Are you trying to make me miss you?

I have done it and just know it has been done to me as well (of course they wont admit). When I figured that is the reason I did not hear from my significant other I make a call then take the bull by the horns "Yes I miss you. Could you call me now please." It does it part by adding light teasing moments and keeps me laughing sometimes if not not mad.

The closest that I ever came to doing something like this was when I was with my boyfriend while I was in college. He was still at home with his parents and I was away at school about two hours away from him. We wouldn't get to talk to each other very often during the week because his family went through periods where they didn't have a phone. But, I knew that we would get to be together every weekend. It made our relationship interesting to say the least.

It happened in my life, the story is that i have been loved a girl when we first date...I shown my realy heart to her,but she refused me. I can't stop missing her everyday .Fortunately we still keeping the communication each other, I hope it will change hers mind by my true love oneday

My partner and I got into an argument. And the last words he said was this is the last time we are going to be together and then he drove me home in silence. And then I called him about a couple weeks later. And he answered the phone and was like hi like nothing ever happened. That was our first argument we ever had.

i have done that to my partner when we broke up. i was thinking of an effective way so he will realized that he cant live without me.i never send him any message, no call or anything for 3 days. after 3 days he calls to me and after that our relationship was in good term again. he misses me that much, it is a very effective tactic.

ya i also done this to my friend,,,,because of her bad attitude and yes it is effective it make her realize that she did something wrong....

i never really done it to my hubby... i never have the heart to do that to him anyway... i never have the heart to do that to him... i had thought of doing this to him a few times just to test him... but it never happen... :-) take care and have a nice day...

i wouldn't do this to you. love isn't a game to be be played on each other. if i love a person i would want to be with them.

When my husband and I were just dating there was one time he was supposed to pick me up to go out somewhere, and he didn't. It worried me and I constantly called him but to no avail. Later when he got online I found out he had slept as he'd stayed up the whole night before, he felt so bad that he promised me he'd be there later that day (it was very early in the morning) and he was.

Yes I have done that before... But sadly, it was not effective because that lead to a straight "NO communication"... He totally forgot me and did not even bother to contact me anymore... hahaha! As a pride I did not initiate a call anymore... I mean he is the guy so he must make the first move... but sadly, that didn't happened... I thought our relationship was really special for we can talked over the phone straight for more than 8 hours... using the normal phone... Well, anyways... that was years ago! We both have our own lives now... I know he is successful and happy. And I am relly happy for him!

my ex-gf have done this before. we had a fight afterwards cuz she stopped communicating with me for about 4 days. i got paranoid and thought she s having an affair. when i got home to my province i immediately went to her house and then there we had a fight. then i talked to her brother. he explained to me everything that she was doing and he said that i was a moron for acting like i did.

Yes, my husband said he missed me always...because we only see each other twice a month and this has been going for about a year now. My sister and his husband left for abroad and their two children was left here because their still studying. My sister asked me to look after her children while they were away. My family lives in Laguna while my sister and her family lives with my old mother in Manila. I can only go home to Laguna every other week. My husband always text me to come home 'coz he said he missed me while before when I was a stay-in mom, he always finds anything to argue about. There were no days that we do not argue on anything. And it stressed me out. Even my grown-up children were affected, so I decided to accept my sister's offer to work for her so I can breathe away from my husband's nagging. Now, every time I went home, we only talk about how's life and we ca talk without arguing and he always pleases me about anything like cook my favorite food, went out for a walk or movie, even when he plays basketball on Sundays, he invites me to watch. I think he's just making up for the days that we're not together and I believe absence makes the heart grow fonder!

Well, its nice sometimes to have a bit surprises and excitement to miss each other..A suspense can make you do really miss her/him..Its sometimes called an ingredients of love to grow fonder. Happy myLotting!

I don't think I can do that. My boyfriend and I are living together so I don't think that it would apply to us because we are together every day and we can't just stand to be away from each other. But most of the time, for other people, I think it would be effective to make them miss you.

hi markmoney Nope and I never would have done that to my husband but he sort of did it to me.I am a widow now, but years back as a young mom with two very small kids,he left Tempe arizona to go to california to look for work so we could move there, He was gone for what seemed like ages and i was so nervous and missed him so much, so when he finally did write it was heavenly.oh it was effective although he just claimed he hated to write letters. at that time we did not have computers either which would have kept us in touch. Hope your girl does not do that to you,its not much fun really.

It worked all the time. I recall courting a girl in college and i would say hi to her everyday and suddenly i just stopped and avoid her seeing me. Later on, she was the one asking my friends and classmates where i was and that's the start of a long relationship. I also used the same tactic with my wife when i was courting her then. She's really a pain in azz but since i love her i pursue her everytime we had a little fight. Until one time i stopped and never showed myself to her for a few days and then viola! she just showed up in our house one day to kiss and make up .