What if your boyfriend/girlfriend admire someone else?

Love from admiration is very much different, your girl just admire a kind and funny guy then there's nothing to worry,maybe she admire that person for being funny and make her laughed perhaps, admiration is kind of likes to a quality of a person, Love is came from deep inside..And I guess she don't mean to hurt you for that,if she had an intention hurting she would not open these things to you,she just being transparent to what she feels and I think better for you and her than she will keep and hide something from you and in that case she might have an intention to make thing unreal for you or lie to you.,Some cases you need to open heart and open mind to understand feelings of other whats the use of loving a person without trusting her/him, if you trust your partner and you have confident in yourself you won't feel bad at all,unless you know she playing towards you .Do you think a partner being honest to tell you what she feels better than she keeps alone all by herself? Hope it helps a little....Happy myLotting!

Sweetie i admire a lot of people. And all of the opposite gender. And there is nothing for my partner to worry about. We are human and the opposite will alwasy be there for a distraction. Whether we like it or not. I don't mind and he doesn't mind. That is what makes us human. TATA.

Hmmm. I don't get jealous much, so I guess I'm okay with it. I don't think I can stop my boyfriend from liking other people. I mean, it's just human nature right, and I'll be glad if he told me that rather than hearing it from somebody else, or realizing that he likes this particular girl.

Well, in love we always like to change for our loved ones.. you know when my wife liked a singer singing so well. I wished i should be a good singer, so not just she will like me, i can make her life happy. I tried few months singing, she found out and said.."u can become a singer, it doesnot mean all those sings well are equal to my love thats u ever!"..So i understood the difference, admiration is liking that will not equals love!

well for me. honesty is one of the important in a relationship.if this happen tome that my bf is liking other girl. well he must honest to me. and also there no wrong if you admiring other that normal reaction.of course love is diff.even you admire one person its doesnt mean yu love her. you give up your gf because admiring others.

It will be fine if my girlfriend admire someone else. I mean its fine as long as what she admire is a person who is admirable. You know some popular artist, band, singer,her father,her mother, teacher and friends. And she must be sure of her feeling that she's just only admiring the person and not secretly loving or wanting the person to be with. Because if she do then I'm gonna leave her. It's hard to stay with someone whos attention is not for you.

admiration is just a natural thing...and jealousy...I don't think so, the point is even though my partner admires someone else at the end of the day he still choses to be with me and we trust each other

How did she say it to you? Does she say to you with a smile in her face or it just slip into her mouth? When if ever I have a boyfriend and he will say that she likes that girl or this girl because of reason of physical appearance or whatsoever, of course I will not react to that. I will let is slide unless he says it once, but if he keeps on saying that knowing that I am the girlfriend, I will surely asks the question why? Why is he saying that to me? Of course I need to know the truth. But anyway, if he really likes other girls or he have a deep crush he will not tell it to me, he will rather keep it to himself, am I right? At first time my boyfriend will do that to me, I will not give any reaction. I will not feel insecure. If he really like the girl she is talking about why do he pursue me in the first place. I will not issue a sad face or insecure reaction but I will make sure I will mark the one he admire.

This really wouldn't bother me at all. In my opinion there is quite a lot of difference between admiring a person (whether they are of the opposite gender or not) and being in love with a person. I believe that people are able to be monogamous if that is what they desire. I know that I have some female friends that my husband admires and I also know that my husband has some male friends that I admire, but I would never cheat on my husband with any of these people and I know that he would never cheat on me either.

it will not other me coz i also do the same as no one is actually perfect and sometimes we can what we like in different person. though what matter is i still have my bf and its just an admiration.

it's perfectly normal to get attracted to other persons aside from your GF. As they say, the grass is always greener on the other side. But if you are confident about your relationship, you should just accept it. I only means that your partner is being honest with you about her feelings. But the fact that she told you about her feelings means she likes you more. After all, you are her BF and not the other person, so consider yourself lucky.

I think admiring is just okay, but if you observe that he is nursing the feeling like getting the number of his/her crush, its a different story already. That's already bordering the line between attraction and unfaithfulness.

No matter what the reaction is,it's much better if you tell her. Cause if you don't,that will give her a wrong signal. It will make her think that you're liking someone and you're hiding it from her-in short,1st level of cheating. Honesty is still the best solution. I'm a girl and I would tell you that I would be very jealous and hurt. If you like that person,then why are you with me if you're seeing the things you admire in another girl? right?

Personally? it's a normal thing to admire a person apart from your boyfriend/girlfriend. for i too admired some..but i would be somewhat jealous or annoyed if my boyfriend keeps on admiring to same person. my gosh! and if that person being admired to is an actress, it's ok. But if that person is just across the corner and the admire thing is kinda leading to liking..oh well, i would be alarmed..

I do not think there is much one can do in such a situation. There are girls who have boyfriends and are also crazy about male celebrities. Its the way some people are.

As far as I am concerned, I think I will first get jealous about him or her. For maybe I am not so strong at that aspect, I think I will just try my best to make me stronger and let my girl friend can look good on me,and not just admire others.Have a nice day.

My initial reaction was to feel jealous. I am a jealous person by nature and i wanted my husband or boyfriend to focused his attention on me. But liking is different from loving, i will understand his feelings as well because he's just a human and all of us can feel this way to others but not to the point that you will leave your present relationship because of that other individual you like

I think that for every individual to admire or have a little crush on someone is normal. But when you are in a relationship there has to be boundaries in admiring someone. we cannot force a person not to admire this or that someone. Its normal for everybody to appreciate someone not because they are in love with these persons but because they have the qualities that they like in these people.As a girl, Its normal for us to have a crush with other guys but it doesn't mean that we don't love our partners at all. Like me, I'm in a relationship right now and whenever I had a crush on someone I always tell it to my bf so that i can assure him that its just a simple crush. Remember that Trusting each other can make your relationship stronger. ^_^

Love, love, love. Makes us act and react in strange ways. Dear Mark, your girlfriend should be your best friend. It is great you admire her that much and I'm sure she admires you the same way. But that doesn't mean you and her can't admire other people and even share that with each other. There is nothing like a healthy relationship where you don't have to be afraid of talking and sharing. If you are her friend and allow her to share with you without small things being a problem she will never feel the need to lie. You can have more than one friend and it doesn't mean you like one less than the other. She chose to be with you, admiring other people or not is not a problem..you worrying too much about that can be. Enjoy your life with her and don't think too much about tomorrow...you should be together if you are happy...if you bring problems to the relationship then she won't be happy and there will be no reason for you to be together. Good Luck

well thats how love works its ok if he admire somoene becoz if we are really mean for each other then we will end up together whatever happened.