Does it bother you when people starts telling you to get married?

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HI guys, do you ever get annoyed when you meet relatives over a get together party telling you to get married? I mean I get that all the time and it's now getting me annoyed. What's wrong with being single? after all I still have not met the right person and I am personally not ready to settle down.Most of my relatives within my age bracket (27-34) are all married and since some women in my family do not get married especially in mine... they worry that I'll be a spinster too. They try to make me feel bad about being single and constantly joke about me turning to be one of the spinster sistahs. Honestly, it's really annoying. I am happy being single (I mean it really). I don't see anything wrong in enjoying singlehood. In fact I like the freedom and not being tied down with someone else or a baby for that matter. I still cannot picture myself having a baby anytime soon. I know financially I can stand but it's still not enough to raise a child. When I get married and have kids I want to give them the best and I want to be prepared financially, emotionally and spiritually. I also want to wait for the right person, not just any Tom,D*ck and Harry no matter how good looking and rich they are. After all marriage is not just about the looks or the money, it's about being married to the right person at the right place at the right time. I am in no hurry but the relatives are (we are very clanish and close knit) and this pisses me off at times. Right now I have taken a backseat on the love life area. It's been nearly 3 years since I broke up with the ex and they are all worried I might have lost interest in marriage. Any tips on how to ward them off? or stop them from telling me that.