Are you possessive about your partner?

@zahidz (311)
April 25, 2010 2:00am CST
Dear All,is it good to possessive about your partner and their life matters? the one benefits i have seen in possessiveness is you can care of partner almost everything but it has a negative point also that sometime you just unable to give him/her space and relations then get worst but if you dont feel possessive then may partner can think that we dont care and not interested in their life. so what do you think? how much the level of possessiveness should be between partners or it must be eliminated between relations to give enough space to both?
4 responses
rhan04
@rhan04 (307)
• Philippines
25 Apr 10
Well, too much possessiveness isn't healthy at all. So it really depends on the situation. In my case, sometimes I want my partner to be possessive as long as it's reasonable and in the right place.
saphrina
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
25 Apr 10
Sweetie, poessessive sound like a piece of furniture. I would rather love and care for my partner than be possessive. We can never really possess someone. TATA.
BART78
@BART78 (2927)
• Canada
25 Apr 10
..lately i got possessive with my wife..i don't know if possive is what you called but i think it's more of missing her so much..i can't get her off in my mind even for a second...
pandaeyes
@pandaeyes (2065)
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25 Apr 10
Depends what you mean by possessiveness. We can never own a person, even one to whom we are married. It is a good thing to care about a person in the same way that we would care about ourselves but then we must know when to stand back and let the other person have a life still, that isn't being scrutinized by us in every detail. For example, everyone needs a place to put their own possessions which is entirely theirs,also people need to have things that belong only to them. We cannot share everything minutely else life becomes smothering and restrictive.