Do you want to have BEAUTIFUL KIDS?
By gambamarcela
@gambamarcela (1012)
Philippines
April 4, 2010 11:24pm CST
When we talk about getting married, do you always consider this? A lot of people say that physical appearance does not matter in a relationship. But, in my opinion, it does count much.You may find me narrow-minded, but I really want to have beautiful kids. I want to see kids who are pretty and handsome. How about you? Do you think of this matter when you want to get married? Say your piece.
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18 responses
@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
5 Apr 10
When you marry is because you love that person and you can get legal benefits from all of that paperwork that marriage means
If I had kids... well, I hope they don't look after me but if they looked like my boyfriend they would be really cute
I don't mind if I had kids about them being pretty or not, as they're more than physical appeareance
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@gambamarcela (1012)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
Hi agv0,I also want my kids to appear on commercials.LOL. But, the reason why I want to have beautiful kids is that I want to have something to brag about to my friends and other people.hehe
@gambamarcela (1012)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
I will always consider the looks. Why oh why? I guess I'm too young and immature.hehe
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@eloveriz2004 (499)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
My little boy has good looks and I feel great pride when others tell me how cute and good-looking he is. Of course, every parent wants to have beautiful offspring since most people adore kids with pleasing physical appearance. But all kids especially babies are lovable and charming no matter how they look. Their innocent faces and sweet smiles can capture everyone's heart.
@gambamarcela (1012)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
Who has the dominant blood?LOL. I looked into your photos and it's undeniable that you have the dominant blood.Oh, I feel envious of your cute baby boy.hehe. My high school classmate also has a very cute baby;he has cute chinky eyes.
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@eloveriz2004 (499)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
I think he got most of his features from me he he! Yeah, thanks for the compliments, my baby is truly adorable & huggable. He's the heaven-sent angel my husband & I were waiting for.
@mistissa (1349)
• Netherlands
5 Apr 10
I must say that it is very obvious to me that you do not have any children yet. I myself have 3 and must say that they are not the most beautifull in the world. But they are very nice looking, and to be honest every mother will love her children no matter what they look like. And also everyone has a different definition of handsome or beautifull. The most important thing when you have children is that they are healthy, not if they look like a model.
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@gambamarcela (1012)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
Oh you have a very handsome kid. I suppose you're a model. Wow! Amazing. I hope I can marry a guy who has a different nationality; probably Korean or Japanese.LOL.
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@lulumartin (963)
• Germany
5 Apr 10
Hi, gambamarcela.
Honestly, i do want to have beautiful kids, and i think most people do want as well. But honestly, i never thought of this when it comes to marriage thing.
I mean choose a life-long partner does not base on this. The most important thing is i want my hubby is the one who loves me, and treat me good by his heart, no matter he is handsome or not.
Every kids are adorable, they are beautiful, i don't think this matter should be a problem when you want to find a partner to get married.
Have a nice day and happy mylotting.
@gambamarcela (1012)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
Maybe I'm still young then, when it comes to the matter of marriage. Gosh, I'm still 21. I really don't know if this mindset of mine will really change. I hope it won't.haha. I really really want good-looking kids. LOL.
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@anitarei321 (548)
• Japan
5 Apr 10
I don`t want it now cause i already have:)if you were pretty enough and he good enough i am sure you will make a good generation :)even if not in my country we believe that when get pregnant and you hate some one who is nice or pretty your baby will look like the person the one you hate i don`t really believe it but i have seen the reality for 2,3 time so you can try it but i know you can not hate some one if you don`t want it and without reasons:)
@gambamarcela (1012)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
Oh I've seen your photo with your children. They look as good-looking as you do. Anyway, your culture's belief sounds interesting. If I were to hate soemone, I'd rather hate those celebrities.hehe. Maybe I can marry a Japanese or Korean.LOL. I so love guys with chinky eyes.
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@jinjer168 (1596)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
Hello gambamarcela! Yes all of the people i guess, want to have a beautiful kids. When i got married 6 years ago, i didn't consider the looks of my future husband then. What i look for is his sincerity towards me and the family we are planning to build. I'm just lucky enough to have not just beautiful but very smart kid.
