Worst fear in my life...I just cant think of.
@krupesh (2608)
India
April 5, 2010 11:00pm CST
I really fear my death before my children grow up on their own.I want to see them stand on their own before I die.I want them to be better human beings before I die.I dont know if I die early what would happen to them as they are very much dependent on me including my wife.This is the worst fear of my life.
What about yours?What is your worst fear in life?
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@bagputza (504)
• Belgium
6 Apr 10
Good morning dear Krupesh , first of all i cann start by telling a little story , when i was about seven years old me , my two older sisters and pur dad , we usesd to play like we saw on the television the American Gladiator , now we used to do that in our bedroom and with BIIIG ace Pillows , we had the shake of our week , since we had this only twice per month and it was every Saturday Night , i remember this because we used to hold a mini-championship and at the end of every chalenge , the last to come on the last place wasto get Ticckled with the FEATHERZ that ware coming out of the pillowz , now this was all the friggin times me ME ME ME who got to be ticckled , at one point i didn't event wanted to play anymore , since when i was little if you ticckledme for more then twelfe-thirtheen seconds it was the finishing point for me and those too close to me , because i was wetting my pants NIAGRA FALLS style :)))) , so if there is something i might be really scarred off it to HAVE my sisters and my dad coming to my working place , each and everyone of them holding a pillow in theire hands and started looking for me , to set up a "PUNISHMENT" in front of my colleagues and Boss , so if this will ever come true it will be like "My Worst Nightmare" and my biggest fear colluding and creating a BIG BANG Brain Damage for life =)))
Happy mylloting dear friend and have a nice day.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Apr 10
oh my bagpuza what a sight that would be wow. look out there for krupesh he he
@krupesh (2608)
• India
6 Apr 10
hahaha never mind about your sisters & dad coming to your place ...just give the adress where you work someone from here will come with a pillow & tickle you.Wanna see the NIAGARA FALLS again.
@scififan43 (2434)
• United States
31 Aug 10
My worst fear would to be accused of commiting a cime against a child. in the usa it is about the lowest thing you could accoused anyone of. I have never been accoused of this and I would never harm a child. but sometimes there is fear and parnora about these persons behind every tree. it is easy if the cirtisatances were right and you might could be wrounly accoused.
@krupesh (2608)
• India
6 Apr 10
I did not get you.I did not understand whether you would have that fear when you come here or I would have that fear.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Apr 10
hi krupesh I am sure vandy is kidding you,her bark is a lot worse than her bite. so do not fear her he hehe.
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
6 Apr 10
hi krupesh,
i can relate to this too. it seems like from day one, or even before they were born, when they were born, and until now, many moons later, i'v never stopped worrying about my kids. i hope when it's my time to leave they would have been independent in more ways than one and proud to be my children.
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@krupesh (2608)
• India
6 Apr 10
yes they would have done everything to make us happy.At their old age we should be the ones to look after them.I have seen so many old aged people without being looked after by their children.Just look after your parents when they need what they need.Its our first priority to look after them well in their needs.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Apr 10
hi krupesh I wish for you a long life to see them okay and on their
own before God calls you. My worst fear is to die before my son can get a job and thus get us back into an apartment. life in a retirement
center is not really what I wanted for my final years at all so pray for him to get a job and accumulate some money first.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
7 Apr 10
Hi krupesh~ You can't live your life always worrying that you
are going to die or that something terrible is going to happen
to you! We are all not promised the next day and we should live
each day to the fullest! None of us know what is going to happen
to us or when! We just have to go about our lives, enjoy ourselves
and hope for the best!
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
The worst fear in my life is when the world will come to end. I don't want it to end too soon. I want it to happened thousand years in the future. I just can't let the things I see and the people I love perished before my very own eyes. That would be very sad and it's something that would destroy me.
I think I'm being paranoid sometimes. Like thinking if life would suddenly stop and everything just be deleted like a files in the computers. I really hope this beautiful world will never end.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
10 Apr 10
I share your fear because I know how much my daughter needs me...My biggest fear is illness, cancer being the worst one. I fear sickness because although we tend to take our health for granted most of the time it is not until we are faced with serious illness that we appreciate the value of life.
@msfrancisco9369 (10002)
• Boston, Massachusetts
7 Apr 10
Hi Krupesh,
I think that's my greatest fear too. Having two special sons is not easy. i always pray that they be mainstreamed and be productive when they grow up so that if ever i die, they will not be a burden for those who will take care of them. i know they will continue loving my kids but it's different if i am beside them. me and my husband love our kids so much that we can't bear the thought of leaving them with other people. but i know God will provide them all that they need including those people who will take care of them when me ot my husband is gone.
@titaniumpen (676)
• Hong Kong
7 Apr 10
Ooh, this question is a bit scary...
I think that would be to see your family dying, leaving you alone. Or the opposite, dying yourself and seeing the broken hearts of your family...
Others:
1. You can rescue only one of your family members in a disaster
2. Being the last human being in this damn world
3. Being despised by everybody, even your former friends
4. WAR (to see POWs tortured)
@abbeyr212 (30)
• United States
7 Apr 10
That is probably every parent's worst fear. That and that something might happen to their child. Those are mine.
All you can do is be careful, and hope for the best, but prepare for the worst. Make sure that you have adequate life insurance on you and your wife, so that if something should ever happen, at least your family won't be financially devastated. I've seen it too many times.
Take care of business, let them know everyday how much you love them, and pray for the best.