Someone So Close To Me Chanllenge My Faith Here on Mylot...

Well maybe you shouldn't have stayed up all night the other day while she was sleeping You are going to have to find a balamce between the two things, her and us. We will always be here whenever you decide to come here but if you spend too much time here then I am afraid that she might not be there waiting

This is not waste of time. If someone think this is a waste of time then I have no comment on that. I think this is very interesting and useful for me. So I am here. If some one find nothing here then I never try to make them realize that it is useful. All depends on the utility and interest. Uninterested people may think this as waste of tome. But who are interested they never think so. And that's why they are here. Argument is not solution in such matter. Everything depends on the consideration in such matter.

I think maybe or perhaps she doesn't really understand why you love being here in myLot with all of us... since she hates it so much, I mean with you being here.. you might want to get online and being active once she's not aware or doing some other things like working and etc. Try to make her see that you are not giving her up by being here in myLot.. actually a good 15 minutes here and there of myLot each time for one whole day can be a pretty satisfying feel. She will see that your time here is harmless..

What is her objection? That it's a time waster? Or is there some other trust issue here? Is she a control freak? Does she try and tell you what to do and what not to do for other things too? How strongly do you feel about her? Answer those questions, and it might help you figure out what you want to do.

maybe you need to tell her to join mylot too, and be your referral so you can also earn from her if you already showed to her your earnings here im sure she will think its not a waste of time and maybe she will become addicted here too and have no time for you and so you will be the one to tell her to make choice between you or mylot. like a reverse

Hi prime, That's so sad to hear that you've come to a point she's letting you choose... I know how mylot is important to you and as a member, I know how addicting it is to be here everyday. But as a girl, I could understand how she feels. We women would be bothered if our partners have more time in their hobby than us. And I've been seeing a lot of your posts and discussions almost every hour, you seemed like you're mylotting the whole day. You don't need to stop this hobby just because she said so, but learn to compromise with her. Spend some time with her, not just letting her sit beside you while you're typing. I would feel frustrated if I were in her shoes, I don't blame her. Go out, have fun, enjoy your life offline. When you come home and relax after a tiring day, you could use mylot as you're stress reliever. Allot time for your gf and mylot.You don't need to choose between them, rather, balance them. My bf doesn't know about me doing mylot, but I plan to tell it to him once I've reach my payout, so there's proof that I could learn and earn at the same time. That way, he'll understand more what i do. And you know what I'm planning to do? Once I've reached my payout, I plan to treat him even a simple "meryenda". I could suggest you the same thing, why not treat her to a nice dinner with your earnings? romantic, right? any girl would love that and I could see her softening with this idea. you're not only sharing your hobby to her, but she will also be benefited. Girls like that. I hope this helps and goodluck to both of you.

i usually try to balance my time between mylotting and my daily tasks including spending time with my hubby so that he won't have any reason to complain about me being here... i think that there is nothing wrong at all with mylotting as long as you can balance your time and didn't neglect her completely... just try to talk to her and make her understand that you like being here and you are earning some money here as well... hopefully she will be able to understand... good luck... take care and have a nice day...

hi primeaque86 well you need to convince her to join you here on mylot so she will not be jealous of the time your spend here, if you are both on my lot you c an actually see and correspond more with each other.Tell her its silly to be upset over a website, and show her how much fun you have here and how much earnings you can make. Make her see it can be both you and her, and also mylot.You are so right its not a wasted of time as when we have problems we can come here and ask our mylot friends to help us solve them, and usually some great mylotter will have the completely right answer too. good luck God bless.

we're already through with arguments about mylot, prime. when i was new, my wife keeps nagging me when i comes home late at night. and i told her about this site. she did not believed me. we had much of arguments and my excuse is my work. until i got my first payment and showed her the proof and the money that went in the bank. till then, she never talk to me the way she did before. there were even times that she suggest topics.

Duh! Am I missing something here? Yeah, get some balance. That would be like if I were dating someone, I wouldn't have time for them because of mylotting, or I wouldn't be able to spend more time with my mom, daughter or new grandchild, because I wouldn't take the time away from mylotting. Make a schedule, or do it when everyone else is sleeping.

You had to balance your time my friend.. TIME MANAGEMENT is your only solution for this.. But I suggest you give a higher percent for your girl. If you truly love her, you don't want to lose her.. Work should come second only..OK! Time will come that what you are doing now is for the benefit of both of you..

Hi Prime. As a woman, I surely understand how the second party is feeling towards you being so attached with your mylotting. Maybe she felt so neglected or jealous in the true sense. Hope that you know the insecurities of a woman that sometimes a man could not really understand as much as we want to be understood by men. I used to be like that towards my husband when we were not yet married. I used to freak out each time he focused his attentions to some other things especially when he would spend so much time with his camera. LOL! But when we got married, everything changed and the feelings of insecurities were all gone at once. Women just want to know that they are secured and loved. Just let her know that she is secured and loved too.

Hello, Just as I thought. myLot is your whole world. Please don't let your hobby be your obsession. Don't you know the problem of attachment? Have you never faced any sorrow, any pain in your life? If you did, let me tell you this, they all originate from this attachment. Don't take anything so much seriously as if your whole life actually depends on it. The secret to stay happy in this world is to Let Go. myLot is of course, not a waste of time only if you are sincere about writing. People who is here only for earning and is not much interested in contributing that much, will never find myLot satisfying. God bless you

just say to her that you have a benefits in doing mylot we're paid and you skills in communicating and english are being challenge its not easy to type a word in english and its help you mind to create or to think better mylot, is also help you in may ways, just tell her that if she still do not, tell her to try mylot so she can know what you are talking about