to love again...

Do not go into another relationship expecting the new one to heal the old one. You have to heal yourself by yourself first so that you can approach a new interest as a whole person. If you continually just put a band aid on the wound and don't let it heal completely before opening it up to the elements, its going to fester and get infected. You don't want that. I understand it's easier to just allow someone into your life to take your mind off what the other person has done to you, but truly, you should wait until you are completely ready. We were just discussing this in group therapy and I completely agree with the the therapist said. In case you are wondering, what I just wrote is what she said. Fix yourself first if you're broken, don't expect something or somebody else to do it for you or they most likely will fix you up wrong.

i know it is too hard to love again or to trust someone after a heartbreak or a broken relationship. But you have no choice but to move on and forget the past, the hurt and the betrayal. As what they say time heals all wounds. In my case, my friends did help a lot during the time when i was really so down because of a failed relationship. I dated guys whom my friends recommended and it helps a lot. All i can advice you is try to go out or hang out with your friends, have a date or ask your friend to arrange a date for you. It will be a great help on your part.

new love can mean a new hope and inspiration but sometimes we think things will turn out as expected which are not actually because things come and go the least we know it. Moving on is the best solution you can do before entering into a new relationship. Being in a new relationship while you have not fully recovered from your past would be unfair for your new special someone. It is not nice to know if your other half uses or depend on you for him to recover from being heart broken right? And it is hard to say that you would definitely love the person back as much as the person feels for you. To heal your heart, why not give yourself time--it does not matter how much as long as you can reflect to yourself. Focus on yourself. Do not forget that in this world there are things we cannot have in life whether our heart says. You broke up because it means that you two are not meant for each other and that there is someone for you out there that's meant to be with you. Cheer up my friend and stay strong.. Move on and keep living like normal