How fast do you reconcile with a friend after a heated argument?
By greyz7
@greyz7 (859)
Philippines
April 5, 2010 5:28am CST
It is but normal to have arguments with a friend. It's like spices to our relationship, makes our bond tighter and polishes our character..
when me and my friend have an argument, she wants it to be settled or patched up before the night is over or before going to sleep. But i want it to be over and done with when the heat of our anger subsides..but sometimes, it depends on the severity of the arguments that we easily reconcile..but for almost 4 years already, we are still together. guess opposite poles really attract...how about you?
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5 responses
@autumndreamer (3185)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
Me and my friends always have arguments, and we reconcile usually about just 4 hours or the longest time is just one day. We just forget about how mad we were, and that's it, we reconcile easily.
@autumndreamer (3185)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
Yeah. We're like kids, we usually don't take fights seriously.
@langjipingzong (981)
• China
5 Apr 10
Maybe your are right,but I don't think it works my way.I feel it's difficult for me to make friends with a person that totally different from me.I don't like to argument with my friends though I do like agrue with others sometime.We agrue with others cause we hope that ohters can understand what we think,as to my friends,we needn't this to know each other.But I think a heated argument have little effect to a true friends. In a sense ,it will makes us be closer.
Thank you and have a nice day.
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
5 Apr 10
Usually it does not last me long. I just call or send an sms or an email to reconcile with my friend. I am like hay. I am easily burnt but I will forget immediately too. I don't keep things inside my heart and tend to forget quite easily. Not worth it having grudges against others. Wish you luck. Forgive and forget is the best medicine in the whole world.
@anday0108 (628)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
My best friend and I fought a lot also. Sometimes from small things, sometimes from even childish things. However, we always end up saying my sorry to each other and how much our friendship mean to both of us. Sometimes its just after a day, sometimes we let our feelings and anger go away before saying sorry to each other. But no matter how big the fight was we always end up feeling sorry we hurt each other and it makes our friendship stronger.
@aditya369 (86)
• India
6 Apr 10
friendship and love both have many things in common, and argument is one of them. generally after an argument different people take different amount of time to reconcile. but between best friends it should take much less, when in an argument it is best if you end it as soon as possible. when i have an argument with my friend either of us ends it by declaring that in this matter i am on one side and you are on the other so just leave it in the middle, and there its done we end it then and there it self. we feel it is best like that.
