love clash
By saksham15
@saksham15 (23)
India
9 responses
We can't control the feelings of anybody so when it happens that my best friend is in love to the same guy I'm loving, unless he's already my boyfriend, then it won't matter to me.
@saksham15 (23)
• India
6 Apr 10
but u cant let ur frnd to be unhappy??....she is your friend not competitor!!
@saksham15 (23)
• India
5 Apr 10
we cant fight in friendship........we are friends not the competitors!! and also it is better naa that atleast one of us get his love!!
@worldbestwriter2008 (1633)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
well, my friend and i our now competitors. (laugh) We will just wait. Time will just give a signal of whom of us is the lucky woman to be chosen if he happen to choose my friend, well i congratulate her. if he happen to choose me well i am so more proud and happy and feel sorry with my friend. This is life, Life is a battle of successive person. We have to learned to accept failure and success in life.
@intelpink (163)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
I will observe if the person that we both love is also in love with her or with me. If he is in love with her then I will let go. I believe that friendship is being true to yourself and at the same time true to your friend. But if that person loves me and not my best friend then I will talk to my best friend in the best and true heart that I can. I believe that friendship is being true as I have said. I will never let go of the person and stay away from him when the two of us knows that we love each other but we are hiding it to my best friend that's hypocrisy to a friend I believe, because someday the truth will be unveiled and it is shameful if I will betray my friend.
@saksham15 (23)
• India
6 Apr 10
well i think this is the best way possible!!
thanks for a good answer
@minotaur87 (769)
• Singapore
7 Apr 10
Well, there isn't actually much conflicts if you really understood the meaning of true love. True love is about letting the person you love have happiness. If your best friend is able to provide the person with happiness, then it doesn't matter at all to you. The only exception is when that person said that he/she loves you, not your best friend, then you would have to tell your best friend about it.
@saksham15 (23)
• India
7 Apr 10
yaa....thats true......but if the person loves me then it would let my best frnsd unhappy naa....nd i love both of them....is it not like choosing one of them??
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
5 Apr 10
hello welcome to mylot
some times such things happen, you might have seen in our movies, well one has to sacrifice and steer out of the path, no other thing can help..
Thanks for this nice post, cheers
Happy easter
Prof
Happy easter
Prof
@saksham15 (23)
• India
5 Apr 10
thanks for your response but this sacrifice thing seems too difficult!!
@OConnell87 (1042)
•
5 Apr 10
i think you would both need to talk about it because friendship should never be ruined over a lover. Also you should know if it is love or lust
@saksham15 (23)
• India
5 Apr 10
its right that friendship should never be ruined over lust but what if it is not lust and just true love and also u cant destroy your friendship...we can talk but that may result in both of us sacrificing our love after knowing that we both love that person (as we are too good friends its sure that we cant let other unhappy)....
@churchill1980 (764)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
if it did happen to me, i guess i just have to do what is right. if i don't have any relationship with that man, then i'll just keep my feelings to myself. but if a commitment existed between us, i guess i have to talk to my bestfriend and tell her that she should wait until me and my boyfriend broke up!LOL!
@saksham15 (23)
• India
5 Apr 10
what if your friend cant live without him and u also cant afford to lose ur friend??
@saksham15 (23)
• India
5 Apr 10
can u please describe this case to case basis.....please i really need help in this context.
