NBSB (no boyfriend since birth)

What's the reason? Being with man is cool for girls. Isn't it?

NBSB also. But I'm not single by choice. I just don't have a choice :( Guys I know, guys I like, they always prefer the girl next to me. *Sigh*

I like men, although I hate some too. I am turning 28 and I am a member. I have lots of friends who are guys( and girls too, of course), and very much comfortable with the good guys. I am just not into a relationship for the sake of having a relationship.

well i am not. being single is good because you can do anything that you want without considering your partner. you can chase your career or study hard to get the best score or whatever. but i can't face the whole world on my own, that is why i need partner. i don't want to be alone.

Well you are just 21, do not worry when the time comes it will and nothing would be able to stop you from getting that relationship, only you. The would be a guy that would come and make you comfortable and then you would reconsider a relationship.

well I'd say that I'm a NGSB no girlfriend since birth.. but I can mingle well with girls however I'm not good when talking about relationships. I'm only good at hanging with them, many girls did already have crushes to me but I didn't notice them. I'm a deep numb guy.. well in your case, you'll probably will found a guy that will change you. we just don't know when and where but there will, you may not be a part of a relationships but you bond will stick together until you didn't notice your already into it. because i do also have a friend that was a NBSB also, she's not a man hater but we're always together. I didn't expect that she has a crush on me until she told me in a text message after they ran into another country. you might feel awkward right now but you will soon find your one that will definitely change you.. this is only my idea, because maybe you will still be feeling awkward until then lol!

Me too..NBSB,a new term for me.But i'm no man hater..i have lots guys friend but no "boyfriend" and proud that i have never experienced any boy-girl relationship.So Fresh and new.hehe! Wont be forever single.Currently,I'm not looking for one but when the right time comes,fate will decide.Wish my soul mate will be the one and only throughout my life. ;)

Hi, friend. I'm now almost the same as you though i used to like boys. I started to feel tired of boys shortly after breaking up with my ex-boyfriend who had great delight in bragging. I hate those who are fond of bragging. Then i began to hate all males and never wanted to date anyone else. I'm still single now but i'm not sure whether i'll stay single all my life. I guess there should be someone right for me. After all, staying single for your whole life is not an easy thing for a woman.

I'm not NBSB but I'm trying to see how can I help you to having boyfriend. and their a lot of qualification you choose, don't judge, if you judge a person you don't love them, according to Mother terresa, qualified a person depend on your criteria on how they treats other, the way they talk according tho their ethics and not by their degree or profession, job or looks.

I'm also an NBSB.. well that's because I'm a guy. LOL Seriously, your i-hate-men attitude must be a result of some unfortunate incident. It's very lonely being alone and sooner or later you'll find yourself longing for "Mr. Right" Right?

What?! You're missing a lot! You don't have to be lovey dovey with guys. Guy friends are okay. I used to be a member of NBSB, I just left around two months ago. And I think I only left because I was missin out on guys. I had to go to work. Anyway, but when I was still a member, I didn't really hate guys. Actually, I love hanging around them. Don't think I'm being a flirt. I hate flirty girls! lol. But really, with guys, there are no pretenses, they are who they are. Guys love to have fun. They like joking and fooling around and that makes them funny. I would have to admit even if I loved hanging around with guys, I was a bit bitter of some men. You see, I always thought that guys are only nice to the girls they like. That's how they show their adoration and that's how they can make a girl feel special. But I guess, that's just how they are. We girls, just have to find our one guy that would think the world of us and treat us nicely, blah blah blah. Bottom line. Go out and meet men. Not because they are going to be potential boyfriends, that will take the fun out coz you'd assume they like you and all and be conscious and all and you're going to be too busy thinking of stuff, that honestly the guy isn't even thinking about. Don't be scared. But of course, be cautious. Just like there are beaches, there are also jerks. :D

You are still young dzeanne so don't ever think that you will forever be a member of NBSB, being in love is truly the most wonderful feeling you can ever experienced. No man is an island so try to find your real match in the future. Your life will change dramatically when you have someone special to love you back. Goodluck to you!

I used to have a problem like that. During high school, I had not experienced one, even in College. I really thought something is wrong with me, since no one was courting me.\ I had my 1st boyfriend which even up to now at age of 22 I experienced my 1st kiss at that old, I even stay from topics like that before because I am ashamed. I could say it was pressure on my side, but when I look at my friends, they also don't have one, even up to. You see there are still so many NBSB women, I tell you. I even had a cousin, 29 y.o NBSB. Your right guy will come along trust me. DOn't push yourself too hard. Because just when you didn't expect it, he will come along.

is there a club for NBSB?? if there was, i'd be a member-- and proud of it... and if you're happy without a man- so be it...not all girls need men to be happy... :D

Well, I can't say I'm all that proud of a member, but I am a member of NBSB. I like guys. I really do. I just haven't met one that I would want to date. (Well, not one that was single.) I'm not a man-hater, although I do have my days when I just want to run around screaming "MEN ARE DIRT!" at anyone who will listen to me. I can most certainly imagine being with one guy for the rest of my life, in fact there's nothing I want more than to get married to a great man, but I'm not going to say yes to some loser thinking I can change him into that great man.

If you keep that in your mind then tendency is you might be an all time member of that nbsn club. Why dont you open yourself to friendship, thats when everything starts, when you get to know more bout each other and enjoy each others company as well ;)Theres nothing wrong with sharing your life with someone , just make sure that the person is pretty much sincere and really wants to spend his time and affection to you as well. Please dont be a man hater, im a man and i hope you dont hate what im telling you right now

Ive got a friend who is. He wants them as friend but not more than that. If a guy starts to court her, she becomes irritated as if she is a man-hater. LOL! I dont understand her somehow why she's acting like that. Indeed she's beautiful.

as long as you know how to choose the right guy... even just being friends, there really is no reason why you will hate men. if you've seen the good side of good men, then they will just rock your world. i think there's something that a guy did to you in the past that you dislike till the present day. you really can't be a man hater unless some man did something awful to you