how many childrent do you plan to have?
By angelblue
@angelblue (82)
Vietnam
9 responses
@Jennlk84 (4206)
• United States
6 Apr 10
My husband and I have agreed on having 2 children. This of course may change once we have children. We may find that we want more children, who knows! I do know though that I at least want 2. That has always been a dream of mine. I can't wait to have children. We will be starting a family in approximately two years. :-)
@alwayzzcitra (1861)
• Indonesia
8 Apr 10
We are planning to have to children, a girl and a boy. We already have a girl now, she's three months old. But if my second child is a girl again, we will try for the third and that's the maximum lol
@monkeylong (3139)
• Guangzhou, China
4 Apr 10
As far as I am concerned, I just want to plan to have one child,which I think I can have th eability to raise him up by myself.But if I just raise 3 or more children in my home. I think it will be a burden tp me. So in order to live a happy life, I think one child will be better.
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@ianlone81 (14)
• Philippines
4 Apr 10
For me i would like to have 4 childs no more no less.
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@lulumartin (963)
• Germany
4 Apr 10
Hi, angelblue.
I am already a mother and i have an adorable baby boy. He is now thirteen months old.
If you ask me how many kids i want, then i would be the same like you. Maximum for me is two kids. The financial status is a matter. But most importantly is the time spent on each children.
If i have many kids, i think i will not have quality times spent together with them. It's really not an easy job to take good care of the baby and the family.
The more kids you have, the less time you will have for doing house chores. And i don't think i am capable to do both if i have many kids.
This is what i think. Have a nice day and happy mylotting.
@jithinpg (87)
• India
4 Apr 10
Well this question is quite debatable and still arising problems in many countries like china. In china the government had enforced a rule that couples can only have one child - be it girl or boy. We have known through media some months back that due to enforcement of this law, people are forced to have abortions in china to get a baby boy!
According to me, family planning is a nice idea but it cannot be forced in anyway. For most people having 2 children is their dream, some need 3 or some need 4 and there are also people who wish to have only one kid.
According to me, i need 2 kids - be it girl or boy it depends on what god gives me. I'm strongly against forcing of family planning, though we can advice people if necessary. It is only a short period of time we can see our children as kids, after that when they're grown up we need to wait till they have their baby's. So, your wife might be loving to have kids and she loves kids very much. Why thinking twice, having 3 children is not a very big count.. just enjoy the happy moments with your children and wife, because the life of a human is short, and these happy moments cannot be reverted back after when you are old. So, stock some good memories for that time.
Cheers-
Jithin. :)
@babycecelia (21)
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4 Apr 10
To tell you the truth, our chinese say one girl and one boy is the best match. Because in chinese "a girl"+"a boy" is equal to "good". Therefore, I suggest you'd better have one boy and one girl. And it's also my dream.
Wish you can have a boy in the future.