Does the social class one in born into determine how successful you are in life?
By taraelocin
@taraelocin (1138)
April 11, 2010 6:45am CST
Do you think the above statement is true or not?
Does the social class one is born into determine if one is successful in life or not?
I think it is easier to be successful if you are born into a rich family - you have money for a better education, you are probably taught how to be successful by example. But I also think that the character has a lot to do with ones success. Determination, strong will to succeed - I think that's more important than ones social class.
Do you agree or disagree?
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16 responses
@taraelocin (1138)
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18 Apr 10
If you have the will and committment and luck to do so, yes. Sometimes people just give up because it is so much harder for them.
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
19 Apr 10
One man was born in a council house. He lived a poor life as a working class person until he was 29 years old. He was fed up with not having enough money to live on. He began his own business which over the years grew considerably. He now owns about 25 different tourist attractions. He is worth in excess of four million pounds. He lives in an enormous house. He was a working class person but now he is a middle class person. He has two children and they attend a private expensive fee paying school.
I believe that if a person has determination to succeed it might be possible to rise from a poor background. It will be a challenging journey and some set backs must be got through I think. I know some very clever but quite poor people go to government owned schools and they achieve excellent qualifications at university. It would be possible for a poor person to get good exam results and do very well in the business world. Recently I heard about a poor lady that became a barrister. But she is unable to get her last year of practical work experience. I wish her good luck.
@taraelocin (1138)
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20 Apr 10
So do I. Determination can get you very far, but sometimes you need a little help and luck to go the last bit. Someone who fought so hard for success deserves both help and luck.
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
It really depend on the upbringing the person have and even those who are born in a high social status tend to lose their wealth if they are not properly acquainted with proper tools to keep and secure their inheritance and if they keep wasting without taking care then it would just gone to waste. Especially if the one left in charge is very lazy and have no brain to take care of the family wealth or business such as do not know to handle it would just easy to spend without saving then from richness to being poor is a very easy pitfall. Though, their are families who are very keen in protecting their hard earned money, or properties and would do anything to maximize its businesses inclined to new techniques and need to be fully equipped in order to maintain the higher status in the society. Thus, as you already mention the character or the determination to be successful no matter the status one co from highly determines the success and failures depending on each person struggle to be respected and admired through one effort and patience.
@taraelocin (1138)
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18 Apr 10
True - without ability, talent or knowledge you won't be successfulk, no matter were you come from.
@junrapmian (2169)
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
In someway, you're right. Those who are from rich family has greater opportunity because they graduated from best schools. However, they are people who because of the hardships they have experienced in life, they study harder and they are smarter and wiser in most of the situation. They tend to analyze things more because they want to prove themselves.
@taraelocin (1138)
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18 Apr 10
I agree. Wanting to be successful can be the biggest driver to success. But opportnities can make it so much easier.
@petersum (4522)
• United States
12 Apr 10
Much depends on your particular country too! Britain is still very snobbish and going to Grammar school is just one sign of class. I met a twit from Leeds Grammar School (supposedly one of the most elite schools in Britain) who was a complete failure in everything he tried. Yet, he derided me because I went to an unheard of grammar school. I told him that if I had lived in Leeds, I would have gone to Leeds Grammar School as well. I also said it in French, German and Latin to prove my educational status. I am working class and proud of it. OK, I played Rugby instead of football but I'm just a common guy.
@taraelocin (1138)
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18 Apr 10
I think you find snobbish people everywere in the world though. I wouldn't let them upset me. After all, the fact that you are more successful (and probably happier) speaks its own language.
@Eric1988 (10)
• New Zealand
12 Apr 10
YOU can say that again.undoubly,if you are born in a rich family you have greater opportunities to acheive something.but it doesnt necessarily mean that you are going to be successful in the future.I think the point is the way you think and you do.No pain no pain gain.
@taraelocin (1138)
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18 Apr 10
Exactly. I come from a middle class family who worked themselves up from being very poor in my grandparents generation. My parents gave me everything they could afford to have a good education. But I always knew how hard they worked from it and used it to further improve my success and ability. It's so important not to take things like this for granted and to actually use it.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
11 Apr 10
Hi taraelocin, I agree with you, if one is determined to succeed in life, she/he will most likely do so. Those born into rich families have a much better chance for an education but there are times when having a lot of money is more of a disadvantage than an advantage. Blessings.
@taraelocin (1138)
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18 Apr 10
It's strange to think that having money can hinder one to be the person he could be. But it can be true.
@saffrondreams (596)
• Canada
11 Apr 10
I don't think one's social class at birth determines how successful they will be per se, but it definitely influences it. Simply put, a rich person would have more opportunities, education, nutrition, a better environment etc. than a poor person would and all the little things add up to a significant advantage. And it sure is easier to go to school to get advanced qualifications if you don't have to worry about your next paycheck or how you'll feed your kids.
