Are you happier when you're busy?

Pretending, or really busy at work? - Busy at work instead of worrying
@bounce58 (17385)
Canada
March 23, 2010 6:25pm CST
At work, are you happier when you're busy? Recently, there has been some 'uneasiness' at work. After one of the more senior employess was let go last week, people have again started to become nervous. It's just like when the recession started and people were let go left and right. Now, evidence of some nervous talk around the water cooler has again surfaced. Fortunately, I've been really busy. Except for the odd moments where I get to myLot (like, now), I haven't had time for anything else. And frankly, I'm OK with it. Instead of sitting idle, and worrying about job security. If I would be let go, I'd rather that it happen quickly. Instead of a build up, with the suspense killing me. Are you busy at work now? Aren't you glad you're working? Isn't it better to be really busy and not worry about being let go? What's the situation in your workplace?
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@ibuemma (2953)
• United States
24 Mar 10
The place that I work for now, just got done with their "re-structuring" which is more like downsizing. Luckily, I still have my Job. And yes, I'm glad that I'm working, and yes since so many people gone so we get very busy. At least at work, the time passing by so quick too.
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@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
24 Mar 10
It's funny how 're-structuring' and 'downsizing' tends to have the same meaning in this context. And re-structuring is the exact same word our VP used when he let go of one of the employees last week. Thanks for responding!
• United States
24 Mar 10
I am working on a project at work that is keeping me busy and I Love it! I rather be busy. If I am not I think why did I come in? I could have stayed in bed! I am like you, I rather they let me go quickly then drag it on.I am so lucky! I am loved And needed at work.
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@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
24 Mar 10
Having a nw VP at work, and reporting directly under him, I still have to project that sense of... I am so lucky! I am loved And needed at work. ...towards him. Hopefully I could get that done, before they start letting go of people again.
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@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
24 Mar 10
i hate sitting at work when i am bored! the time goes by really slowly! then i am always thinking of things i could be doing at home too! for me here at work, business comes in spurts. there are times when it is insanely busy and times when it is pretty slow.
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@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
26 Mar 10
I was just like that before myLot. I would also sit at work and think of all the chores that I needed to do at home. Thankfully I discovered this wonderful site. It keeps my mind busy when there isn't much going on at work. Thanks cher913.
@jewels49 (1776)
• United States
24 Mar 10
When I did work outside od home I liked being busy, but since I worked on an ambulance it didn't seem right to want to be too busy! Now that I run the house and a home based business, and have the best job security I know of, I still seem to always be in motion, I must like it that way or I would slow down. Glad that you seem to have some security where you work bounce, not enough of that going around lately.
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@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
25 Mar 10
Yes you're right! That would be odd, wanting to be busy if you're with an ambulance. I guess some people just work well, or should I say 'cope' well when they are in constant motion. My job security is nowhere near yours! What's with the oilers? They stung the sharks, the wings, and even the canucks?! Must be nice playing without pressure.
@jewels49 (1776)
• United States
26 Mar 10
You hit the nail on the head..playing with out pressure.
@arystine (1273)
• Philippines
7 May 10
Hi bounce. So far, the situation in our office is okay... No threats of lay offs. But as you've said in your discussion, I am also happier at work when I'm busy. It feels good to trigger my mind and really be a writer. However, am also feeling bored with our project lately. It's a good thing that a new writing project is coming up. I feel very fortunate that I have a job. I like my job because of the flexible schedule, the less pressure, and less supervision from the bosses. Not to mention the salary increase that they promised me. I also feel blessed because they encourage me to practice my profession. I hope things will get better at your workplace. Take care always.
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@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
11 May 10
Hi arystine. It's been better here. It's been a lot busy lately at work. Our new VP has gone through real academic training so there's a lot of statistical reports to be written. Unlike all my previous bosses in this company where actual, roll-up-your-sleeves, meet-people kind of work was given more importance. A lot of changes still needs to be done here, so I welcome the change. But I wish they'd promise me a salary increase too, just like you.
