How to solve a problem in a relationship?

There are a lot of ways to solve the problem its up to the couple on how they are going to apply it. Some couple would say that we should not sleep until the problem was resolved. We should not let the day passed by without settling it down. In my view we, why I am or we are going to settle the problem right after. I am a person who dont want to discuss about anything when I am so hot or angry. As much as possible I would like to settle problem if we are in the right mood and right situation. I know its weird. But thats how we do it with my boyfriend. If I am mad he just leave me and it will take days before we could talk it over.

It is very important to have an open communication with your partner for this will surely solve any problem or miscommunication between both parties. That is true that both should be calm with talking or if one is on the heat of anger the other should be calm since if both are angry most likely the problem can't be resolve. There is no point of argument what is important is you both compromise and meet half way. Hope this helps.

hi analynz, I totally agree with you. That is what we do every time me and my bf have this misunderstanding. My bf doesn't get angry with me. He tries to be calm always. I am the one who easily got angry. And every time we are in this situation, he always let me speak and speak. He just listen. And when he notice that I am calm already, then that is the time he will explain. But sometimes, we cannot solve a problem for just one day. Sometimes, we really need not to talk with each other to give chance to think about our situation. And when we chat again, we both say sorry with each other. I think, humility plays an important role in a relationship. Because if humility won't be there, problems cannot be solve easily.

It depends upon attitude i think.I foyu guys keep both of you to one side and make problem you enemy then it work .If oyu start lecturing other person showing his mistake actually many times these efforts just backfire and ruin relationship. Many couple dont have that maturity and thus relationships break.

i admit i am a high temper person. even small things, become bigger until this can be start our argument. in my own case i react as a childish, maybe because of our age-gap. sometimes because of my pride, i did not admit to myself that whenever there is an argument happen i'm the one who started it. and i never ask him a word sorry, despite his the one who say it to me in order to stop our discussion.

hi there, what more can i say? Communication is a best way to solve a problem. Listen, speak and give feedback.