Peoples minds and Pass time
By Gabs
@gabs8513 (48686)
United Kingdom
April 3, 2010 1:46am CST
I feel so honoured that someone here at mylot was so bored they decided to choose me
to tag my Discussion with f***wit Cow (I have been called worse)
Now I am not to sure which Discussion was tagged, I heard from a Friend who wrote to mylot straight away
to report it
Let me tell you something, this is to the lovely Person who went out of their way to pick me
Years ago I would have got upset about this and hid and stayed away
Now, I feel sorry for People like this, because they seem to have such a small mind, no life and are
obviously bored that they need to do this sort of thing
Now to take away that boredom, why not sit there and think about
1. Why you had to put this
2. Is it really grown up
3. Could you do something else with your time, something that is worth your time
or you could at least put an explanation why you felt you had tag those lovely words to my Discussion,
why you felt the need to call me this as you do not know me or maybe you do nd do not like me, in that
case, then talk to me direct like an Adult and not hide behind a Computer like a coward
I thought I would just let you know that I recognise the fact what you think of me and let it go over my head
If you feel you need to let more steam of, are so bored you need to be childish please feel free to tag my Discussions
with such lovely Names I really do not mind
My Words are 'As long as you are concentrating on me, you are leaving other People alone'
Well I guess I better turn this into a Discussion
So have you lately come across a Person, that just feels the need to be childish and insulting because they
are bored?
Did you laugh at them?
I know I am, why? Because I know those type of People need to look at their Life a little closer
maybe they can find some good in themselves which might get rid of the bad
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25 responses
@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
3 Apr 10
I am so proud of you. Proud that you have not let this incident drive you away in hurt. Proud that you have stood up for yourself. You go girl!
As for the half wits that tag discussions like this.....sadly they will never learn. But that doesn't mean we have to give over our power to them and allow what they do to hurt us. As you say......laugh at them.
Recently I went to the defence of a friend here on the lot and the person who got up my nose, chose to totally ignore what I said and why, and instead posted discussion after discussion trying to prolong the 'fued' with me. I laughed and left those discussion to die in the wind. I didn't respond and didn't rise to her pokes at me in her discussions and her responses on other people's discussion. She doesn't know me from Adam, yet pontificated as if she did. Called me all kinds of things. Pffft to her. I know me, and I know I did and said the right things. So you're not alone in these kinds of things Gabs.
But like I said.............I'm so proud of you for writing it out instead of 'hiding' it out.
Good for you!
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@moondancer (7433)
• United States
3 Apr 10
Very well said Sparks. I could not have done better myself in responding to this. I agree completely and totally to what you have said.
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@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
3 Apr 10
Hi moonbeam.............good to see you out and about.
Alice..........some people just can't take plain talking and the truth about themselves, so they torture others. The trick is to turn the torture back on them by laughing quietly and moving on.
Hugs to you all ladies! Love you to bits!
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
3 Apr 10
Sparks, I have my Friends like yourself to thank that I have become that confident and laugh at something like this now, that I do not hide any more
I never saw the Tag but a good Friend did and she reported it to mylot then let me know about it
It is so sad that People stoop that low but well everyone to their own pass time
Love you all
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
3 Apr 10
I'm sorry someone was so rude to u , gabs. U run into all kinds of folks on here. Thank heavens most of them are nice & not stupid jerks like this one. I feel sorry for folks like this that have to be ugly to nice people just because they are so miserable. Try to consider the source & not let it upset u too bad. U are a great person in my book & alot more peoples to. Bet he doesn't have as many friends on here as u do. hugs.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
3 Apr 10
Hi Jo
It did not upset me I just laugh at them now
I never saw the Tag but others did and one of my Friends reported it then informed me about it
It is not worth even getting a bit upset about it I just hope one Day they will get a Life
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
3 Apr 10
i'm glad u are not upset, gabs. Have a good night.
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@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
3 Apr 10
Hi Gabs, First of all I would like to express my support. I don't think that you should worry a lot about this person. It seems that s/he does not have anything to do than to annoy people. this person seems to be a loser in life. So he is trying to pick on other people. S/He is anonymous because he is afraid that he might get caught. This person is a coward and does not even deserve this discussion. This person needs to be helped psychologically. If he is reading he should consult a friend to talk about it! Get a life.
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@whiteheather39 (24403)
• United States
4 Apr 10
Gabs It is very obvious that these people do not have a life. They must be jealous because you have so many friends here on myLot who really care about you.
I also think he/she could be envious of your talents to write such little heartwarming tales about Gissi. I am so proud that you have decided to change your mode of handling the situation. What a difference from 3 or 4 years ago. YOU GO GIRL!!!
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@royal52gens (5488)
• United States
4 Apr 10
Not again!!! Why do people think tagging discussions like that will be beneficial or productive to them? Such a complete waste of time and energy. Wow.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
5 Apr 10
Well Sweet you have been a victim to this and at the time even I used to get upset about it now I just laugh at them maybe their Brain will not let them get any further so they think it is funny to go around doing things like that
Nice language though
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Apr 10
hi gabs thats so awful and you are such a sweet and giving person,how dare they do this to you. ggggrrrrrr. that person must be hard up for
something to do, a nd so cowardly as he or she cannot just pm you and discuss their issue with you. Cowards like that have no place in mylot. this was stupid and cowardly and yes in away I can also laugh, as it showed this person has a really limited vocabulary and probably a rather small i Q too.Yes true if they pick on you they will leave someone else alone. I had a reply calling me an oldgrandma that has to respected else he or she would have done so and so today so I just deleted this unsavory response. I mean I reported it not deleted it. sorry this happened to you. those tags that are mean will get my lot admins attention I think. did not mylot admins say that nasty tags could get the tagger kicked out of here, some time back? I think they did. hugs from hatley. do not let this nasty person make you feel bad gabs.you do not need that kind of hostility.
