Do you always share your problems/pain???

Sometimes i will share, but not always. It is my problems so most of them i just keep to myself. And try to figure it out myself. TATA.

I share my problems/pain with friends and family. I don't generally suffer in silence.

No, not all the time. It depends on the kind of problem i have. I tend to keep tough problems inside especially if i don't have a solution at hand and it is so painful to talk about. If i share a problem, it usually is just a part of the problem not the detailed version.

Don't cry out loud as the song says, perhaps there is a type of person who does not want to share his/her problem phoenix to anybody---family members or close friends. Specially if that type of pain may result to their suffering also. One of our friends here told me that the best person we can run and ask help in times of our seemingly unbearable problems and pains are our Mothers. Our Mothers have tender heart---compassionate. They would understand us and invite us on their arms and let us feel the heat and love on their hearts. Many times in my life I regretted for being hesitant to approach my mother! I would rather go always to my friends, but I didn't mean it's bad---but I must run to my Mom first! She has the right to know my sorrow because she love me unconditionally! But now I am away from my mother, so I think I would always run here. I don't want to suffer in silence, it could just made the pain prolong inside me and may even destroy me completely! I am a person who loves advice and helps....

I come here. :-)

I share my problems,frustrations, anger(from outside environment) small or big with my husband. He listens and give me comfort and encouragement and i like that. But when i get into a problem which i know he will disapprove of, i keep it to myself and solve it alone. :-)

Well, i'm more like a suffer in silence type. When i'm happy with something, i can't wait to share it; but when it comes to pain, i prefer to have it to myself and don't want others to worry about me as gloom is said to be infectious. Sounds like i'm a selfless person, right? Haha~

hi phoenix I usually share my problems and my pains with my best friend Nelda and she does the same with me. we are both elderly and both diabetics and we even have birthdays in the same month. so no I do not suffer in silence, also Kathy my roommate is privy to my pain in my hip as sometimes I let out a few ouchies as I try to walk without really screaming that hurts.lol lol lol.

not everything can be shared to a friend. even in marriage life, not every thing can be shared to your spouse. there are certain things, secrets that it is better to keep in yourself and not tell her. but what i have now, that i can share most of my problems is, myLot. where i can talk about anything and i know there is at least one, that listens.

Sometimes yes, sometimes no, it depends. Sometimes I do tell easily especially if the person I am telling my problems/pain, I do have my trusts already with her/him that he/she will keep whatever I have told him/her. Sometimes, there were things also that you just prefer it to keep it yourself. Sometimes, it's just also nice to tell it all to make the burden you have inside lighter.

Sometimes i share when i really need advices but most of the times i rather keep it to myself since sometimes telling makes it more more the situation worst when their are conflicting ideas. Most of the times I am better of being alone and resolve all those conflict by myself since i am a quiet problem solver, very silent, yet quick and determined.

it is hard to hind tough moments just in my mind.i must say it loudly.it can let me feel free.my feeling will be good.

I usually dont share problem with other people and my reason were, I am not sure whether I will get a respond that I am expecting from that person or maybe i am just ashamed to share it. I know sharing one's problem is a way of releasing the pain inside and lessen it if possible. But if by chance there will be an opportunity that I can share problem that will be my wife. Especially when if its about family and financial problem. Suggestion to other people,(just a suggestion and hope it may help you) Better share your problems but make sure that you are sharing it to the one you trust most.God bless

I usually keep it inside. Sometimes I share it to other people such as my closest friends.

I usually do talk about my problems..sometimes I can get people on the phone, othertimes, they don't answer. I feel pretty isolated, as I have a very small family. I also have no shildren and have never been married. So, I worry about when I get older what will happen to me. will i be all alone?

Not usually i not like cry and share my problems, only if I need some explaining, but i try as I can pass on the burden that a port of others, which certainly have their problems , and most know something, people can get listen, but they like judge people ,like gossip, and comment on your situation, usually behind you,i do not trust people, maybe in a few, but i never say everything.I usually suffer in silence .

True to say..I just shared most both happy and sad moments to friends and family members(only to my age members).I enjoyed that a lot.Some will make fun , some share my thoughts , share my sorrows.All going well.My best friend will always keep telling to me that don't share everything please keep something personal.But I didn't listen to him...I told what wrong in sharing with friends.He told somethings can't explain and that what i can say,its your wish to tell or not.But I never minded that..After a certain incident everything changed.I can't explain that incident.And then I recognized what my friend said is right.You don't know how I got hurt because of my own mistake.I'm not blaming anyone.It is my own mistake that I shared everything.And then I stopped telling anything whether it is happy or sad.I stopped.I kept inside me.Many are there to share.But its hard to find the true ones.I said to my friend that I understand my mistake now.Its been a long time since I shared everything.Can I share to you, said to my friend.He told no need.Don't even tell to me.Wait and there will be a time coming for you.And that time I will ask everything.I really liked that.He cares me.Thanks to God for giving me as a good friend.There are lot of friends in my life who cares.If God gifted me then that would be my caring friends and my parents...All the pains are inside me...It is hurting a lot.I don't know when the day will come as my friend said for me to recover.Hope it comes soon...

I always choose between things i should share and things that i shouldn't share before i say anything!Because i think there are some problems,secrets that better keep in silence than tell anyone!So I do share some secrets to people who i trust but keep for mysefl some of those secrets that i don't tell anyone!

Hii phoenix, I will share with my friends, sometimes they r the relief for my pain.. but sometimes they r the reason for that pain. mostly i ll try to hide, but they ll found by my face expression.. if i had a painful moment means i ll cry, this s better that sharing and maintaining silence.. Wat abt u.. u ll share or not ? ?

Usually i don't like to share my pain with some one else. But sometime i do. But not with all the friend. Only with my best friend. Sometime i really want to share as after share my problem i feel batter. So it's totally depend on the situation.