Breaking up, is it that easy?

ya, it`s not easy when you say lets break up.it mix our emotions, our love, our passion , our angry(anger) and disapointed. for me, break up is like nightmare. i hate when i had to get the nightmare experience again

I think when you are in love and in the start of the relationship you wouldnt be thinking of breaking up at all. You would naively thinking that the relationship will last forever. For some it is true, but unfortunately not for some others. I have been in many breakups, and I was always the one ending the relationship. At first when I was in teenager it was quite easy to breakup because I just tell them I dont want to be their gf anymore, and thats it, I dont care how much I have hurt him or whatever. Nothing they say can make me change my mind. But as I grew older and my relationship grew serious it is hard. I dont plan on how to breakup. But I do think a lot of the relationship and if I really feel there is no other way to continue on, then I will talk to him calmly. It will usually ended up in tears but once I think it all through my decision would be final :) There is only one of my ex that Im still friends up till now, other than that, all the others we have lost contacts :)

I don’t think break ups can be planned…I mean people start a relation to continue with it and I think we all have our good intentions to carry on as long as possible…you know talking to our partners, counseling, mutual friends…everybody tries to avoid a break up. However when it does become inevitable, we just have to walk our separate ways one fine morning, that’s all. It cant be a premeditated decision…something over which one can mull over a long period of time…emotions cant be predicted like that, it happens on the spur of the moment. Even our most innocuous statements might hurt the other person somewhere or what we feel is the bitter truth might sound to the other person as accusations…all these things happen then and there….you cant premeditate a break-up…you just move along with the flow and try your best only to realize that well, you two cant move ahead together anymore so its best to part ways amicably.

Breaking up is never easy, broke up with my bf last night not easy at all. Just hope we can work things out but that will be hard since we not spoke since.

Yap it's true so before you have to in relationship you need to admit that not all you would be happy many are you have sad moments but thanks that you brave enough to handle that situation and most of all pray to Jehovah God that he can protect your heart.

It was hard for me, but I get used to being dumped. Then I noticed that whenever I dumped someone it became easy for me to do it. That's weird, because I have a different kind of result when it comes to breaking up. Everything is so easy.

..hi.. oh yes.. there is no such thing is nice break up.. during this time, either one of the partners are hurt painfully.. and it will be hard to overcome the pain.. however, experiencing pain is a part of every relationship.. that is why everybody should be ready to accept this fact.. not all relationships end happily.. and so, love doesn't end after a break up.. a person should not stop loving and looking for the right person..

breaking up is never that easy, especially when you are already in a serious relationship. there may be different reasons for breaking up, but no matter what it is, the pain will always accompany with this decision. but that's for temporary only, time will heal and the pain will be over and you will become a more mature and stronger person than you were, and if you are sure with the decision you made, you won't have any regrets at the end.

Breaking up is never easy. You are never prepared to end a relationship. You invest so much of your heart and soul into a relationship. Breaking up is like giving up on that person.

Depends on individual. Some ppl who takes relationship lightly would probably break up a lot easier than ppl who take relationship very seriously. But no matter what, do not hurt your partner by pointing out his bad habits, attitudes etc.

It all depends on the situation. If your going to break up with someone try to be sensitive a little. I would break up with someone in a somewhat public place for safety reasons. I wouldn't do it around a holiday, anniversary, or birthday if I can help it. Don't text him or her the news. Try to be sensitive. Then maybe the break up would not be so hard that you can possibly remain friends. On the other hand it may be not go smooth and well your gonna need to run for cover. I think people need to know what was lacking and they were expecting from one another to fully understand how they got to this point. Its never really easy to do . Were not in the movies where it is scripted out to us on how to react. Its hard being in this position.

i think the only way a break up would be easy is if you enter and exit a relationship without any feelings anyway. i'm pretty sure that the other side would be devastated but on the latter part it would just be about getting through the tears, bargaining and such. if it's mutual breaking up involved then the easiest would probably when it's happened to a couple whose affection for each other has drifted away. there will be a longing of sorts but it shouldn't be too bad for both of them

Hmmm... the process of breaking up is not easy, though telling the person that you will break up is. You can tell your bf or gf that you want to break it up him him/her, especially when angry, but when the anger fades and you start to realize that you already broke up, that's hard. It's hard because, not being with the person you love is hard.

I have the problem that I can never end a relationship forever.I am too good person and cannot be angry for a long time so when after a long time some of my previous boyfriends calls me I can't resist the temptation as I know all the good things we have been through.