i wanna love again..

Philippines
March 1, 2010 6:27pm CST
hi guys.. im a dude in my mid-20's.. and i've only had 3 girlfriends in y life.. in those three relationships that i had, i can't seem to get things right. tell me, how do i make things right to make a relationship work. coz they just cheated on me.. i miss the feeling of having someone to cherish.. :(
6 responses
@junrapmian (2169)
• Philippines
2 Mar 10
Just wait, true love will come to you when you least expect it. Everybody wants too fall in love to the right person. Just keep your heart open for falling in love. You may experience pain in the process, but in God's perfect time, she will come to you and it will be a happy ending. Just keep hoping!
@frissph (130)
• Philippines
2 Mar 10
Hey man, just have the courage to love again. Age isn't relevant for me when it comes to loving again but what's important is to have the courage to open your heart to someone even after those failed relationships. Some people aren't able to recover from bad break ups and hold out some feelings for their next relationships. Just try to gauge if you're not following a bad pattern in terms of finding a relationship or ask friends who might have an objective view about it.
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
2 Mar 10
..hi.. you're still young and you have all the time to look for someone to love and to cherish.. being hurt is a painful reality of loving and I'd say everybody who loved had been hurt also.. never get tired of loving.. if they cheated on you, then they're the losers because they gave up somebody who truly loves them.. with your question as to how you're going to make the relationship work, I would say that a relationship won't work if only one is working to preserve the relationship.. both partners should work together to make the relationship strong and moving.. that's why it is important that both partner share the same goal and aspirations with regards to the relationship.. look for somebody then, who is willing to stay with you until the end.. not somebody who will be there for you just for sometime.. someone who will love you for who you are and what you are.. not for what you have.. be positive too.. never think that they will cheat on you again.. not all girls or women are cheaters just like not all men are cheaters..
• Philippines
2 Mar 10
hi jstrx_24! i know that it can be frustrating when relationships don't work out the way that you want it to be, but the important thing is to still open yourself to the prospect of meeting somebody else for you. don't blame yourself for those relationships that didn't work. in the first place they were the ones that cheated on you. the only problem that you have is not meeting the girl that's right for you. just be patient...sooner or later you'll find her and i hope that things will work out between you both. good day and happy mylotting! ^^
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
2 Mar 10
if you want to enter to a certain romantic relationship again then that's your choice. i guess what made them do those things because they feel that you lack something or maybe because you just pick the wrong ones. learn from your mistakes and find a girl who'll be deserving of your love...
@prasunsam (356)
• India
2 Mar 10
Well i think you will find the love of your life when the right time comes.There is no need to worry about it.As it is said that the best things happen unexpected so just wait for the right time and i think you would get what you want.