7 miss calls from my girlfriend, she was really mad

United States
March 18, 2010 8:10pm CST
I was in big trouble; my girlfriend was calling me many times this evening, I left my cellphone at the other room, while I was watching DVD movies at the living room. Not until 8:00 P.M. I called her back, and she had her sister answer the phone, and her sister told me that she is busy at the moment. I could sense that she was mad at me. I hate doing this, because I am not a text message guy. I have to send an apology text message to her to explain the situation then. What would you do?
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25 responses
@kaylachan (68508)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
21 Mar 10
Give her time to calm down. If she brings up the subject again. Tell her the truth. You have every right to have a life. And, you should not have to glue yourself to the phone to suit her wims. That's not healthy for eaither one of you. But, you should hear her out too. If she needs to talk listen.
@mackiejp (374)
• Philippines
20 Mar 10
Explaining your side is all enough to ease her madness away. Call her again, try to reach her and say your apology. I think she will understand if she hears your side, just explain it well to her.
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
19 Mar 10
i don't think you had committed any major mistake... sometimes i will miss my hubby's phone calls and vice versa... but we never get angry at each other because of this simple reason because we trust and understand each other... we usually just reply each other phone call if we see miss call on our mobile phone... that's all... good luck to you... hopefully you will be able to resolve the misunderstanding between you and your girlfriend soon... take care and have a nice day...
@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
19 Mar 10
Leave a message with her sister. Send an email. Call her back until you reach her, where I do not think you'll ever get her until the 49th time. Call a for a bouquet and a box of her favorite chocolates to be delivered to her house. Send her a $200 shopping voucher at the Macy's or whatever. I am sure you know more and best here. But, I'd really have to ask that you do a diversion for your unreachable call next time, probably to your home's land line. Hope that you'll be able to explain your way out here.
@LadyBoss (253)
• United States
20 Mar 10
I dont think you should text message an apology. Women would like to hear one coming from their own boyfriend and not reading some message. You should probly wait. Untill you can get ahold of her again and talk to her.
@leasmom (101)
• Austria
19 Mar 10
The most important thing now would be to let her know that you were not ignoring her but what the situation was. I am sure she won't be mad at you if you just tell her and say hey sorry but that's what it was as soon as it doesn't happen all of the time or only with her.
@kquiming (2997)
• Philippines
19 Mar 10
Keep calling her until she gives in to talking to you. Or ask her sister to tell her about the explanations you have. Is this the first time this happens to you? Cause if it's not, then you should already know what to do by now *smile*, I mean, you know her more than any of us here would. Good luck to you! Remember to make a sincere apology. Be sincere, and hope she senses it.
• Philippines
19 Mar 10
You're really on trouble dude! Being a girl, we don't want to be disregarded especially so over a DVD movie. You guys always have to put us in mind.. LOL!
@Andyvil (793)
• Philippines
19 Mar 10
Just tell her the truth its much easier that way. Apologize to her about it and I am sure she will understand.
@umit_umit (1984)
• India
19 Mar 10
listen you are lucky that she is giving you calls!you should have listened to her!
• Singapore
19 Mar 10
HELLO KINGPARKER, It's seams u r the real king to her, U should b happy n proud to get such a sweet g/f, this show tht she loves u alot. U should know girls r very senstive, Ofcourse she must b worried n tense when u did pick up her call. With love n nicely u should expain her the problem. The way she care for u, u show her also care, N see everthing will b smooth. Try to understand her. All the best.
• United States
19 Mar 10
Is she a insecure person? I feel trust should be in a relationship..I would tell her I was just watching movies..sorry for you because trust should be our first priority.
• Philippines
19 Mar 10
I think just kindly explain to her what you were really doing why you haven't answered her calls and do apology.She will understand it. Of course as girlfriend, she'll be mad wondering why you didn't answer her calls. Don't worry, its normal. she was just concern and she's just very eager to know what was happening about you.
@jcburrou (59)
• United States
19 Mar 10
You shouldn't feel guilty, it happens. Do whatever you need to do to let her know you didn't have access to your phone and that you're sorry. Really though, I feel like you have nothing to be sorry about, but if it makes her happy then apologize. Something little like this should blow over. If not, then just let it go. Best of luck.
@rsa101 (38126)
• Philippines
19 Mar 10
Well I think you have done what you are supposed to do. Sending him the text message was the start, maybe the next good thing for you to do is to visit her and apologize again face to ace with her. I think those two would do already for now until you pacify her.
@harmonee (1228)
• United States
19 Mar 10
Sometimes you just gotta do the best you can. I'm really bad about leaving my phone in the other room or on silent. Now my husband is used to it and it doesn't upset him. She should understand. We've all done it before. Just send the text explaining and see what happens.
@yresh12 (3212)
• Philippines
19 Mar 10
I think that you should keep it cool. She will get over it. Explain to her what happened and text her about it. If she doesn't understand, she is just to shallow to get angry at you....
• India
19 Mar 10
she can,t mad but she has love you verry much.i think she is somthink mad of love .i tell you love her.i think she will be happy.
• Malaysia
19 Mar 10
omg your so screwed your in deep trouble..lol, nah i was joking. Just tell her the truth I am sure she would understand that the DVD movie was great till you forget to pick up your phone. Apologize to her and watch that DVD again =)
• United States
19 Mar 10
Honestly, I would just wait it out. Wait for her to calm down and hopefully call you. If she doesn't call you the next day then call her back the next night and explain that you thought you were going to be without her for the whole night so you left your phone in the other room. Tell her that you are so sorry for not being able to talk her and you would have given anything to be able to hear her voice that night. If that doesn't work then I don't know what to tell you...Good luck.