Have you had good or bad roommate experiences?

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I was inspired to post this by another discussion I saw about whether to live on or off-campus. I've had both good and bad roommate experiences, so I've seen both sides. When I started college, I roomed with a friend of mine for two years. This worked out well, although in retrospect, being on the shy side, it may have hindered my making new friends, since we were together a lot of the time. But it was good for me, since I was hesitant about going to college so far from home. It worked out very well for the first two years. For our junior year, we decided we wanted an on-campus apartment. They were 2-bedroom/1-bathroom apartments. We got put in one with two girls who were absolutely horrible. They were always picking fights with us about something, and one of them threatened us physical harm on more than one occasion. One had her boyfriend practically living there, and I said something to her about this, and I think this was part of the problem (this was not the one who threatened me, though). In retrospect, I shouldn't have complained, he was a nice guy, and made a better roommate than the other two. They would frequently take the handset of the phone (mine, by the way, but I put in the living room for all to use), put it in their room, and lock the door. (This made me feel unsafe, given the threats). They also did this with the kitten one of them had taken in (with no litterbox or food in the room), when they decided they did not want us playing with him. After many complaints, we were finally allowed to switch, but by that point, there was no longer space for us to room together. My roommate wanted nothing more to do with the apartments and opted for a single room in a regular dorm. I stayed in the campus apartments and did end up with some nice roommates; it was interesting because they were all from different places (Germany, Brazil, and U.S. Virgin Islands), and they were much older than me (28-30, while I was 19 or 20). Even though they were older, I had to constantly remind the 28-year-old to lock the front door when she came home in the middle of the night. We were all puzzling over what she'd written in German on the message board on the door, until she finally told us it meant "lock the door". I also had some issues with the fact that she would walk into our room and just start stripping, regardless of if I was there, or that she was in front of a window. (That, I learned to just ignore. You have to pick your battles, and the door was more important. lol). For the most part, though, the four of us got along rather well, despite any differences. It was a good experience living with people who were from different places, as well as being at a different point in their lives. After college, my previous roommate and I shared an apartment (off-campus, obviously) for a few years. We got along well, but then we had been friends since we were 16. I am actually amazed it worked out, because she is neat and organized, and I am basically a slob. So it was a good experience, until she moved in with her boyfriend and I couldn't pay the rent anymore. I didn't want another roommate after that, because I felt it was too risky to have a stranger move into the apartment. So, what about you? Have you had good or bad roommate experiences? Feel free to share your stories!