at 54 isnt it late to go back to school?
By tigeraunt
@tigeraunt (6326)
Philippines
April 8, 2010 11:01am CST
dear mylotters,
this friend has been a schoolmate in my elementary years. she finished high school and was married early, had children and became a widow.
now all her children have moved out of her house because they all got married already. she only have a maid helper with her as her companion in the house.
she is thinking of going back to school.. get a college degree.
she is confused on her choice of what to do. she thinks it is very late now to think about college because of her age. but if she start a business, she might not be able to manage a small business well because she only finished that much schooling.
what do you think? is it wise to go back to school at her age?
ann
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43 responses
@hollowheart (1572)
• India
8 Apr 10
Hi Ann. Hows ur health now? Hope its much better. Learning has no age. U know in India u may not be able to go to school at the age of 54. But in USA and all the foreign countries its very much possible. So for ur friend i dont see any problem to continue her education. Wish her all the best for the venture and yes all the best to u too for all thsat u r doing and wish to do. :)
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
dear hollowheart,
i have not heard from you for a long time. am glad i see you here again. am fine, thank you.
everybody has been very positive of their response that age will not matter if one want to learn. do universities in india have age limits?
have a very nice day.
ann
@hollowheart (1572)
• India
15 Apr 10
In India education has age brackets. Ya maybe a year more or less is fine, but not much.
If u r trying to learn subjects through a private tutor only, then age has no limit, but that too may not be socailly accepted, as people would consider that as a show off.
Very unfortunate. But people here hardly realise the value of education.
They feel education is age concentric. Even if a student completes a certain degree at a higher age he is looked down upon and not given value.
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
do universities in india accept students depending on an age bracket?
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
8 Apr 10
One of my cousins is about 50 years old and he has decided that he want to go back to school. He wants to become a teacher, but before he can start, and has to graduate high school. He goes to a special high school where the students are aduls and he is determined to finish highschool, so that he can become a teacher. He hasn't been easy for him to study after so many years, but he wants to follow his dream.
I think that is great, and in my opinion he isn't too old to study. Your friend is about the same age, and I don't think it is old late for her either. It might be hard to study again after som many years, but on the other hand people who are older than the average student also have some advantages, because they have more experience than a young student.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
9 Apr 10
He didn't get that far yet. He will finish high school this year and next year he will start his education as a teacher. In my country it takes 4 years to become a teacher, so he will be in his mid-50's when he finish the education
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
well, good luck to him.
it will surely be an inspiring life for him once he starts teaching.
have a nice day.
ann
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
8 Apr 10
dear porcospino,
that is very nice. it is true age does not matter if you want education.
tell me, was she able to get a paying job as a teacher? that would inspire a lot of readers.
hope to hear from you again.
ann
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@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
She is very eligible to go back to schooling,but with the help with one of her children or grandchildren to tend to safeguard her house,because even if the helper
has the good reputation from her employer,she has all the time by herself in the house.There is a saying,"when the cat is away the mouse will play".I can be wrong,but my concsience told me to have one of her relatives be at home with her,so she can have no more to think about anything,but only her studies,that is if she wants to go back to school.I think I have the right idea,is'nt it?
@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
10 Apr 10
Thank you very much tigeraunt!!anyway lots of opinions makes up a good one to chose which on would be fitted to adopt.She can chose anyone of us she thinks has the most
favorable views.
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
dear berting,
she has a maid helper with her in her house, who she also sends to what we call "sunday school" because she is working.
i guess, my friend's decision to go back to school would be an inspiration to this maid helper to have an ambition and to further pursue her education and succeed in life.
she always have relatives visiting her in her house and they surely will help her watch the house while she is away in school.
thank you for this response.
ann
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@MrNiceGuy (4141)
• United States
9 Apr 10
54 is way too old to go back to school. It would be very awkward to be in school at that age and it seems like you probably wont be in the marketable workforce for long enough to make paying for that schooling worth it. It seems kind of like a waste to me.
