Which do you find more appropriate?
By cowboyofhell
@cowboyofhell (3063)
Philippines
March 5, 2010 5:22pm CST
A. The guy says i love you to his girl and the girl replies i love you too.
B. The girl takes the first step to say i love you to his guy and the guy replies "much more my dear"
What are your comments about each? If this scene exists in a movie and only one of the two above can be accepted to be shown, which one of them?
I feel that B has more intensity than A. The girl being the first to say simply heightens the view that women are creatures of love. How about your views?
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@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
6 Mar 10
To say another point, if the girl went on first, she would help the man be in the mood for love in the same way that her body makes the man aroused. Men have trouble feeling love although I'm not saying all, so the girl must help him feel in love by telling him that she loves him. If she did that, he would be better inclined or energized to love her. I've heard of many girls who complain of "cold boys" and they can't see that they have to activate the boys heart first for the boys to love them.
@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
7 Mar 10
yes he dont have to answer but he will kiss her to prove his love. it just depends on whether there are people around or not. it is up to them what they want, have fun or have some kissing scene.
@frissph (130)
• Philippines
6 Mar 10
If this something that's to be used in a movie, i think B would be more tacky. If the build up and the actors are good enough, there's really no need to change how you say it and who says it first.
i feel like the first one is enough however the order is. I've never been the type to say I love you a lot but would rather show it so me hearing that is okay but I'd appreciate the actions more.
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@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
6 Mar 10
I concur to what you said that actions bear more force than words alone. Yet words remain to play a role in the fun of loving one another. If the atmosphere is corny the words can slight that a bit.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
5 Mar 10
when you are inlove there is no such thing as who will say first. when me and my wife was in a relationship already, i am the person who is not that vocal with my feelings. i am not that person who always need to say i love you all the time. but my wife is very sweet and loving that she always says i love you to me, and she is expecting that i will say it back. from years now i learned to be vocal about it and i can say that i got used to it and enjoy the feeling. we always say i love you to each other and now our four year old son is joining in har har har. marriedfor seven years already and love to say and hear i love you.
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@dolphinlady128 (72)
• Australia
6 Mar 10
I would prefer the guy said it first. Woman are creatures of love, and they get more in touch with their feelings, so it is natural for them to recognize it when they love someone. But for guy, he really needs to feel it, to be able to say that he love her. Most guys are afraid to even say I love you, so for me, when a guy said it first and meant it (of course in films, they meant it .. right ? ) it really is a deep feeling and somehow seems romantic :)
@hofferp (4734)
• United States
6 Mar 10
If this were a movie and I heard B., I might "gag". It's too "syrupy"...corny. To me it doesn't matter who says it first, the girl or the boy, and the reply, "I love you, too", has plenty of meaning. I'd take it; I'd even take "ditto".
@phungminhthu (176)
• Singapore
6 Mar 10
I prefer the second one!I think it's a really sweet answer from the boy and as a girl,i would love to hear that the boy love me even more than i love him^^The first one is just too typical,not really make much senses for me!
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