Cry in Public Place

@nangisha (3496)
Indonesia
April 20, 2010 10:12am CST
Have you ever cry in public place. Well I am very behave person and I am try not show my emotion in public place. As long I remember I cry in public place for two moment. First when I am in high school, we are playing game and one of boy hit my hand really hard, its very hurt and I can hold I am crying. I don't mean be a cry baby but its very hurt and my hand become blue for a weeks. Secondly when my best friend hurt my heart really bad, we are in the mall and I am go home in sobbing, few people look and me, I am so embarrassed but what I can say I can hold it anymore. Do you have experience like this?
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19 responses
@Leixa003 (867)
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
I do not like crying too in public places and even in front of other people. I remember I felt tears roll down my cheeks when I think of my dog who was spitting blood when I left the house. I immediately not think about my dog for I know I would not stop crying and thought of other stuffs like work. I do not like the feeling of people staring at you and be sniffing around and having red eyes. So whenever I see someone crying in the street I do not stare at them (but steal some glances)
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@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
20 Apr 10
I can understand your feeling, you must love your dog very much. Like I love mine. I usually do the same with you when I see people cry, try not to stare them.
@sani30 (35)
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
yeah, i think less than ten times. i was crying while i am on my way to office. it was a bad day for me because me and my partner had a misunderstanding. well, while inside the public bus, i am crying while talking to him on the my cellphone. it was so embarrassing. well, i cant help but cry.
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
21 Apr 10
Yeah it feel really good after crying, even after that embarrassing moment in public place. I think people will understand if we cry in public place because maybe they have done it too.
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
Hi Sani, Same thing happened to me,crying in public bus while talking to my bf after a bad day at work..can't help but cry but it feels good after letting it all out...
• Indonesia
21 Apr 10
As a man, I never crying in the public place like that. If i can't hold it anymore I always looking for something that I can give punch on it, or if I don't have it I will go to a place where no people can see me (i.e rest room?) and I'm started to cry without sound.
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
29 Apr 10
Yeah rest room will be good idea if we can hold it anymore. I think people will tend to understand if woman cry in public than men.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
21 Apr 10
For me yes but when many people staring at me I'm got a shy moment after that I try not to cry in the public I wait until I'm home.
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
29 Apr 10
I think every one want to hold until home but when it come we can not hold it. After first time cry in public I promise to myself I will not cry in public and it happen again.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
21 Apr 10
I cried in the bus when I was very upset about something that my friend told me. I was embarrassed when I cried there cause people were looking at me but I couldnt help myself. I was alone at that time and I could not cry to anybody. Holding back the tears makes me even wanna cry. Its something I dont want to do again.
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
29 Apr 10
I understand your feeling the more we want to hold it, the more we can.
• Philippines
21 Apr 10
yeah i was experienced this kind of situations i did cry in public place that was the time that me and my boyfriend got break up..cant wait to go home my heart is tearing me apart..
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
29 Apr 10
Acceptable reason. Broken heart really hurt.
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
21 Apr 10
Hi, nangisha. I know that I have done so when I was a little girl. And, I have done so one time when I was at work. This happened in February of 2006. I was very upset because I could not do the work at my job and my boss scolded me for being too late for work that morning. I have never known myself to cry in public like that, ever. I know that I had to have been very upset. I cried in a public face in front of my co workers. I was very ashamed after that. But I was glad that I could express myself to them even if they could not understand me sadness.
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
21 Apr 10
I can understand that feel, You must try really hard to hold it, but you can't. I think they will understand your sadness if you tell them, but with co worker its really hard to trust them 100%. Have a nice day.......
@junmae (1586)
• Philippines
21 Apr 10
I experienced crying in a public place, because my phone was stoen from me and I dont know what to do because i am afraid that my mom will spank me. She asked me not to bring my phone but I still did, i know it is my fault so i didnt asked for a new one. Instead, I saved money to buy my own phone so that if that was stolen again, my mom will not get angry with me again.
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
21 Apr 10
Cry because afraid its usual and people will understand. I hope wont lost your new phone again. take care and have a nice day
• China
21 Apr 10
of course i have ever cried in public place.at that moment i can't hold myself.i just want to express my feeling.but afer that i felt a little unfittable.i told myself a lot of times that i can't always do the things i want to do.and i should know the time is right or not.
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
21 Apr 10
Thats a good point, but its doesn't stop you to feel embarrassed when people stare at you.
