Do you get annoyed when your boyfriend/girlfriend is getting jealous?

Hi shawn! First of all, I'm sorry to hear your story. Your boyfriend was been too possessive and doesn't have trust in you. Yes, jealousy can be sweet and we should accept that it's just a part of love, but what your boyfriend showing you is too much. It seems like he is already choking you. He is full of suspicions. He is watching all your actions. Well, I think you needed some space. Tell him that if he will continue like that, then it's better if you separate ways for the moment. Coz it seems like he is not listening to your explanations, what he is believing is his dirty minds and suspicions. But if you really love him, then you can just do some adjustments. Like try to avoid communicating with other guys, especially your ex boyfriend. For you to be able to survive your relationship, you should build his trust. Both of you needed to cooperate and respect each others feelings. If you think your relationship is already too complicated, then you should put a period on it, but if you still have faith on your relationship, then you will do things to survive it. Your relationship can still survive, but both of you needed some adjustments. Good luck on your relationships, wish you all the best. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!

Thank you for your suggests,you are right,if i still love him,i can do everything to survive our relationship,but the important thing is i don't know if i still love him.At the first,i love him very much,and often did some things to make him trust me,i cared of him,listened to him and very understound him,i tried my best to let him know how much i love him,but I mean i felt under pressure with him all the time casus those things i mentioned above,now i feel tired of all these things,i even don't wanna explain now,just let him go, and regardless of what he is thinking.but sometimes i also think i don't lose him at all,i don't know this is love or other things,maybe i am just used to live with him.I don't know.Do i still care about him?is this love?i don't know what can i do now?is there any solution can survive this relationship?

I know this situtions is not all his falts,there is also business with me,maybe i didn't make him feel insecure during this relationship,but all this is complicated and out of my control now.I don't know how to get along with him well,even don't undertand him very well although passed more than two years.I can't figure out what the problem is!

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Hi cloudie! I don't think your partner will makes you jealous. If you would feel that there will be a third party on his side, don't believe your thoughts coz I'm sure your partner is 100% contented with you and the other girls just cannot get in his heart since all spaces in his heart were already occupied by you. However, if your partner is the one who's getting jealous, don't get annoyed, he is just showing you that he really care about you and your relationship. Just tell him that there's nothing to worry. It doesn't mean that he is not convinced of what you are showing him, it's just that jealousy is a normal thing in a relationship. If you really love him, then you can just give him a smile, a kiss or a hug, plus a little words of sweetness, and his jealousy will be gone quick. Thank you for your response. Take good care of yourself always. Happy myLotting!

I never counterpart my partner would made me jealous either,if there might be a third party it was not happened the time I am with him ,it maybe happened before I was with him I guess..Otherwise he will pleaded guilty if he does during my turn.lol.Well,100% contentment in a partner is quiet impossible, there were still disagreement and I may not meet all the qualities he is looking for being a partner, but I just can say I will try to adopt myself in all aspects so that he can feel the security in me and how do I feel towards him. Anyway, jealousy is not bad I also feel loved when my man will get jealous,but not over rated in the fact that jealousy can lead to uncertain thoughts and foolish act. Happy myLotting!

Hi rose! I agree with your thoughts. Jealousy can really be considered a sweet thing and it just mean that someone is really in love with you. But just like any other things, too much jealousy is bad and it will turned out to be annoying. That's why jealousy should be put in the proper place. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!

Hi mimiang! Yes, it just means that we are getting treasured by our partners. Thank you for a short and straight to the point response. Happy myLotting!

Hi melloncollie! Yes I can agree with you. Maybe if someone is jealous he/she should just make it not too obvious first, just ask question or make a joke out of it and not to the point that you are immediately accusing him/her. We better know his/her side first or know first what the real story is. Well, it depends on how your conversation goes. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!

Hi jorish! You have similar situation with shawn, my fifth responder on this topic. But I think his guy is just his boyfriend and not yet a husband like your guy. But the similarities are your partners are both too possessive and jealous persons. Uhmm.. maybe just avoid being with your guy friends because he is getting insecure. You needed some adjustments, you are already a married person now, you are committed with your husband, so just avoid going out with other guys. Just give and show him assurance that he is your only one, you just need to build more his trust to you. Just feel lucky that your husband is faithful to you and doesn't like to go out with other girls. That's why he also want you to do what he is doing. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!

Hi cheeky! Yes, I agree with you, jealousy is just a sign of love. Yes, talking with another opposite gender is just fine, but if you notice that he/she already doing some flirting, then it should not be tolerated and it's really time to be jealous. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!

Hi jaiho! Yes jealousy should always be in the right place. Too much of it is really not good. Actually all things that is too much is not good. I can also say that too much trust is not good as well. I believe that jealousy and trust are important in a relationship, we just need to balanced it. Yes, jealousy can be considered sweet sometimes. Thank you for your response. Have a nice day! Happy myLotting!