friendship or boyfriend?

friends are forever boys are whatever=)

well i think there's no right or wrong cause it's a tough decision to make for a person and personally i don't want to choose friendship or relationship

well, there friend try to way both side...have you ever tried to talk with your boyfriend or with your friend. try to hear their side..Maybe your boyfriend don't feel real love to your or this feelings of true might have transfer to your friend., you know, you don't own your boyfriend legally, even he was your boyfriend but you have a lot of choice and you can do several options in your life, you could still change your life for better. Don't waste your life thinking that you are being cheated by your boyfriend and your bestfriend. You know friend, there are a lot of boys in the world and i believed that you can find still one of a kind and most deserving one. If you find out that your present boyfriend really feel inlove with your bestfriend don't get hurt but instead leave them, and congratulates them. We are looking here, the love we find in every person and individual. We are educated here. If we truly love the person, We will allow them to leave at once..Hope this will able to help your present situation right now.

it is really hard to find that one good person that u can call as a real good friend, it is even hard to find a real good frd in the person u love the most, some time u become possesive when it comes to u r loved ones , so it is hard to become a good frnd n good lover both at the same time

I try to stay away from my friends boyfriends if I can help it. Although it has happened before that my friend's boyfriend broke up with her because I guess we were falling for each other. They weren't a serious item though; the girl was actually cheating on another boyfriend with this guy. And since we were hitting it off I guess we got together. I trust my friends a lot, and I don't believe any of them would actively go for my guy. But If ever that happened and they were going at it together, I wouldn't stop them. I'd break up with the guy for allowing one of my friends to flirt with him, and then making himself available to my friend. And I'd end the friendship with my friend for going after a guy who's already taken, especially since the girlfriend is me, who's a friend of hers. There's no sense in trusting people like that who are cheating on you, and there's no sense to continue a friendship if you've already lost the trust. So if I were you, I wouldn't give it much thought. Trust is a major thing with me, and garbage should immediately be thrown out. That's the end of that relationship.

thats so bad to know when your friend betrayed you. i actually have experience the same thing and i know its really hard to get over with things specially if you really trusted the person soo much...but life goes on...just forgive her but be careful with her then.

to be frank, friendship is rare these days, so try making friends and the benefit is that you would not feel cheated when he/she hurts you as you would in case of a bf when you have a trustworthy friend and you need more than a friend then look for bf and you would certainly fond a good one, i think so if you deserve and more important you are.......cute, enjoy..TATA

It may seem to you that friends will always be there, they are when you're younger and when all of you have no priorities yet. But when the bill starts rolling and relationships starts blossoming, you're sure to get hurt if you expect that friends would be there for you all the time. We were like that before. Fresh from highschool and college, we were just with each other's company all the time. But as we grew older, worked on different companies, gathered up responsibilities, regardless if we had boyfriends or not, we just had different priorities. Yes we did talk still, but talks became txts then emails, then finally we just met at least 3x or 5x a year. You can't blame friends. We don't mean to be that way, it's just how life goes. On the other hand, if you have a boyfriend - well it sounds too immature. When you have a close friend who became your partner, it's different. You both love doing things together. Dreams, plans, trips, and a life you'd like to spend together with. He will listen to you because he loves you, there will be shared moments that even friendship with your best buds cannot compare. When he holds your hands, when the two of you decide on things. When you just look at him and see that he loves you. That's just amazing. Yes, there will be times when you'll get hurt, but when you find someone (not because you forced him to be with you, or because everyone has one) when you find that someone who becomes your lover and your best friend - you'd never need to find someone else. The best part? You could have friends and you could bring him along and the group would just have fun until the sun rises. So, take heed in relationships that are temporary. Be patient and don't rush. Friends and love will find a way in your heart, if you are ready to accept them.

In this world you can't trust anyone after all. Many people are really skilled at using masks. If you experience something like that, you should consider if that person is really a friend, or can be considered a friend. If your boyfriend falls for that, you should consider that he doesn't love you.

This happened to me at work. I have this friend (ex-friend at that) and she is a flirt. She has a history of flirting with other guys committed to a relationship and when the guys broke with their girlfriends, she automatically becomes their new gal. I don't know her history when she became my acquaintance and then became my friend. At that time, my boyfriend and I are still somewhat new and are still in the process of getting to know each other. She then targeted my bf behind my back. It came to the point that we broke up because he's making an excuse about his family not approving of the relationship and so many things. So, instead of holding to him, I let him go trying to understand his situation. Then a common friend told me that they were going out (my ex-bf and x-friend). I became angry at their betrayal and almost confronted them (I was in the province at the time with my family on vacation). So, I called my ex on the phone and asked him about it. He denied it and made other excuses and asked me not to blame the girl because it's not true. When I called the girl on the phone, she just answered through text, "All's fair in love and war." At her answer, I threw my phone at the wall in frustration. What kind of answer is that??! I was so angry and frustrated that I cried all night while drinking by myself...

if a friend frustrates me by having an affair with my boyfriend, i would not choose any of them. they hurt me so i'll dump the two rubbish persons.

Yeah,we can't live without feelins and friends .we need care and company which mostly come from our friends .I feel my life filled with friends and sunshine till i was senior grade one ,because I had met a really bad deskmate .She is an ingenious and artifical.I couldn't get used to her .Soon ,we fell out .To my ndignation,I was isolated by her .In that year ,I was so lonely and helpless.My life was full of sorrow and dark clouds .What's more ,I became autism in that year ,I had a bad temper ,making my friends and family upset . Luckily , I came across good friends . She is very outgoing and warmhearted .With her help ,I become much cheerful now .O(n_n)O~~

u r right, but u have to co-operate with this world. we can't do anything about this types of matter. i also feel exact like u. but i can only ask this ques. to this world that... how frustrating that all !!!

u r right, but me have to co-operate with this world. we can't do anything about this type of matters. i also feel exact like u, but i also ask this ques. that .... HOW FRUSTRATING THAT ALL !!!