What are you going to do if you are missing the one you love?
By markmoney
@markmoney (2868)
Philippines
April 3, 2010 10:27am CST
Let's say he/she went to a place where there's no phone signal and internet connection. What are you going to do if you are missing him/her? Are you going to read back your conversations, read back his/her messages, stare at his/her picture, listen to the songs she used to sing or a favorites of him/her, remember the things that you used to do together, what are you going to do? I would be glad to hear from you. Have a nice day! Happy myLotting!
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21 responses
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
3 Apr 10
To miss someone you love is not a nice feeling at all. But to keep reading the meassages or looking at the pitcure, i won't recommend. It only makes it worse. Get something to keep yourself busy with. It won't be that long, then the missing will be over. TATA.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
3 Apr 10
Hi saph! Well, I guess I can't really help not to think of her. Even when I was doing other things, she's still running on my mind. I know she'll be back soon, and I'm just expressing my feelings here that I am missing her. Hope she's fine there. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
3 Apr 10
Yes, I know she misses me too. It's just hard if we are not communicating. I'll just wait for her saph, she'll be back very soon.
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
4 Apr 10
i'm going to read back her messages and reminisce our memories together, our fights and conversation,our laughters and tears.. quite dramatic..
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
Hi stanley! Those you mentioned are good things to do, you will be feeling that she is with you so will not miss her so badly anymore. You will temporarily becomes happy. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@monkeylong (3139)
• Guangzhou, China
4 Apr 10
Yeah, As far as I am concerned, I think if I am missing the one that I love, I will just put the photo of the one I love in my hand. I will look it for the second time. Or I will just do some other thing in case I will miss the one I love not so much.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
Hi monkeylong! Yes, looking at her photo, makes you remember her and it can ease a bit your sadness. If you can manage to do other things, then it's better coz you can temporary forget the loneliness. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@werty009 (404)
• Philippines
4 Apr 10
well instead of getting lonely and missing the person I'll do the old way of communicating sending letter cause if a person misses someone so much well a person should act or do something to get things moving if their is no phone signal and internet i'll rather send a letter to the person
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
Hi werty! That's a good idea actually. If you know the exact address of her, then you can really do that. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@greyz7 (859)
• Philippines
4 Apr 10
reading back previous messages and staring at the picture won't do any change but what i feel, id rather go to the mall or play games on my pc.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
Hi greyz! Yes, if going to the mall or playing pc games can makes you forget him, then that's a good thing to do. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@jiraiyasanin (642)
• Philippines
4 Apr 10
i play computer games and every night im looking the picture that we are together remembering the good times we are together and believing that time will come that we will be together again sooner or later, i believe that she is not that away from me but he is near me always and always in my heart!
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
Hi jirai! It's really good to remember those special moments that you have shared with each other. Yes, you don't have to be sad too much, instead think positive, coz she will be back soon and she is just right there in your heart. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
19 Apr 10
Yes I do all you said. When I was infatuated I do look at the pictures and videos of that special person. I want to see his smile. I do not read text messages coming from him because it is impossible. I play music that will remind me of him. I do daydream of the times that I still seeing him. My imagination is only limited since this guy doesn’t know I existed.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
17 Apr 10
I guess in such a situation I would think about my beloved a lot while looking forward to when I will see him again. I would try writing letters to him via ‘snail mail’ and wait for him to write back to me all the while keeping as busy as I can! I would even consider making him something, a gift perhaps...
@ranviruchauhan (1407)
• India
3 Apr 10
Hi,
I hate this situation very first.I dont like to trap,means mostly avoid this much of love. But you sometimes it happened automatically.Whenever i miss my love read our conversation carefully, reread all messages sent by her (mostly written on her own feelings) , stare her picture for long time and sit lonely with her picture. But i cant listen or sing her favourite songs because it can make me cry.It is very pitty situation when one cannot contact her/his loved one with any means.
I have one question for you , are you in this type of situation?
With Regards
Ranvir chauhan
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
Hi ranvir! It's really a lonely situation. You wanted to talk to her but you just can't. But bringing back her memories such as looking at her picture, reading her messages, etc. will make you feel a bit better. Yes, I have been in that situation and I can say it's really hard to bear. But fortunately she's already back. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
3 Apr 10
When my husband was still my boyfriend, our relationship was long distance and we only get to see each other once in a month. I miss him every time so I always tell him that I miss him and always communicated with him. My husband and I are together for a year now and there are times that I still miss him even if he is just right there with me. The best thing that I can do if I miss him is I show him how much I love him.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
3 Apr 10
Hi! It's really nice to always show and let our partners know how much we love and care for them. Anyone will like that. It's really sweet when our partners keep on telling us that they love us or they miss us. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
3 Apr 10
Hi IJ! By doing that, I will not feel the emptiness, I will feel like she is with me. It will makes me smile and happy. Thank you for your nice suggestion. Have a nice day! Happy myLotting!
@1Mdollarmom (207)
• Philippines
3 Apr 10
Rather than staring on her pictures or messages and drown yourself in loneliness while listening to music that reminds you of her, why not pray that she'll be safe from all harms and that she'll be back soon enough before she sees how gloomy you are without her. Praying is also the best weapon in order to avoid temptation that comes during loneliness.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
3 Apr 10
Hi 1Mdollarmom! Yes, prayer is very important, we should really pray for the one we love, for him/her to be safe all the time. That should always be included. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@redheart03 (93)
• Philippines
4 Apr 10
for me i will write many letters for him. :)
then when he came back, he will know how much i missed him :)
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
Hi redheart! How sweet and thoughtful you are to do that. For sure he will like that and he will love you more for that. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@saksham15 (23)
• India
3 Apr 10
i will take a look at the pics of both of us together.......and think of the moments we had enjoyed together.....moreover i will read his/her messages......
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
3 Apr 10
Hi! Yes, it will make you feel better and makes you smile. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
6 Apr 10
if that will happen, i will just open my laptop and listen to all the music stored there, and open my pictures where i can also watched my loved ones.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
5 Apr 10
This isn't exactly the same thing, but I had a very close friend that passed away earlier this year and since then, I've written letters to her that she will never read. I've posted comments onto her facebook account just like I think she will read them. I've also listened to a lot of music that reminds me of her and looked at the pictures that we'd taken together. I will never stop missing her, but at least there are little things that I can do to ease the pain.
@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
Why don't you spend time with your other friends instead? there's no need to worry too much about you girlfriend. Just think that she's having a good time wherever she is right now, because she could be. You only worry if is in iraq or afghanistan or somewhere not safe.
@minotaur87 (769)
• Singapore
7 Apr 10
Actually, I think you can make your life more fulfilling when you can't meet the person. Sometimes, we always spent too much time thinking about the person. When we finally meet the person again, we realised that we haven't been doing much stuff so we become regretful about that. So the best thing is treasure the time that you didn't meet with the person to do whatever you want to achieve alone and treasure the time with the person when you meet the person and never think about your own stuff.
@dr0czh (53)
• China
6 Apr 10
you know I did the things you mentioned.when we were college students,we went to diffrent schools in two citys.we have no enough chance to talk to each other face to face.when I miss him and I could't find him ---maybe he was in studying ,I would review our conversations before and I start to think our furture .when he will ask me to marry him,how he ask and will he bring the flower or what place will this happen?...something like that.and I feel happy when I have such ideas.or I will make something for him or keep a diary.
@yazidbustami (60)
•
4 Apr 10
hi markmoney, i think i does like you going to read back conversation,read back message and anything else, and may be i dream about something sweet was happen, but its so make me feeling so lonely.. :((