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
dear mrniceguy,
that maybe, in some ways true. but i would still say that she go for it because education can never be bought. it could be achieved through experience but still formal education would mean a great deal in these modern times. and there are courses that she can take without need of going to a university if you are concerned about her feeling awkward in one.
i thank you so much for your response and for stating what you truly feel.
have a nice day.
ann
@Tiaridakdyl (114)
• United States
12 Apr 10
MrNiceGuy, I've been feeling the same way about going back to college; people talk about the very old people who finish just for the challenge of it. If you can afford it, do what you want with your time. BUT I've also been hearing stories of older/old people who still have years to work and need to increase their income - like me. At 48, I still have a teenager at home, I've been a stay-at-home grandma for this past year and really have nothing to recommend me to a hiring manager. If I come in with a degree (having 'some college' is the only thing that's saved me so far), I have at least a bit more bargaining power. Earning only $7-$10 per hour isn't enough income to be accepted to even rent an apartment! Add to that needing to feed a teenage boy?
@msfrancisco9369 (10002)
• Boston, Massachusetts
9 Apr 10
Hi Tigeraunt,
education and learning is a lifetime process. so regardless of age, we can always go back to school. there were reports made of a senior citizen graduating from elementary. so go for it. as long as you can and you love being in school or learning go my friend!
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
dear msfrancisco,
am very happy with the positive responses. i will make my friend see all of these and i am sure she will be very much inspired.
happy posting my friend,
ann
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@msfrancisco9369 (10002)
• Boston, Massachusetts
9 Apr 10
that's the attitude friend. keep encouraging your friend to feel good about themselves. if this will make her become a better person even in her age...go ahead and be her support!
@joepat (129)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
Hello tigeraunt. Allow me to put a few cents worth of opinion to this discussion. Age is not a deterrent to education. Life is a never-ending process of learning. Even at a late age of 54 your friend may still have plans in life to keep her occupied like going into business. And to prepare herself she may need the knowhow by going to college and finishing a degree. Remember the secret of success is determination, interest, perseverance and, most important, knowledge.
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
dear joepat,
feel that your few cents worth of opinion is worth millions because it is very inspiring.
am very happy that so many friends from here have given their positive ideas which would make my friend decide in a positive manner.
thank you and have a very nice day. oh! i also would like to welcome you in our mylot family.
ann
@estherlou (5015)
• United States
14 Apr 10
It's never too late to learn! I just heard last week of a man who was 99 who just graduated from college. Tell her to go for her dream. It is the journey that is exciting.
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
dear esther,
this is very inspiring. thank you so much for your response.
more power to you.
ann
@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
22 Apr 10
no. when i was in college, between 1982 and 1987, i met people of all ages in college, from 14 years old to 80 year old. do what u want regardless of age. if i want to do it badly enough, u will achieve it.
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
1 May 10
dear fifi,
thanks for those inspiring words. enrollment going on now. and you know what? she is already enrolled.
thank you all for your very nice advise.
ann
@worldbestwriter2008 (1633)
• Philippines
17 Apr 10
education is continouos education., age doesn't matter here, even you reach an old age you could still go to school or hire a private tutor for you to learn and cope up with the life of an educated person..I'm happy to see someone studying and willing to learn more.
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
dear worldbestwriter,
i agree that in life it is a never ending education. and for someone even aged but who is willing to learn, i give her my thumbs up.
thank you so much for your response.
ann
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
9 Apr 10
Thing is times are changing. You got new technology, new way of doing things and you must learn or relearn. My dad is over 50 years of age and still goes to classes and takes tests because he needs to know all the new things or someone who does know it could come and take his job. Its very important to keep learning so we aren't behind on anything.
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
dear cupkitties and tiaridakdyl,
very good point indeed and am happy i can suggest what you have just commented here.
thank you for your suggestions
thank you so much for your response. have a very nice day.
annhappy
@Tiaridakdyl (114)
• United States
9 Apr 10
Very good, important point! It may not be necessary to actually attend college -- learning can happen anywhere -- but it feels more serious and official. Besides, it may be fun! My oldest son is 27, my youngest is 15; the oldest is having to go back to catch up with things my youngest is learning as part of a normal school day. Imagine what it's like for us older ones if we haven't been doing so regularly!
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@geniustiger (1694)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
Hello there ann !
I think age doesn't matter if you continue education.
As long as you have the will and guts to continue
there's nothing wrong with it. For me its a very good
idea still even if he has that age he values much his
education in his life. This is the vital things in our life
to have schooling for us to become more equipped and fully
loaded with knowledge and power of intelligence to face the
reality of high technologies generations.
