should i tell my friend if her boyfriend is cheating on her?...
By anitarei321
@anitarei321 (548)
Japan
March 25, 2010 11:12am CST
my Russian friend just in love with Japanese man,she love her new boyfriend so much she tell me about him everything from A to Z and i love to listen what she said even feel happy for them,today he promise her to visit and play to our club and want spend time with her i saw she so happy can wait to see him but one hours later she told me that he got cold and willing to sleep soon so he can`t come to visit her,she sad because worry too much for him,then me and other friend was back early we decide to play to my other friend club for have a drink and meet some friend there,when i go inside the club i saw her boyfriend were kissing and hugging in the corner of table he even say hi to me now...i wonder should i tell her if her boyfriend dating another girl when said sleeping at home cause of sick....too sad to know my friend will be crying if she knew it....what should i do?
4 responses
@angeleyes2217 (85)
• United States
25 Mar 10
Thats a hard situation... It could go 2 different ways. 1.) she wont believe you and possibly get mad and say you are just jealous of what they have, 2.) she will find out from someone else and get mad at you because you didn't say anything. The best thing to do is tell her. If she gets mad then you need to explain to her what you have seen at the club. Mention that he saw you and he even said hi to you. Even if you have to be sneaky about it. Try getting him to the club and tell him that your friend wont be with you because she is busy or whatever. If your phone has a recording option or video on it, try getting him in the act. That way, you got proof and then you can be completely honest with your friend. Its sneaky and bad towards him, but its your friend we are trying to help out... Either way you decide how to go about it, she really needs to know. You don't want her to think everything is okay when its not. She doesnt deserve that, and its only going to be harder on you and her if you wait to tell her. Good luck hope this helps.
@homeshoppers (6166)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
i guess your friend will feel bad if you will tell her about it thinking that you might just trying to ruin their relationship since you know she love him. so i guess its better to bring your friend with you so she will see her bf with another girl out of her very own eyes. then she will decide if she want to broke up with him or not, at least you showed her the proof about his bf.
@anitarei321 (548)
• Japan
25 Mar 10
she still on her work time when i saw him cause i am home early:)my other friend know about it think she will talk about must be hurt:(
@Oskuuu (9)
• Finland
25 Mar 10
you should tell her that her bf is dating someone else. think if she would find out that by herself and then he would tell that you knew it all the time. just be honest to her i would like to know if my girlfriend would cheat on me even if i would found out that from some of my friend.
@anitarei321 (548)
• Japan
25 Mar 10
i hope she will be fine cause she trust him and love him much:)