what you do if after fight on the phone she or he not calling you ?...
By anitarei321
@anitarei321 (548)
Japan
March 23, 2010 7:35pm CST
Would you call first to say sorry?would you send email and ask why did not call you this and that?or would you just wait and wait?i do love to wait in this case if he call me that mean he still care and want me to be if not mean is over:(....but is happen so many time after fight word on phone i don`t talk at the moment then gave him time to think then just call him or send email like nothing happen by saying hi how are you how is going and if he act like nothing happen too is save but if don`t pick up the phone or answer the email mean finish just need to cry and get over how is your one?
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12 responses
@Ingkingderders (3832)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
I'm really bad at fights, and I'm usually the one to call and say sorry, or to fight some more. LOL. I don't like waiting, cause it only makes me think more and be more paranoid on what happened. It's really a good thing that my boyfriend and I doesn't fight a lot cause I really hate fighting.
@adaox1 (65)
• Belgium
24 Mar 10
if i am tired of the fighting than i'd just be angry and don't call at all.
if it's one of the first fights in a relationship i'm sure i'd call back within that same minute to say im sorry.
@anitarei321 (548)
• Japan
25 Mar 10
i lost too much pride doing that:)one help this time....:)thanks
@elizabeth2007 (27)
• China
24 Mar 10
one day or two then call her or him , who first called is not important , but the girls always want their who loved her can accommodate her , so that the boys should show magnainnity first call .
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
You know i'm weak when it comes to fight with him over the phone, chat or even personal. After the fight exchanging words against each other I always say sorry and automatic give my apology. I send emails or offline messages and even text. This is I regularly do and good for us. He forgive and forget. But there was a time that I cannot easily forget that was the last scenario. No fights happened but he is gone with I don't know what is the reason. Then again I did what I usually do but in this time no response and he totally forgot me. It was really hurt but i need to accept that the time for us was end. I waited for him to come again even until now. Thinking that he will pop up once again. Sorry for me it's not happen.
@anitarei321 (548)
• Japan
25 Mar 10
That mean he ready had something or some one more important then you is it:)i think same as mine....not sure yet:)thanks
@achilles2010 (3051)
• India
24 Mar 10
Analyze to know whose fault it is. In all probability, you think it is his or her fault, not yours. She probably thinks the same. Then ask yourself if you want to have a clean break. Would you spoil your relationship over such a trivial matter, though in the heat of the moment you might think it was not so trivial after all? Do some introspection. If in the end, you think you cannot live without that person then think that you are truly in love. If he or she also thinks then you both would pick up the phone at the same time. Believe me, in true love it always happens thus.
@anitarei321 (548)
• Japan
25 Mar 10
i agree so much with what you have said.yes if the rest love between they will pick up the phone in the same time :) thank you
@windpain (25)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
Personally, whoever did the mess, whoever started the fight, whoever reasonable or not, I would be the one who'd made the call. As the man, a man who cares, I have to swallow my pride because it would hurt my girl. No man would ever hurt the person who he truly loves. Yes, there will be times when you can't fix things easily. But let's think about it - stand for pride or fall for love? I would choose the latter. Nothing important than seeing the person you cared for living without hate and pain.
@anitarei321 (548)
• Japan
25 Mar 10
so...may be is n not enough love and care if no one start calling:)thanks for comment
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
24 Mar 10
it really depends on how many days had he not calling me or contacting me at all... if it is just only one day, then i will just let it go and give him more time to think and cool down... but if it has been many days, then i think i will be the one who will contact him first and ask for assurance... if he wants to break up, then so be it... we will break up cleanly and over and done with... fortunately this never have to happen to me... take care and have a nice day...
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
If situations like this happened to me before, I dont call at all. I could still remember I usually go out and never contacted my boyfriend. It was easy for me to stay silent for a while and I even lasted days not communicating with him. That's one of the reasons why I dont like fights because it always goes down to the fact that I wouldnt care. Its not that I dont care literally but I dont care in a way that I dont want to be the one who wants to say sorry first. But this situation changed when I got married and sometimes I thought that I was really strong before but now I am no longer as strong as I think I was.
@___SKY___ (541)
• Hong Kong
24 Mar 10
Actually we seldom fight on the phone, we are fighting in yahoo messenger lol. I am afraid fighting to her if we are fighting on the phone, because i cant talk, and i have no chance to explain my side wew!!! But is ok, i know her, th more you talk, the more she can give you more lol..
Have a nice day!!!!
@umit_umit (1984)
• India
24 Mar 10
well,after some time gap,I will try to call and say sorry if i am at fault after anayalising the situatation!
@zsazshie143 (77)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
hahaha.. so guilty. i will text him.. its more easy to express how you feel if you text him.. for me its not over yet.. maybe he needs time to think. and sometimes if guys feels that there gf already step there ego- he rather stop calling or give time for himself. but for me best thing to do is even your a lady you should say sorry.. guys will definitely appreciate it..
@borndefeatist (2)
• Australia
24 Mar 10
I call and call and call until I get a response, every number I have, to make sure I can say sorry.