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@gambamarcela (1012)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
Wow! It's nice to know that your kid has both beauty and brains. She may then become a beauty queen in the future.hehe.
@cyberfluf (4996)
• Netherlands
5 Apr 10
Even if you would want to have beautiful children, marrying someone you think is beautiful won't guarantee that you will have children that are beautiful. The first thing why this is no guarantee is that different people have different definitions of what beauty is. Also, what if you would have the misfortune to carry a baby that has a disability? It might show in his or her face or body. Will this make your child less special or beautiful? I believe not.
I do believe people are attracted by physical appearance when they got a crush on someone, but whether or not you will love them or want to spend the rest of your life with them has a lot more to do with personality in my opinion.
@gambamarcela (1012)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
Oh no! I would not want my baby to have a disability. But, if I do have, I still would love him/her.hehe.
Yeah! I want a guy who has great personality with good looks. That won't make any issues at all.LOL.
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@maanrodriguez (604)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
i'd love to have cute and beautiful kids, but then again all kids are cute and beautiful in my eyes. LOL. my husband and I have been married for four months, no plans for kids yet but it is a mutual decision. we've decided to hold on for the sake of financial stability. hopefull by next year we can try to have little ones. :)
@gambamarcela (1012)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
Best wishes to your married life and your new family dear maan. It is really hard to raise a child if you're not financially stable.
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
6 Apr 10
Yes i have seen a beautiful dream about my future, my marriage.. i think i would have small family.. and only 1-2 kids.. because i think if you have small family.. then you may live a happily life.. and i would have.. 1-2 beautiful kids.. and it will not matter for me.. the kids are boy or girls.. because i like both.. have a nice day and keep mylotting always..
@gambamarcela (1012)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
Hi there! I hope you'd realize all your dreams of marriage. A small family is good. As for me, I would want a big family so that we can be very happy.
Happy mylotting!
@hofferp (4734)
• United States
5 Apr 10
You said it, you're still young. I'll give you a few decades and then we'll see if outward beauty is still all that important to you... I think not. Most people just want a healthy child. No matter what the child looks like; he or she is beautiful to the parents. Also, two handsome people don't necessarily mean a handsome baby and vice versa.
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@gambamarcela (1012)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
A decade is cool. Ok let's make a deal.LOL. If I marry a very handsome guy, I would suppose the baby will more likely look like him. I am not that pretty so,NOT the both of us are physically good-looking.I think it would result to a beautiful baby.hehe. Am I creating confusions here? I think I'm confused.LOL.
Happy mylotting!
@rukku786786 (57)
• India
5 Apr 10
yes definately i want my kids to be very beautiful and charming
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@gambamarcela (1012)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
Who would you marry then? Someone from your country or from another country?hehe. I wish you luck rukku.
Happy mylotting!
@rinzgca (316)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
Yes, I want to have beautiful kids in the future. Actually, I used to dream of marrying or having a child with a Westener because a mix of Westener and Filipino usually have beautiful kids.
I remember teasing my boyfriend recently. I would tease him that I want to have beautiful kids thus I wanna marry a foreigner. He would reply that he is chinito anyway and that he promises to give me beautiful offspring. Hahaha.
But if you really want to have beautiful kids, then I guess, you could plan it right? :D
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@gambamarcela (1012)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
Oh I envy you dear rinzgca. Your boyfriend has chinky eyes. How I wish I also have one.LOL. I don't like to mix my baby's blood with a Westerner although the result is really good. I don't know, but I'm just not attracted to them. I prefer to marry Asians because of their cute eyes.hehe.
By the way, your BF's promise of beautiful offsprings gives me giggles.hehe. Best wishes for your future wedding. hehe
@rinzgca (316)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
Yes, let's admit it, the mix of westener and Filipino is really good. We have preferences. :)) Anyway, that was just a thought. I guess, I would still prefer Asians, especially ones that are similar or near to the Filipino culture.
