Have you ever felt that you don't wanna in to a relationship anymore?

i know how you feel because just like you i've been a relationship with 3 guys before but it doesn't work too long i saw a lot of the same ways boys do ... they are not satisfied with one woman they love to play or hurt woman's feeling.. they are proud that they have so many girlfriends boys are all the same CHEATERS

I know exactly how you feel. In the past I have felt that I really needed to be in a relationship to feel complete. But I've now realized that it's not true. I don't need someone else to make me feel complete. I often joke now that when anything happens to my partner (who is chronically ill), that I won't be looking for love any more. That I'll just get a dog instead LOL. Dogs make better companions of course, they don't argue or get cranky, they don't whinge, if they misbehave you can legally toss them outside (and they really don't mind), they don't cheat on you or betray you and they never 'have a headache' they're always willing to give you some affection. All in all, the perfect companion and much better than any human. Of course, that doesn't mean that I would be averse to finding a human companion, just that I won't be actively seeking it like I have in the past.

How love have you been separated?

it is the most appropriate thing to do to give your attention to your son. just enjoy your life being a single. dont put yourself in a relationship that you dont have a feeling for the guy. the right love will come to you in time.

hi there, so,, whats on your mind right now, you wanna stay single, eating the bread with no butter.

Unfortunately one has the tendancy to get that feeling. I have felt this, but we just go with the flow and hope that everything will eventually work out. Just relax and don't think about it. TATA.

I sometimes get to feeling this way too. I think if you give yourself a little bit of time to work through your feelings then you will know what it is that you need to do for yourself, relationship-wise. I hope will will put your son first, however.

I've never felt like taht beofre, probably because I'm young. However, before, whenever I say to my friends that I don't wanna be in a relationship anymore, it actually means I don't want to have someone yet, I want to concentrate on other things but deep inside, I know honestly that I want to have a special someone, and I haven't found him yet.

Well roscelcruz, I do not pretend to understand how you feel, however I think it is no just your feelings you are thinking of. Your boyfriend would have to understand your situation as a mommy and with your child. I think there is also some shadow of the past in your relationship. To have someone you trust like your husband betray you, it is not easy to throw yourself back into relationship.

HI ros,i think you are capable of loving others,you see,you are still love your chile ,your family and friends,you just don't meet right one could encourage you to start another love,come on,we know you will pull through .

Being with failed relationships really will make you think that you don't want to get involved with someone again. Don't let past relationship prevent you from getting into a relationship again, however, I suggest that you wait for the right person and the right time to fall in love. Don't look for some, let love find you. In that way, you'll be sure that you'll be happy with your next relationship. As of today, you should first put your time with your child coz' you're the only one he's got. Have more bonding moment with him and choose someone who will love you as well as your child.

well its true a times comes in ones life when its more than enough i think that you should focous more on your child then thinking all the way round!if there will be any one destiny will bring you close to that person!

Hi,roscelcruz! I'm sorry about your experience.After going through so much,you must abominate man.But i want to tell you maybe you are a litter much sensitive.There are many good and decent man in the world,such as me,hehe.And you haven't meet the right man yet.Come on!Cheer up!Your life will be more enjoyable if you try to have an attitute of seeing thing on the brighter side.Besides,i'm really worry about your son because he lives in a single family lack of father's love.

I do cause we had same trouble i think if i am not wrong some time i met some one and i have feeling to be with him but after i go with him for walk may be one,two time i start let him go cause there must be some thing that i don`t really like on him and i am thinking if i go far will be same mistake in my life over and over again:)and so i think good to have a lot best friend but not boyfriend since i have children and own family to wonder about,but some how don`t you feel lonely and need some one to share talk even feeling and have a good time together some time i miss that i still want it happen cause when you have feeling love your life will be better i used to keep myself clean look younger control my body i know is for myself but it mean when time comes still a lot chance for us to be happy with or without some one closed around:) i do felt that way...but think of future may be i have to change my think:)

I am in a situation where I am totally liberated. I just feel that I am much happier now. I like being single and being totally focused of my well-being.

For me I don't feel like that but all you can do Is pray to Jehovah God that he can provide you a heart for not hate to love again because by loving someone is not bad it can inspired your life it is the other type of love that can't gave your son and to your family and to you your friend.

yeah i ve been there. but for me it wears out. sometimes it takes a long time sometimes it doesnt. everytime i think of having someone with me i also do the same thing.

yes i feel it right now. I think its called contentment. Be aware its when people are content that they are ripe to 'fall in love'. Apparently. You know that expression when you stop looking for it you will find it. You have stopped looking for it. Now stop worrying about it. Enjoy being a truly independent woman. Most never actually get to where you are. which may be why you feel out of sorts. You're not!

Yes there are times that i dont want to be in a particular relationship anymore. What i mean is i experienced that sometime ago. Its more like everything is fine with the both of us but something inside me is telling me that im not happy anymore, thats a big problem because if your not happy in your relationship anymore then i think you need to do something about it already unless you want to create some more problems ;)