• Netherlands
24 Mar 10
Well, I am always happy when I am busy BUT IF THERE'S A GOOD REASON in a first place. Like, I can't be happy about doing boring things or filling for another, when that would get me nowhere. Wasting my time isn't fun. I would say that my best experience is when I am working on my own things, then I can be busy even for 10-12 hours, in the making, without feeling a glitch of tiredness. It's a cool feeling, I am sure all of you felt at some point, doing someting, somewhere.. But if I had been working on a PC, and didn't had so much to do, I'd definitely be on myLot, writing comments like yourself.. :)
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@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
24 Mar 10
I've been lucky enough in the past to work on projects where I was pretty much in-charge of anything. That was the best work I ever did. I had an ultimate goal, but the timelines, and milestones I made for myself. I even did the hiring when I needed help. Liky said, that is the best kind of work. I also worked for 10-12 hours then, and I was never tired! Thanks for the input.
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
24 Mar 10
Oh well... This topic has come to my notice in the most suitable time.. The reason: I have joined a new office recently and over there I am sitting 'on paid bench' for a month. The batch which they wish to train is not full yet, and it'll be another week to get that done! So our training will start in the next month. For the whole month, we're at home... being paid for not doing anything! You know what, I hate to be idle! Thanks to myLot, it has a lot of work for me. I love to be busy, love to work! Whenever I'm idle I feel terrible, lonely and negative thoughts overshadow my mind... For a man, it is highly important to be busy. I am waiting for the training to start... Hope it'll begin soon... Have a nice time!
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
25 Mar 10
Hello mr pearl. Like you, I also hate to be sitting idle while the rest of the company, or work place is very busy. And like you, I also hate the negative thoughts that come in when I'm not doing anything. I hope for your sake the training starts. In the meantime, keep myLotting. Thanks.
• United States
24 Mar 10
I hate being bored. I like having something around to keep me busy and if I'm busy at work, it makes work go by so much faster. Also, when I'm not bored, I definitely feel so much better about the situation and feel happier about my work.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
26 Mar 10
I also hate being bored. Specially now at work, when there are a lot of lay offs going around. A lot of negative thoughts and insecurities if I'm idle. That's why I get happier when I'm busy at work. Thanks for the response highflyingxangel!
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
24 Mar 10
hi bounce I am retired but I did work until I was 80 so I was always glad when I was busy and I was always busy as I was one of the pages who put all the media away,books, dvds,cds, magazines, newspapers, videos, the whole thing.They very seldom ever fired any one. but as i was almost 80 the second in c ommand did not want me there, and she twisted the manager into firing me as she told Emily fire her or I quit. so Emily did and she lost her job over it. she gave this reason for firing me. she is a good wo rker but shes almost 80.,that did not sit well with the people at headquarters so they fired Emily and the bit@h that was second in command. they asked me to come back, well sorry people but I just had a bad fall, broke my shoulder, smashed it really had to have a bionic shoulder joint r eplacement, the result I cannot life my left arm all the way up,, so could no longer work in the library. sorry people so i was retired permanently much to my disgust. why not let older people work if they can, we need the money a lot of us.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
25 Mar 10
Hi Hatley, your response sort of became a mini-rant. I think I understand your situation. When I get to 80 I would like to keep working too. And I wouldn't want anybody twisting somebody's arm to get me fired. I imagine myself to be still very active at that time, and work would be one of my joys in life, even if it's just part time.
@icegermany (2524)
• India
24 Mar 10
i am a housewife and most of the times my children keep me busy and it is really difficult handling two childrens. sometimes i like to be busier and sometimes not , it really depends on the situation and i just cant tell it now. may be sometimes when i am bored i would feel to be busier and sometimes when it is lot of work i would like to have some free time, you know human always desire for the opposite things.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
26 Mar 10
You are so right in saying that we always want what we don't have. I'm sure that if I get too busy everyday at work, I would be wishing for days where I don't have to do anything. It's just now, that there are some negative vibes at work that I am happy to be very busy. Thanks icegermany. And I hope that your two kids not make you too busy so you'd still have time for yourself.