Yes, I am amused every time I remember my Bf's promise. I told him about your reaction and he was smiling after. I guess, he remembered what he said too. Thanks for the best wishes! Hehehe. I hope you'll get your chinky eyed guy soon! :D
@ernkjha (46)
• India
5 Apr 10
Hi gambamarcela,
definitely its a dream of every parents to have good children whom they can shape as per their expectations and desires for his/her future. They always wants to have a kid who can understand their parents, their situations, their feelings in life and always supports them. Its a fact that children always strengthens the bond between father and mother showering their tender love always.
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@gambamarcela (1012)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
I concur about parents' expectations to their children's future.Sadly, when it comes to attitude, my parents were disappointed about us.LOL. All my siblings and I have attitude problem. That's why my parents always have headaches every single day. We are six, curently living in my parents' house. We always bring problems to our parents; especially me and my sister.LOL.
I hope when I have kids they won't follow my footsteps.LOL
Happy mylotting!
@gambamarcela (1012)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
Let's toast to that! I wish us luck in our married life.hehe
Happy mylotting!
@reulin (101)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
of course everybody would want to have beautiful kids. though many would always say that they don't care whatever the physical features of their partners, still deep in their hearts when they try to look at men, there will always be different remarks, may it be good or bad, but still they would say something against that person and would rather choose another man if it didn't satisfy the physical standard that they are looking for, right. Sometimes I do that...but now, since I am married and has 4 beautiful kids (2 boys & 2 girls), I'd say maybe it is better to have a partner that is not so good physically but must have a positive attitude, outlook in life and good attitude!!!!
@gambamarcela (1012)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
Yeah. I agree with you. Deep in their hearts, they've always wanted to have good-looking husbands.ehehe. Congratulations for having such beautiful kids.
Happy mylotting!
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
5 Apr 10
hi gambamarcela well they say beautiful is as beautiful does, so I got married to a man that was not ugly but he was not hollywood style handsome. I think you will find that no matter who you marry when you hold that first born in your arms you will think he or she is the most beautiful child in the world. what is inside a man or woman should be most important, marrying a handsome womanizer who is unfaithful may give you gorgeous children but also make you horribly unhappy. why settle for just handsome or gorgeous why not find the person whose personality and kindness and faithfullness will make you happy even if he does not look like the cover on GQ
@gambamarcela (1012)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
LOL. I wasn't refering to celebrity look-alike guys. But if I find one then go. But, another problem arises as well. I can't marry a womanizer.Hell no! haha. I'd rather stay single.LOL.But I really pray I can meet a responsible and mature good-looking man.whooh.
Happy mylotting!
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
6 Apr 10
That never really came into consideration for me. I mean good looks in your partner does not guarantee beauty in your children. However the way I see it is how are you suppose to be with someone you find physically repulsive if you want to have children?. I don't think you're narrow minded. People who accuse someone of being narrow minded or shallow because looks matter to them, just aren't thinking realistically.
@gambamarcela (1012)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
LOL.Does that mean you are on my side?hehe. Thank you for taking my side then.
Happy mylotting!
@cecilarceo (22)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
Good day! Of course, I do want to have beautiful kids, who wouldn't want to? that is my initial reaction to your question...and yes indeed, I am attracted to my husband the first time I met him because of his appearance and of course, thinking that if we are going to have kids, he will be handsome. We do have a son. He really is handsome.
And if ever, due to unavoidable circumstances, I will be having children that are not good looking, I do not really care that much as long as they are my children and we all knew that if they came from you, they are the greatest gift to you from God.
Being not beautiful nowadays is not an issue anymore, because of science but, it is up to them if they want to change some of their physical appearance.
I really love my son for what he is. And the most important thing is that we are bringing him up to be God-fearing.
@gambamarcela (1012)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
WOW! You are such a lucky woman. Having a handsome husband is what I always pray.hehe.
Oh,I concur.A child is the greatest gift to a couple from God.
Happy mylotting!