@mitchann (303)
• Philippines
21 Apr 10
I had experienced crying in public.I was crying when I went back to the city because of problems with my boyfriend. When you are in deep emotion, you cant hold back.You dont think of embarassement or you gonna thiunk of what others will say or think, you just want to cry. I think its okay, I dont have to explain to everyone in public, right?
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
21 Apr 10
Yeah I don't think it when I am crying because I am to busy with my emotion. After I calm down I start to use my brain, here come the guilty feeling.
• China
21 Apr 10
I remmember that i have one time of this similar experience .When i was in the high school ,once a time ,one of my classmates made me so sad ,then i couldn't controll my feeling and cried out in front of the class.I feel so sorry when i recall this thing.
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
21 Apr 10
Thats a good point, but its doesn't stop you to feel embarrassed when people stare at you.
@acey76 (1276)
• Philippines
21 Apr 10
Yes, I have lots of experiences like that well 'm so sensetive and pitied myself thats why I cry at public but most of them are brought by heartbreaks. =(
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
21 Apr 10
Most people will say broken hearts is most unbearable experience, its really hurt. We will get over it but at that moment you can not hold yourself not to cry. have a nice day.
• China
21 Apr 10
Hi, Nangisha. I always feel the loneliness inside me and I do not care what other people think about me very much. Even though it seems to be strong emotional behavior to cry in public places, I am just happened to be this kind of person. I cann't help letting tears flow down my cheeks when my cousin took a transfer flight in my city to abroad. He is close to me. Both of us are the only child of each parents and we grew up together. He was sent to another country by his company and it was his first year to work after his graduation. I had stayed in this city for over 4 years by myself and I was very happy when I knew he was going to transfer through my city. Although the reunion time was short, the joy filled up full of my heart. After his back shadow disappered in my sight, tears went out of my eyes immediately. That remains fresh in my memory.
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
21 Apr 10
Thats sad you both must be very close, I don't have cousins that close to me. I am very close to my sister and I hope he will stay in the same town with me. We all have a loneliness in our heart, thats why respect friendship so much. Have a nice day.
• Philippines
21 Apr 10
yes i have cried in public place, but not that loud of course. I am a grown lady, i know people will wonder why i am crying. And hello, my goodness, you know my country, people will not just wonder but tease you instead.
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
21 Apr 10
No one cry loudly in public place, but you will still sobbing. Its rude to tease people who really in sad mood, if you can choose you will cry in private place.
@Bd200789 (2994)
• United States
20 Apr 10
Yes, I have a few times. I got really upset at work the other day. it is embarrassing.
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
22 Apr 10
You know after reading response from all you, you all make its sound oke to cry in public when I can hold it anymore. You make it sound so normal.
@pratheep87 (1227)
• India
20 Apr 10
Hello I too dont like to cry in a public place but once when i was about to leave my girl friend for long days because of my tour i cried in a coffee shop. Only this time i have cried in a public place. Cheers
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
21 Apr 10
Separation with the love one can be really sad, I hope now you both getting along very good. My mom often said separation for a moment is good to test a relationship so you now you love that girl truly, not because her daily companionship on your life. Thanks have a good day.
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
When i was a kid i had this remote controlled car. It was crushed by a tricycle and i couldn't stop crying. I really loved that toy.
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
Hi Nangisha, Well no matter how embarrassing it is...I did cry in public before...I am really strong emotionally but that time no matter how I wanted to control it...just can't hold it...I was so disappointed with my Boss at work,feeling so low, I was waiting for my bus to go home & get ready as I am going out with my bf to watch this movie I was waiting for so long (thought it would make me feel good after a bad day at work).When I was in the bus already,received a call from him telling me I need to watch it alone as he will watch it with his friends..I just ask him why & told him that his friends are my friends too,maybe I can watch it with them,since in the first place ,it is I who want to watch it & not him but he started to shout at me,using all the bad word he knows,I just feel so bad...that my tears just poured out of my eyes with all the other passengers looking at me...I know it was so embarrassing but on that time...doesn't care at all..just want to let it all out...feels good after...
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
21 Apr 10
After reading few response I feel good because I am not the only one who do it in public place. So it sound so humanly, I am glad I make this discussion. You BF so rude to you, he can say no without saying that bad word especially when he know you have a bad day. I hope we all have a wonderful life and meet someone who respect our bad and good habit. Have a nice day.
• Philippines
21 Apr 10
I remember my childhold when one of my classmate get my snack, at that time I get mad and cry in public were many students saw that.