@taraelocin (1138)
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18 Apr 10
That's very true. Having more money and connections gives you more opportunities in life and can make success come easier.
@benny128 (3615)
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11 Apr 10
the class you are born into is in my opinion opposite, if you are born into a wealthy household then do you have to work ?
have you got the desire to succeed on your own ??
where as if you are born into a poor household you have the drive to make a better life for you.
Here in uk everyone gets educated, and higher education never never guarantee's a good job.
I was born in a poor household, only have my normay education never bothered with degree's etc etc yet I am retired in 5 years and have ran my own business for over 10 years.
So I don't think the class you are born into is a factor unless it spur's you on to make a better life for yourself.
@taraelocin (1138)
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18 Apr 10
I agree, but I also disagree. It could be that you are born in a well-off family and feel you need to be successful to keep your parents fortune going or to prove yourself as worthy to them.
But you are right, it is what you make of your life, more than the social class. I'm positively surprised that so many people answering to my question see it that way.
@angelajoy (1825)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
Being born into a rich family does help a lot in becoming successful financially, but it is not a guarantee that one would indeed become successful. Likewise, being born into a poor family is not a guarantee that one would remain poor. Luck, intelligence, and hard work will play a great role in attaining success. My father was born into a poor family, but that did not stop him from finishing his studies and getting a good job. When he was still studying he did lots of odd jobs just to keep himself in school. I'm glad that his hard work paid off.
@taraelocin (1138)
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18 Apr 10
My family is the same. My father came from a poor family and they escaped abroad in war. He always tells us how they didn't have shoes as children and had to beg potatoes from farmers if they wanted dinner. My grandparents had 6 boys and 1 girl - 3 of them had they own small companies when being adults and 2 managed to finance their way through evening school to get a good education. All of them worked hard and owned their own house. It wasn't were they came from, but pure determination and will.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
11 Apr 10
The social class we are born into determinesmhow we begin in life. Where we go from there is up to us. The paths we follow and the choices we make take us to failure or success. We can make any measure of success. We have to believe in ourselves and show determination to follow through.
@taraelocin (1138)
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18 Apr 10
I like that thought. And it is very true. We might start at one place but we decide were we go.
@mac_fish (723)
• China
11 Apr 10
Hi,taraelocin
Actually and frankly speaking,I'm the one that are really sick of that sort of people who like flourishing their ritzy cars like BMW , landrover..... and exclusive clothes made by famouse company all, totally all acount on parents.
I look down upon them,I feel even proud when I run across them though they are in exclusive social class and sit in BMW.All the materials around me are really belong to me and earn by myself,I think I'm much more sucessful than them though I am a poor guy....,I'm not a great person like Vincent van Gogh and my view on this piont should not be radical ,I take it as common sense of most people.
The standard of judge whether a man is successful or not is the furthest thing from which social class u are in.
@taraelocin (1138)
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18 Apr 10
Interesting view. I wouldn't look down on anyone - poor or rich though. It is not a persons fault to be born into wealth neither. And why should they reject the money they have been given. But I do dislike when these people think they are better - anyone who tries to be a good person and make the best of his or her live deserves our respect.
@taraelocin (1138)
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18 Apr 10
Absolutely right. You might be given a set to help you through live, but it's up to you make of it.
@KingRezz101 (52)
• United States
11 Apr 10
The social class system affects succes in life but it determines the person's personality. For an example, a rich kid with lots of money uses that money to help further his career in education to help continue his succes. Example 2, A rich kid has all this money and believes he doesn't have to work for anything and he doesn't rely on himself to be succesful. For a lower social class system it could be like this, I want to be succesful in my future so I'll work as hard as I can. Example 2, My life is bad anyway why should I work for my success I'm already not succesful. -Rezz
@taraelocin (1138)
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18 Apr 10
You got the exact point. The social standing - high or low - can be success or hinderance to ones life. It all depends on what you make of it.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
you're right. many who was born rich just wanna have fun. they don't have the determination that someone from a lower class who's trying to be successful has. but it really depends. there are some rich people who has will to become richer than he or she was. these people seem like they're never gonna be satisfied with what they have because they yearn for more.
@taraelocin (1138)
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18 Apr 10
I agree - a lot of it depends on the persons character and how they are brought up. That of course can stem from the the social class, but doesn't always do.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
you're right. many who was born rich just wanna have fun. they don't have the determination that someone from a lower class who's trying to be successful has. but it really depends. there are some rich people who has will to become richer than he or she was. these people seem like they're never gonna be satisfied with what they have because they yearn for more.