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@cloudwatcher (6861)
• Australia
3 Apr 10
Congratulations Gaby! Now you might believe me when I tell you how much you have changed over the last three years! You have grown in so many ways. You are sure of yourself and no longer run and hide, but treat such people the way they deserve. "Good onya mate" as they would say here in Oz.
I haven't received such tags or responses as far as I know. I don't post many discussions. The worst I have received was a response which simply said, "Idiot! Get a education!" On checking her profile, I think it was easy to see who needed an education, and yes, English is her first language. I thought it was quite funny really, and just ignored it and passed on to the next response.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
3 Apr 10
Hi Cloud, yes I do believe you and you are one of the People that I have to thank for making me so much more confident and stronger and sure of myself
It is just a joke how People can be like that but well maybe one Day they will grow up
Big Hugs and love to you
Your little Nephew is doing so much better right now and I am hoping he stays that way
The Avatar is a Photo I took this morning of him xxx
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@tamarafireheart (15384)
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3 Apr 10
Hi gabs,
How disgusting this vile person is, it is best to just ignore this ignorant person, they shouldn't be on mylot if they are going to insult a long standing member like you, don't worry hun, you know who your friends are here and we will not tolerate people like that, love and hugs.
Tamara
xxxx
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
3 Apr 10
Hi Sweetie
I never saw the Tag, a Friend did she reported it and then sent me an PM to let me know about it
We do have small minded People all over the Place I guess lol
Big Hugs and love to you
Hope you got the Photo of Gissi that I took this morning xxx
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@tamarafireheart (15384)
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3 Apr 10
Hi gabs,
Yes I got them, he is just a little hearthrob, so very cute as a little Easter Bunny, and I love the other one as well, I have save them on my PC so its all here, thanks sweet, love you.
Tamara
xxxx
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@krupesh (2608)
• India
3 Apr 10
Hello gabs!
I am happy that you have not taken that into your mind.Well you cant do anything but just to leave the matter alone.For some, your discussion might be boring but to some others it might be interesting.So dont worry & carry on the work here & you are an oldie here not to get things like that into your mind.
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@quita88 (3715)
• United States
4 Apr 10
I haven't seen that but I would think they are not only
bored but a pain in the you know what--
I would think my lot admin would kick them off.
It's just not a site for such.
I am truly sorry Gabs. Hang in there ane remember what
goes around comes around.
hugs,
quita
@Nestonlady (132)
•
4 Apr 10
Good for you!! You have handled this in the best possible way and it's great that you have had the courage to deal with this issue in this way.People like that are really to be pitied in some ways if they are incapable of responding to and perhaps disagreeing with a discussion without having to resort to personal insults.Well done also to your friend for reporting it to Mylot
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@Nestonlady (132)
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5 Apr 10
Hi gabs8513 :)
Thank you for your welcome message. I do enjoy being on mylot and have found most people very pleasant so hopefully, the one you had trouble with is in a very small minority.Let's hope so, anyway!
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@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
3 Apr 10
I must say of all the disgusting tags i have seen and my friends got, this is even worse. Wonder what i may do to someone like that? But luckily we know that people like that just reflect their own unmannered personalities for us to see. Glad you are much better than that little ignorant noodle. TATA.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
3 Apr 10
Hi Saphrina
I just go past caring now when they do this, it is disgusting yes and they need to wash their Mouth out (wash their hands after typing it) but well we can't do anything about these People but treat them with the contempt they deserve
Thanks for popping in
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@AnnieOakley1 (5596)
• Canada
4 Apr 10
I am so proud of you to be able to write this as calmly as you have. I don't think I have quite reached that level of maturity and tolerance.....yet. But you are all teaching me, so I'm learnin'.
I did get an apology for the childish name I was called, because I handled the situation well. But I had help from a few responders (I won't mention any names, but they know who they are) and a few others that didn't get in the middle but were just there to show me I was not alone. It all helped me to make the correct choices for a peaceful resolution.
HUGS
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
5 Apr 10
Hi Annie
It is through my true Friends on here that I learned it is a waste of energy and anger to get mad at silly People like that
You know we all stick together no matter what all of us including you will always stick together and we will laugh at silly People like that
I am glad you got an apology and of course the backing of Friends and you always will
Big Hugs to you
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
5 Apr 10
i commend you for being such a logical, adult, inteligent person gabs. im proud to be your friend. here lately, so many of my friends are being picked on like this. i dont even know why but they/someone is picking the best sweetest nicest people on here to pick on. it doesnt make any sense. and it would be really nice if mylot figured a way to identify who is tagging what. and im thinking its a younger, newer person/persons on here doing such things. mylot needs to have a probation period where they figure whos going to be useful to our little community or they may start loosing the best ones. we should bring this tagging up with askalice and see if there is a way to start identifying who tags what,
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@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
4 Apr 10
Hey gabs! You know what they say "Sticks and stones will break
my bones"... If someone is so bored and pathetic that they
have to be stupid and insulting they don't need to even be
talked about! That is giving them too much time and wasting
it! So, I would just ignore them and let mylot admin find out
who they are get them banned! Mylot admin knows how to find
them and they will take care of them! It is childish and there
is no need to bother with someone that is in need of that type
of attention! Forget them and move on!
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@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
4 Apr 10
Its really good you still laugh at situation like this. If I will be in bad mood, I try to tried people nicely and I hope others will treat me the same way. I think that person have a mental problem and really in bad mood. I hope I never meat this kind of person in discussion I made. Cheers
@umit_umit (1984)
• India
3 Apr 10
oh its amuzing as well as ironic comedy kinds!what to do laugh and pity??what else friend?
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