joan2010

@joan2010 (45)

China • Age 40

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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He doesn't like me to surprise him on his birthday

caliya @caliya (1169) • Philippines 31 May 10

Me and my man were talking about his birthday a couple of hours ago. His birthday will be in a month from now. So I told him that I have a birthday surprise for him. I said that he can pack his bag and I will take him somewhere...

birthday surprise

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joan2010 If you really want to have a surprise for him you should give him what he like.As it is a surprise so he should not know what the surprise is before.Don't upset,try to know what his plan is and help him make the plan into practice,after all it's his day.Cheer...

1 Jun 10

Your school and not your experience and skills determines your salary

minyat123 @minyat123 (13) • Philippines 31 May 10

I've been teaching for 5 years. Unfortunately, the academy where i used to work closed. So, I decided to apply in another academy. While waiting for the manager to entertain me and another applicant, we talked. She's 21,...

job

salary

university

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joan2010 For greenhand the empployer may first condider the education,but for the experienced people they may take experience and ability as the most important matters.But things don't always go this way,there are exception.Good company and academy always consider the...

1 Jun 10

make or break?

BYOLA2871 @BYOLA2871 (4371) • South Africa 28 May 10

I have often heard that we need people no matter how self sufficient we think we are and there is this other saying that 'always burn bridges behind you" but i sometimes get a little confused when we discover that the peopel we...

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joan2010 Don't rush to make decision to go on or break up.why he\she does that,there must be reasons,find out the the reasons.If he\she does that on purpose you can burn bridges ,if not,you should consider to go on.A friend is better than a enemy.

28 May 10

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The Trust is Gone, So Why Bother?

chipesterkhan @chipesterkhan (2925) • Philippines 27 May 10

Attempts at reconciliation were made. We had a long discussion about why and how this happened. What were the things we failed to do. What were the things we needed to do. I kept in mind some of the comments i got about why...

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joan2010 you can communicate with your partner ,honest communication is a good way to resolve problems.If she does't want to rebuld the ralationship,you shuld let it go.Otherwise you can give each other a chance,maybe you can lead a wonderful from now on.

28 May 10

Is education the best tool to getting rich?

LotRowena @LotRowena (158) • Philippines 27 May 10

HI there MyLotters. I came to share an idea with you. It is schooling season here in my country once again, this June 2010. So it is again the center of talk if parents would still send their children to high school or college....

get rich

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joan2010 Education can help you get a no bad job but can't gurantee you be rich.Education is one element that lead to be rich.If you want to be rich you shuld have chance ,hardwork,stategic vision....Now is knowledge age so education become more and more...

27 May 10

Getting rid of a hacking cough..Any tips?

maezee @maezee (41988) • United States 24 May 10

Unfortunately - I got sick last Wednesday with a common head-cold: horrible headaches, runny (and stuffy - alternately) nose, congested chest - and worse: hacking cough. Now, thankfully my immune system has kicked most of these...

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joan2010 Maybe you should consider to give up smoking from now on for your hacking cough.somking is bad for your throat and lung and easily lead to hacking cough.In addition to this you can do sports regularly to boost your immune.Giving up somking and do sports can't...

25 May 10

marriage ......... ( 01 )

shibham @shibham (16977) • India 23 May 10

HI FRIENDS,..... hope all of you are well. i want to share an instance of marriage with all of you. how many days are possible to arrange a marry? i mean if you are in love, then how many days u will take to get marry with your...

happy

marriage

time

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joan2010 I can't understand why they rush into marriage,it's like a adventure.I can't get marriage before understand my lover deeply,both of us shuold be reposible for our marriage.

24 May 10

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What are your thoughts on students cell-phone usage in the classroom?

timcke01 @timcke01 (4) • United States 23 May 10

I want to open up a honest discussion on cell-phone usage in the classroom and what I should do to combat the constant texting of my students. I am a instructor at a university and while I only have 30 students per class it is...

cell phone

college

students

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joan2010 For the sake of the students ,there should be policy about restricting cell-phone usege in the classroom.On the other hand try your best to make your lecture more interesting to attract the students'attention.Happy my lotting.

24 May 10

It is over... How does it feel????

mr_pearl @mr_pearl (5018) • India 9 May 10

Dear myLotters... It is Sunday afternoon here... The weekend has come to an end... We'll have to get up early tomorrow morning and go to the office... Friday night's sleep... Saturday night's party... And again complete rest...

office

weekend

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joan2010 Every friday i am always excited for the coming leisure life.I need't get up early and there is no stress,i can do anything that i want to do.But the sunday nighrt is torture ,i need to get up early and face the stress of work ,work for me like a fight,though...

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study harder

mariath @mariath (5) • Philippines 3 May 10

how good it is when you have finished your college, right? you earn a degree and easily get a job? but the fact is, most of the people haven't finish their college...and why? because of financial support and some didn't finish...

finish your college

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joan2010 Hi mariath .I really agree with you that parents should superviese their children as long as they are children.If not once they get along with bad peers and they will be astray.but if parents can prevent the bad action and guide them in time ,they are still...

4 May 10

Can bad luck actually be good?

