When you're Heart Broken do you cut your hair?

hello sexyposh, i guess there's a lot of women doing things like that. but all i know is that usually when we are being dumped, all we wanted is to look better and prove the stupid bf that he's wrong when he dumped us! hehe me? i just let it pass, even if i don't go to the parlor or what, i still make my self feel & look good and i go out more with my friends...i don't usually think about those break ups.

I find many girls like do the thing you are doing.My friend Cici kept her hair for three years and pround of her beautiful black hair.Then ,one day, she cut it beacuse her boyfriend left her. When she went out of the saloon,she said"my new life is waiting for me,I can find my prince charming. Never give up." She is a brave girl.I will not do such thing if I were her,I choose to eat spicy food.When I eat up,I will feel good.

This happened to me once. When I was so heart broken because of a rude comment from my mother, I decided to cut my hair because I knew that my mother liked my hair. I had very long straight hair which went till my knee. I cut it to sholders.I felt very relaxing after cutting the hair. I also went for perming the same day. When I was back to my house, my roommate said that cutting hair will help girls to come out of some depression.

That's a good thing to do, like me, I will rather spent my day in the salon than stay inside my room and cry for a stupid person. I havent experience cutting my hair because I am broken hearted, but when i get depressed, I cut my hair the shorter as it can be. It is my way to ease my feeling. When i am broken hearted, I just go out with friends and eat foods that are expensive.

Wow, your method is amazing! I admire people who can find a distraction instead of just getting depressed. Unfortunately, I'm the kind who feels too depressed to do anything, so I have never tried going to the hair salon. Maybe if there's a next time I'll try a SPA I hope there's no next time though...

hi sexyposh when you are heart broken, you should have a hair cut or go to spa.... this helps a lot... i have tried myself. and the other way you mentioned that lock yourself in a room and then cry also helps a lot

When i am heart broken i dont want to be alone because i feel that i will get crazy thinking the pain, i prefer to visit friends or relatives and talk anything that it will ease the pain.

A new look sounds cool but make sure it brings out the best in you and not the other way around. I haven't been into a romantic relationship since birth. But, everytime I get depressed, I drink or eat a lot.

I was same with you when it comes to hard time ,but now I was figure out that ,it is not working at all ,remember once I just broke up with my bf,and I went to had hair cut ,and I felt better then ,but the worse thing is the short hair is not suitable for my feature ,it is look bad ,this makes even more sad to me,so I swear I would never do that ....

As far as I know every time I had a break up with an ex I usually go to the gym or do some exercises to make me feel better and in the process make me look better. It always works for me and it does help me pick myself up from a bad break up. I also tend to buy new clothes and change the way I look in a good way after a break up.

Hmmp.. me i go to mall and have a window shopping.. Meeting and interacting with friends can help me a lot.. i don't cut my hair hehe what if your hair is too short and every day u are angry with your bf or love ones you always cut your hair? Hehehe have a gud day

I have cut my hair over relationships and other pivotal changes in my life. It gives me a fresh beginning at the time and I always feel ready to move on. I say if it makes you feel better, then do it. It will grow back and it's your hair!!

It's ok to cut your hair than to end your life..lol. well by the way me everytime i ended up in a relationship i spend my time eating.. thats what i always did to ease the pain and loneliness.. i rather want that than locking myself inside my room and thinking to end my miserable life..lol

hi sexyposh welcome to mylot Cutting hair, locking oneself in a room might be a way to release one's stress or emotion, sadness etc lol, but what even may be the reason i will never cut my hair, it is my prized possesion, my hairs are thick and knee length, i trim the tips once a moth as per my mom's advice when i was a little girl.. Thanks for sharing Cheers. God bless you, have a nice day ahead. Kalyani ‘Namastey’. .

I do that too, cut my hair and pamper myself or make myself beautiful lol. sometimes i cried when pain revisits me once again. I sometimes pour out my feelings of hurt by writing a poem. but if i can't take the pain anymore I pray to God to take away the pain because i couldn't bear it. Then I do some shopping and go out with friends or read some books. But if the pain still fresh, I'll stop all communication for a week to a month. I'd like to vanish and go to a province to be alone. I called it vanishing act.

I never realized that I actually did cut my hair short then when I got my heart broken until I read this, I just don't know maybe it's just a natural reaction in our subconscious mind to put and exert those pent up emotions to our hair, or just that; to get a new look, new hairstyle and hopefully a new love...?

I once did cutting my hair when my heart was broke. But after it, I realized I should have done it since I consider my hair as my asset. From then on, everytime I got my heart break, I go to the parlor, not to cut my hair, but to make myself more beautiful as ever.

In my observation, most girls usually makes an effort to look better after a break up. To me it is a form of coping, that you need to feel good about yourself after having to go through pain. I was dumped before and I hardly mope. I pampered myself, had a perm and changed the color of my hair. I've never been more beautiful than after a breakup. After that I met a man who would later become my husband.

Oh, I don't cut my hair when I am heart broken. But I like shopping and buying a lot of things.

Hi , Yes, in fact I do. Not just when I'm heartbroken with break-ups but also when someone hurt my feelings so badly. I go to a salon and tell the hairdresser to cut into bob. It actually makes me feel better.