More over I appreciated his seriousity and and genuineness
of having eduaction as important part of his life as he
feels to contnue for he did not able to cope up w/ for the
sake first of his kids.He would be nice to be given a plaque
of appreciation as even in his age he has the love to educate
himself. He is the best model of all men who don't love go
schooling evn if they are still young at age. The best mirror
to be seen to each everyone that learning is a continuing
process and has no limits of ages as long as eager to learn
more its alright. Intelligence and humbleness can lead us to
a harmonious life as we faces the truth in daily living on earth.
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
dear geniustiger,
am very glad to read your response. tigers really feel the same.
i agree that education is a never ending struggle hence i am positive that going back to educate herself will do wonders for her.
have a very nice day.
ann
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
9 Nov 10
My mother is now 53 years old and she was married young, I was born when she was 23 years old and she was a stay at home mother with myself and my siblings until I was a teenager, she only re-entered the workforce because my father passed away. That said, she is now considering going to college for the first time and I think that it is a wise decision. She may not have a really long career ahead of her, but I think that it would be good for her to have the opportunity in her life again to work.
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
9 Nov 10
dear dora,
very inspiring isnt it? tell her it is a wonderful idea
have a nice day.
ann
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
8 Apr 10
Hi dear ann
In matter of study no age is late age, more over 54 is not old age, just matured, tell her to join and earn as many degrees as possible, i am sure she will..
Thanks for this nice post, cheers
God bless you.
Prof
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
8 Apr 10
dear professor,
thank you very much for this swift response. i will tell her.
much obliged.
happy posting.
ann
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
1 May 10
thanks new user for your response. i guess almost everybody here said yes.
thank you so much.
ann
@Draeke (322)
• United States
19 Apr 10
I don't think it is ever too late to go back to school. If one is passionate about learning and really want to go back, one should go back. Otherwise you spend the rest of life wondering why you didnt go back and feel bad about not chasing some dreams.
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
1 May 10
dear draeke,
that is very inspiring. chase dreams while you can.
thank you for the very nice advise.
ann
@JJ4Ever (4693)
• United States
9 Apr 10
I don't think age matters when a person is considering going back to school. Getting an education is like an investment in yourself. We should always be doing things we things make us better people. As long as your former schoolmate can afford the money and time to go back to school, I think she should. It's tough that she's a widow now and feels she has to go back to school to further her career, but now is the best time to start enjoying the rest of your life! I admire her for setting such a wonderful goal.
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
dear jj4ever,
people who have the urge to go further like complete their studies are so admirable. thank you for your very inspiring words.
have a very good day and more power to you.
ann
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@jdyrj777 (6530)
• United States
10 Apr 10
Never too late!!! If people can live to be 100yrs then 50yrs is only the middle. If she want to go to school do it. Ive thought about it myself. Problem is i must work and go to school. If i didnt have to pay for the school i sure would try it.
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
dear jdyrj,
she is enjoying all the responses when i showed to her the discussion. she is very happy and inspired.
thank you so much for your response.
ann
@doulaworks (1079)
• United States
9 Apr 10
I feel it is never too late to learn, or go to college. My mom went to school at the age of 58 and got a degree in nursing. She worked until she was 74 and retired. She got married at 74 and is loving not working again. she was a fulltime stay at home mom when we were all at home. my parents got devorced after we were all grown. My mom worked cleaning other peoples houses until she went to school. So, I vote YES!! your friend should go to school and live her dream!
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
dear doulaworks,
what a wonderful inspiring experience. thank you so much for your response.
happy posting and may you have a very nice day.
ann
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
dear alottodo,
my friend is very inspired after having read all the responses from mylot. she will surely enroll she said.
have a nice day.
ann
@my_name_is_coco (4333)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
education isn't confined with age.age doesn't matter when you are determined to learn.the ability to learn doesn't degrade while we age.I salute your friend for her courage to go back to school.if she is worried about her business,she can very much handle both as long as she knows how to manage her time.
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
hello coco,
thank you so much for the positive thoughts. more power to you.
best regards and cheers,
ann
@Quattra (26)
• Malta
9 Apr 10
I believe it is never late to decide to go back to school, especially if the person now has free time for herself and still feels fit enough to handle the studies... there is no age limiting that!! of course, if going back to school would mean leading to a better future, getting certificates to alter your position in society or start your own thing... then I'd say the sky is the limits.
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
dear quattra,
i totally agree with you. now is the best time to do it.
have a very wonderful day and welcome to mylot.
ann