Who tries to make up first over an argument?
By Shar19
@Shar19 (8231)
United States
11 responses
@egonzales921 (172)
• Philippines
13 Apr 10
It depends on the situation. If I am stressing a point or something to him I won't make any move especially if I think I'm right but of course on some occasions I do say sorry.
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@xxazndragon01 (1250)
• United States
13 Apr 10
well lets see here who usually the one apologizing i would say my girlfriend but then again we both say sorry at the end. She is someone who you would give all your thoughts and feelings for thats how special she is to me and i can only stay mad at her for so long till i start to break down from the stress
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@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
14 Apr 10
when my husband and I disagree, we don't argue, and we don't get mad at eachother. We see where we disagree, and we talk about it until someone makes the more logical point. Sometimes he makes the more logical point, other times I do. It just depends on the point.
@scarlet_woman (23463)
• United States
14 Apr 10
nope,i'm terrible.if i know they're wrong 100%,i'll be damned if i apologize.
in some cases it just encourages them if you apologize and you weren't at fault.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
13 Apr 10
hi shar19 I am a widow now but when my hubby was alive we never had a whole lot of arguments but the few I think we sort of made up together as I would say oh lord I am sorry, and he would say,yeah me too, what the heck were we arguing about any way? So we did get it s ettled and both of us got mad quick and over it quick, we did not harbor long grudges like a lot of married people do. I always tried to make up because we did argue so seldom and when we did it really upset me so much as I really loved my husband and i hated and still hate confrontations of any kind. I am a peace keeper not a warrior.![](/Content/images/emotes/angry.gif)
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@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
20 May 10
When me and my girlfriend will have a fight or arguments it's me who always stay silent first either i am wrong or not. I just can't stand arguments with anybody because having an arguments is very tiring. I don't like keeping bad emotions inside my heart because it's not good for me because I have heart enlargement and my blood pressure always on the rise.
When I make the first step for reconciliation I expect my love ones to understand that and I don't like to wait if I am forgiven or not. If my love ones don't want to forget things that easily I don't persist and you can expect me remain to be in silent.
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