what to do
By ipoemea
@ipoemea (52)
Philippines
5 responses
@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
23 Apr 10
This is not good, well that's for me. Are your friends married still ok before he met his ex-bf or in the rocks? She should make sure first if that guy really love her before she makes any decision. She also think of her children, what is the impact on their children. Just advice her to take her time and think of all the circumstances before deciding. This is a major decision so she should be careful.
@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
26 Apr 10
Maybe that's her first love or great love, but she must understand that the situation now is different as it was before. She should think it hundred times before jumping into decision. What did you told her?
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
23 Apr 10
What I say is that either there is something wrong with her marriage or there is something wrong with her. If it's the marriage that's bad, I hope she finds happiness with her new love. If the problem is her, the new relationship probably won't work out, and I hope that she learns why and learns from her mistakes.
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
23 Apr 10
i can relate to this situation.i also have a friend who have 4 kids and my friend is now working in dubai.and her spouse really liked me.my friend is aware that her spouse liked me.but as a friend,i don't like being third party in a relationship.the guy is really kind,and have a sexy body,muscleman.actually i don't like men who are so big i think i'll lose if you fight.i find him sexy but i really don't like him.and even if he insist on having a relationship with me,i really don't like too.first of all,he's not my type and i have a friend who loves him.i don't want to ruin a relationship.actually this happened to me everytime.i'm always linked to the bf/spouse of a friend.but i always avoid this.i don't want to be tempted also to do something wrong that my conscience can't handle.
think about the children who will suffer in the end because of broken family.how will this affect each of their relationships.
@shigeraldz (339)
• Philippines
23 Apr 10
remember that their children will be the one to suffer so much ... do not allow their children to suffer the consequences... their children is the proof of their love and their vows towards GOD...
@cthawa80 (42)
•
23 Apr 10
Hi. That's not good. I think maybe her marriage has a problem. And maybe the husband of her treats in opposite way. If that the case, she should take a move. But, if it not the case, she need to make sure her ex-bf love her so much. And the most important thing is about the kids. Do her ex-bf can accept the kids and treats the kids well? And how about the kids? Are they able to accept the circumstance between their mum and dad? Before any move is taken, your friend should think about the kids.