@maezee (41988)
• United States
8 May 10
I agree with you 110%! Being busy and possibly even working overtime is much better than the alternative - not working or having hours cut. I am busier at my second part time job.. but not so much the first. I'm just happy I have a place to work!
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
11 May 10
Ditto.
@maezee (41988)
• United States
8 May 10
I agree with you 110%! Being busy and possibly even working overtime is much better than the alternative - not working or having hours cut. I am busier at my second part time job.. but not so much the first. I'm just happy I have a place to work!
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
11 May 10
Yes, although I like being busy and working overtime, I've slowly learned working smarter. I think I just agreed with you on another discussion, that your hours would be cut because of another employee helping out at night on the weekends. So that you could have your weekends back, and possibly find other opportunities where you don't have to work as hard.
@umit_umit (1984)
• India
24 Mar 10
Of course one is happy when one is busy in the work!definately!and if the work you are doing is of your interest than more good!
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
26 Mar 10
Hello umit umit. Sometimes it is hard to find work that is of your interest. You'd have to be really lucky. And that helps make you happy. Thanks for responding.
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
There are times I'm busy at work, sometimes I'm not when paperworks do not occupy my table. When problems come my way, I prefer to focus my full attention to my work so as to forget whatever is bothering me. Also, getting busy makes me happy because I know my position in the company is secure.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
25 Mar 10
Glad that your position in the company is secure! And I agree with you that if there are a lot of things bothering you, it is best to get yourself buried in work. Keeps the mind occupied. Thanks for responding!
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
24 Mar 10
Sometimes I am alone in the office. Sometimes, my boss will come in and I have work to do. As I am new I have to go through all things which is beneficial or not beneficial to me as I have to learn. But I love it when I am not busy, though!
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
25 Mar 10
Hello wongchoiyee. Even though I think it is not normal for me to be loving it when I am not busy, I'm sure there are lots of people just like you. And since you're still new, I hope you enjoy being idle sometimes. Thanks for responding.
@jimmysun (401)
• China
24 Mar 10
well, i am happier with busy working when i am in bad mood cuz it can make me feel that the time flies fast and got things to do can let me forget bad things. of course i will not expect do a lot of things without rest also, i am not a machine and long time busy working can make you exhausted...
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
25 Mar 10
Hello jimmysun. Don't be such in a bad mood when you're working. Just keep busy, and take your rest if you need it. Thanks for responding.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
For me I don't have work in the company I'm only to have a job at my own called a mini business I'm happy to have a busy life because I don't count the hours and don't feel about tiredness I would practice about things happened when the Armageddon came.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
25 Mar 10
Hello ebuscat. It is great that you don't have the conventional set up of a job. And that you keep your own hours. You could be as busy as you want to. Thanks for the response.
@___SKY___ (541)
• Hong Kong
24 Mar 10
Hi! Me, not really busy in my work. Sometimes, i have finished 8 hours by just only sitting and surfing the net. Better to surf than sitting idle, as what you said. Another thing is, i can chat my sweety, so im not happy if im busy, because i missed talking her hehehe. Recession always there, especially now. I get ready my self already whatever happens.. Have a nice day!!!
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
25 Mar 10
Hello sky. I'm glad that you can chat with your sweety at work. What kind of job are you working at. I would like to have something like that. No pressure, just chatting if not busy. Thanks for dropping by.
@mikoiks2 (216)
• Indonesia
24 Mar 10
I think no, because everyday I haven't time to play something. So, I can't happier when I'm bussy.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
25 Mar 10
Hello mikoiks2. I guess you're the opposite kind of being busy. You're just busy-busy! I think maybe your workload is too much? Maybe time to look for a new job? Thanks for responding.
@dhablue (122)
• Indonesia
24 Mar 10
I'm always feel happy if I busy because lost of stress, many people told me If much work they got stress but I don't have it maybe I often browsing and having fun so I forget all problem myself!
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
25 Mar 10
Hello dhablue. Well I hope you continue to be happy. And don't get too much stress. Thanks for dropping by.