Hey i know about a guy who is harassing a girl i know
By rubypatson
@rubypatson (1840)
India
March 19, 2010 9:46pm CST
This girl got into a relationship with him, and after a while she realised the mistake once he started to call her at her work place call her friends like a parasite got everywhere and even called up the boss of her work place he started to disturb all the people she knew and insite of repeated fight about him being a nuisance he never gave up so she finally decided to end the relationship he never stopped calling her sending threatning sms to her her family memebers her father all the people she knew but she just went on ignoring it, I feel sorry for her for ever getting invovled with such a kind of person i really dont know how this ssue can be solved
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9 responses
@preethaanju (3000)
• India
20 Mar 10
YEs women are fools. They always fall for the wrong guys and then repent. There s nothing else she can do now except report to the police. Women always go behind guys who are rich, famous and good looking and never see if that guy has a good character r not..
@sleepylittlerose (1648)
• United States
20 Mar 10
This is a very broad statement here preethaanju. Not all women fall for the wrong man. And a man should know that when a woman says no that she means it.
@rubypatson (1840)
• India
22 Mar 10
THE problem is he can never take no he just went on behaving the way he does and expects her to accept him for his cheap behaviour
not even one day has he really repented for his filthy behaviour
@gemigemable (9)
• India
20 Mar 10
She or urself or othermembers of her family must make him shutup thru some respective authority who operate all over the world "against women abuse" . The know how to handle such men . Also not all women chose wrong men its just only wrong men r mostly readily and speedily available.
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
20 Mar 10
i will report him to the police for privacy intrusion and harassment if i were in her case... there is no way i will let him off so easily... i will never let anybody disturb my personal and private life like that... i will sue him based on the evidence of his sms and phone calls plus witnesses from my friends and relatives... he won't be able to get away with this... take care and have a nice day...
@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
20 Mar 10
rubypatson,
This is just another ugly incident of a relationship on bad.
If the opposite party does not threaten or resort to physical violence, then she should be careful not to encourage or let it escalate to this stage.
When it does, she just has to contact the police and make a police report. I am sure with previous records I am sure the authorities all over the world are not taking such threats or beatings very likely. Just encourage her to be ready to step forward for her own sake, when the time comes. I am sure no one would condone or approve such insensitivity and unbecoming violence.
Take care and have a nice day.
@voldrox (7191)
• India
20 Mar 10
hi there,
Now that is troublesome, that guy could really be dangerous, such open threats to her and her parents, i guess she should report this to the police, this doesn't sound good, seems like he is determined to stalk her and bother her so much, it would be much better if she takes some serious action rather than just ignoring him.
@sleepylittlerose (1648)
• United States
20 Mar 10
This girl is being stalked and that is very dangerous. She needs to report this behavior to the authorities. If she does not feel comfortable doing so then one of the other family members who have been threatened should do so. They will be able to issue retraining orders that have a no contact clause in them. If he is found in violation of these orders then it is possible that he would do jail time.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
20 Mar 10
Now that is what i call a child. She should do something and very fast. It might get worse. When someone start threatening you and your family, there will be serious trouble ahead. Maybe she should get the police involved. And very fast. TATA.
@rosegardens (3032)
• United States
20 Mar 10
This is pretty scary. This guy began stalking her friends and co-workers before she even broke up with him. Threatening them as well is cause for alarm. Not that his behaviors alone weren't cause for alarm, but when people are actually being threatened there may be something to that.
I hope that she speaks with the police and a womans shelter in the area. She needs to document what he has said and done to her, and have her family, friends and co-workers also document his behaviors and threats.
This could be very serious. She cannot ignore this.
