Purpose of going into a non-serious relationship
By mae_dyrish
@mae_dyrish (237)
Philippines
April 14, 2010 9:21pm CST
So what is the point in having a non-serious relationship? Do you feel it is worth it for all your time, money and effort and for your love to the person? Is this the right time for you to deal this kind of kinship without any assurance at all? I guess some of us have been through this on this and I want you guys to share your thought regarding this matter. Happy mylotting!
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14 responses
@hexeduser22 (7419)
• Philippines
12 May 10
I don't know it's purpose and to be honest I think it doesn't serve any at all except for flirting satisfying one's needs temporarily. That is by far my opinion
@mae_dyrish (237)
• Philippines
20 May 10
I just respect your opinion, there are some people like you thinking that also. Well, thanks for the response.
@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
16 Apr 10
i think some people think its better to be with some one than no one which i dont agree with because you could miss out on mr right while your with mr right now.. some people may just not know what they want in life and enjoy the relationship so until they figure out what they want they stay in the relationship because they have no reason to leave... me personally just celebrated my 11th anniversary =)
@mae_dyrish (237)
• Philippines
22 Apr 10
hi moonligmagikchild, congratulations! i guess you have a happy marriage since then, i do hope happiness will always in both of you. Happy anniversary!
@louierrific24 (1114)
• Philippines
16 Apr 10
Experience, fun, appreciation, the feeling of being admired and a lot more things. However, a not-so-serious kind of relationship can turn into a serious one in due time. All relationship starts as not-so-serious.
@mae_dyrish (237)
• Philippines
16 Apr 10
For me i guess not all, some people may but some are not it really depends to the person what's he or she thinking to start a relationship.
@mavieserrano728 (670)
• Philippines
15 Apr 10
I really don't know and I am not sure if what will be the point of going to the next level like having a relationship if you will not be serious at all. I mean what is the sense of doing that? Everything will just be a waste so better not go further if you have no sense of direction of where the relationship is headed to. I don't know but maybe guys will agree to this more than women. So that they can still fool around and they can give you an excuse "why we're not serious right"? Well, I don't agree and will not waste my time for such relationship.
@mae_dyrish (237)
• Philippines
15 Apr 10
Yes you got it what i mean mavieserrano, their is no direction or sense if you still holding on to that kind of relationship. It is such a waste of time both of you better go for things that is worth if for your attention. Cheers!
@mybabe (33)
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15 Apr 10
i think the purpose of going to a non serious relationship is that your not ready yet for a commitment. you wanted to have a trial in a relationship. but having that thinking your the looser in the end coz you will be the one who will only suffer for this all relationships you have. dont be afraid to have a lasting relationship. it is alright to have break-ups as long as you learn form your experiences and its nice to move on in every unfailed relationships.
@mae_dyrish (237)
• Philippines
20 May 10
Nice comment miss mybabe...sometime we learned from our experienced. That will be good there is no harm in trying.
@roldango (230)
• Philippines
15 Apr 10
It frees you up from any commitments. Casual relationships should not be taken for granted, though. Every connection we make is always a significant factor on our becoming relevant with each other. But, If you can't commit yourself, then go for a non-serious relationship.
@mae_dyrish (237)
• Philippines
16 Apr 10
Yes its true, many people deal on that. Thanks for your reply.
@churchill1980 (764)
• Philippines
15 Apr 10
i think people buys that kind of relationship because they are not ready to settle down, or cannot take the responsibilities of the outcome when they enter into a more serious one. they may find that kind of relationship very easy to take care of, and they are into that just for fun.
@kaylachan (69408)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
15 Apr 10
Sometimes a not-so-serious relationship can actually be a good thing. It allows us to know we can feel the emotions, and should things not advance its not always as painful as if say you get into a serious relationship or simi-serious relationship. Hearts are broken t no matter the seriousness of the relationship, but the deeper you are the more emotionally involved one gets. the less, the easier it is to walk away.
@Felicitus (75)
• United Arab Emirates
15 Apr 10
Having a non-serious relationship sometimes leads to a serious realationship. But I think a non-relationship should not go on for too long, because either party might go for greener pastures. So you should have a non serious relationship with the idea of building it into a serious relationship.
@mybabe (33)
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15 Apr 10
i think the purpose of going to a non serious relationship is that your not ready yet for a commitment. you wanted to have a trial in a relationship. but having that thinking your the looser in the end coz you will be the one who will only suffer for this all relationships you have. dont be afraid to have a lasting relationship. it is alright to have break-ups as long as you learn form your experiences and its nice to move on in every unfailed relationships.
@mybabe (33)
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15 Apr 10
i think the purpose of going to a non serious relationship is that your not ready yet for a commitment. you wanted to have a trial in a relationship. but having that thinking your the looser in the end coz you will be the one who will only suffer for this all relationships you have. dont be afraid to have a lasting relationship. it is alright to have break-ups as long as you learn form your experiences and its nice to move on in every unfailed relationships.
@nirmalabhanu (10)
• India
15 Apr 10
i think this non serious relationship is a waste of time. in these kind of relationships we cannot find love it's just a infactuation. and just to pass a time.
@cthawa80 (42)
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15 Apr 10
I think its better for the person whom just break up. For sure they are not ready to get into commitment after what happened to them. Its for them to have fun and enjoy.