someone cuts my lips off. i have to find a way to kiss her then. lol
@myramae19 (667)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
oh! so envious
this topic makes me miss my husband so much, he used to kissed me and my son every time of the day when he was here last year 2007, It's already 2010 now and I missed all those kisses a lot..
so it happened huh??? " The next time I fall in love, it would be you " was that the line?? he he.. be happy in love!
@cloud31 (5809)
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23 Mar 10
Hi Mark!Its a bind between partners a mutual act and a act of love.. so I don't think it need to minimized.Thats so sweet of her I think you're lucky having her,I believe she feels secure and loved whenever she asked you for a hug or perhaps a kiss.
Good luck to both you!
Happy myLotting!
@umit_umit (1984)
• India
23 Mar 10
well its a rejenuvative phenomenon!but excess of everything is bad!
@abuttsab (124)
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23 Mar 10
i think kiss the best way to express one's feeling for the other guy. and it really tells through the manner of kissing and the passion of kissing that how much the other guy loves you. i think with the passage of time, one gets fulfilled in all their needs and they just feel no more need to do that.
@rudraksh_md (4)
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23 Mar 10
Lolx...nice topic...no i dont think too much kisses is not good for relationship. coz its the most beautiful thing to express ur love and to feel the deftness :-)
@churchill1980 (764)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
LOL!that's what i always joke to my husband when he was still on vacation from his work overseas. i always teased him to use and abuse my kisses because the moment he will be away for 10 long months he would certainly miss every moment of it, and he would start hugging me, saying that he don't want to think about he's going away. that's really true, kisses are one of the sweet and priceless things you could give to the person you dearly love. and in any case, you may not be able to enjoy it, especially if distance will keep you apart, so the couple must enjoy it as long as there's still a chance to do it. i am very generous with kisses and hugs to my husband because it's not everyday that we could enjoy it.
@Bloggership (1104)
• Indonesia
23 Mar 10
I think more kisses is more love... It's a symbol of appreciations for the one we love... I know what you mean about "overused"... Perhaps we afraid that we or our life partner will get bored with those kisses...
@ramplified_17 (105)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
Kissing is a way to show our affection to our partner. On the other hand it may be misinterpreted as a sign of lust but if you really trust each other and yourself, It should never be an issue.
@Skaadi (7)
• Australia
23 Mar 10
I think this sort of thing depends a lot on the individual, and what they're comfortable with. For example in my last relationship my partner was a bit too obsessive with kissing and it got a little bit annoying after a while. I'm happy to show affection, but too much is too much. But as I said, if the couple is happy with a lot of kissing then that's fine, it just depends.
@frissph (130)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
Well i can certainly relate to why you'd think that way. I'm the type of guy who thinks saying i love you too much cheapens it when you say it too much when you're together.
when it comes to physical affection though, hugs, kisses and the like. i don't think too much is too bad unless the other person doesn't like it. if your partner prefers the i love you's more than the kisses and hugs then that's the time you use them sparingly. i know that's going to be hard for me though XD