Bella75 @nixxi76 (3191) • Canada 3 May 10

They say things happen for a reason and I truely believe that. Say you miss a flight because traffic being so slow then you find out that your plane you missed crashes? Or how about this one... your vehicle doesn't start or you...

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joan2010 Hi nixxi.I just want to say that if god close a door for you he will surely open a window for you.There are not something absolutely ,so the other side of bad luck is good luck.When come across bad luck ,don't complain,hurry up,find the window that god open...

4 May 10

Getting married because she is pregnant

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 28 Apr 10

Thanks Steve Wilkos. He had this question. Should a couple who don;t love each other get married because they are going to have a baby? I thought yes and no. Yes if the marriage is only for giving the child a family. And no if a...

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joan2010 Because she is pregnant so the couple should get married for the sake of the child.But if the couple don't love each other ,there will be many problem the process of marriage,and that will affect the child badly.So you may want to be responsible for the child...

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Which kind of life would you prefer?challengeing with pressure or simply life?

ttzhu111 @ttzhu111 (51) • China 28 Apr 10

Hi,My lotters. I am 23 three years old.So far,I have done two different jobs. In my former company I worked as a foreign sales,it's a position you can earn depends on how much endeavor you have contribute to the job.You...

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joan2010 High salary always gets along with pressure,if you don't pursue more and more money and just common life,you need't have to lead high pressure life.Leading a regular life you can have more spare time to do everything you want to do.So following your heart and...

28 Apr 10

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Have you feel sometimes Insercure among others?

jenely103085 @jenely103085 (79) • Philippines 27 Apr 10

I felt sometimes inferiority, I did not meant it but when I saw someone who is beautiful and wealthy I felt unfairness. This is because they almost have everything while others are struggling. Sometimes someone who has a lot,...

overwhelmed

struggling

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joan2010 If your partner love you deeply ,your are the best in his eyes even though the fact is not the case.And if he find his lover is unconfident he will help her establish confidence.The life partner is the one who can accompany you go through to tough time and...

28 Apr 10

Is it more difficult to make friends now than when you were younger?

zralte @zralte (4178) • India 28 Apr 10

I have find it quite difficult to make new friends these days. It is hard in my situation. Living in a different place, completely different culture, and also a business and children which demands my time 24/7. In schools and...

friends

making friends

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joan2010 Is it difficult to make friends or not? I think it depends on your character and your experience,and it nearly has't ralationship with the places.Some people are borned to be inward so they can't make friends easily.If not when you become an adult you will...

28 Apr 10

Does it bother you when people starts telling you to get married?

candyfairy21 @candyfairy21 (2039) • Philippines 26 Apr 10

HI guys, do you ever get annoyed when you meet relatives over a get together party telling you to get married? I mean I get that all the time and it's now getting me annoyed. What's wrong with being single? after all I still...

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joan2010 Maybe you don't lose interest in marriage ,it is just because you still don't find the right person who can ,make you step into marriged life.You can tell your relatives you can be responsible to your life for you are a adult,if you can't get marriaged with...

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Stress, it's not that bad after all. What say you?

tomitomi @tomitomi (5429) • Singapore 26 Apr 10

Some friends and I, we were discussing about stress. How stressed we are lately and ways we can overcome and control it. All of us believe that it's just part of life and that we can't run away from it. While most believe that...

keeps us going

motivates

not that bad afterall

thrives on the adrenaline rush

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joan2010 I agree with what you said.Stress is not so bad if it is in it's optimal level.If we can manage it properly ,stres can motivates us to excel,but if you can't control it well and let it overcome you ,you will feel upset,hopeless...You need to relief so...

27 Apr 10

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Are you longing for someone presence...beside you when you're ill?

cloud31 @cloud31 (5809) 24 Apr 10

When you're ill and in pain are you longing for someone's presence? Do you miss someone to be by your side and give comfort when you feel bad or ill? I'm longing for my ma'ma's hands that make me feel fine her words of comfort,...

sick

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joan2010 Hi cloud,it's right thai when we are ill we really long for someone presence who can give you help and go through the bad time with you.Mother's love is warm,her love can give you energy to fight for the illness and make you feel that you are not lonely and...

26 Apr 10

What fashion do you use to go with?

cloud31 @cloud31 (5809) 6 Apr 10

Do you always go with fashion? Fashion in hair color and style? Fashion in clothing and shoes and even bags... Which fashion do you find yourself going along with? Hope to hear from you my fellow...

fashion trend

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joan2010 Hi,cloud.Maybe i am traditional,i never go with fashion.I just listen to my heart,i like natural things,so i always keep my hair color when i was born and buy clothes and shoes that makes me feel comfortal and look nice.I never throw my clothes until it is...

7 Apr 10

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What do you do to relax?

candyfairy21 @candyfairy21 (2039) • Philippines 6 Apr 10

I went to the beach today with my relatives and it was fun.... I forgot how fun it is to just relax and swim. I have not done that in over a year and it was refreshing! The sea breeze makes me doze off easily and the crashing of...

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joan2010 Maybe listening to music is a good choice to release stress.I often listen to music at work time,as we know during that time we don't have enough time to go to beach for relaxing.Music is good way to remove any psychic hurt,there are all kinds of music so you...

7 Apr 10

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